That sounds beautiful and all but her "
own sexual urges, actions and opinions" is ultimately besides the point and I could care less. My concern is that I know there are predators(no I'm not referring only to rapist) out there looking to pounce be it them going through a phase or whatever. Doesn't really matter their rational for being a predator
I nor any bruh I knew wants their daughter to be some predators prey.
Simple as that ...if he's a quality dude I could care less if she a straight nympho

...well maybe not

Also, while her "
urges" are her own, a persons "
actions" are policed by society to fit cultural norms, and "
opinions" are socialized by that society so that they are aware of those norms(and why they exist). When a bruh has a daughter(child) it's his(their) job to properly socialize the basic building block "
opinions" in such a way for that child to make responsible "
actions" in regard to those "
urges" in the future when out on there own.
To make it simple: In terms of relationships
If my daughter...
1. is having random sex outside the confines of a long term committed relationship.
2. doesn't have the resources on deck to marry in her 20s.
3. doesn't have access to eligible men via her own charms or family introduction
4. doesn't value marriage, children, & family.
5. romantically entertains cac men.
6. adopts feminist ideology.
7. is lesbian / bi.
(I will feel like I failed her on some level)
