If Ur Girlfriend Got Raped....Stay Or Go?

[BruhMayne]

I’ve been with chicks that have been raped.

But let’s flip the question to the brehs, if you were to go to prison and you got your cheeks taken, should your chick stay with you?

Chicks on here were already saying they would look at their dude differently if he got his ass beat down in front of em...so what you expect they would do if he confessed another man commandeered his a$$hole

 

[The BasedFather]

Stay and help her emotionally. I know I wouldn't be able to look at the relationship the same though and eventually break it off.

 

[Poitier]

At the least, I would remain a friendship and check on her.

A relationship would depend on if she is receptive to counseling and other forms of healing.

And not everyone is built to help others deal with trauma, so I can't knock someone who wouldn't stay. You could actually make things worse.

As for people trying to flip genders, women will leave you if you lose your job today so what you think many would do if you had heavy baggage from rape?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Chicks on here were already saying they would look at their dude differently if he got his ass beat down in front of em...so what you expect they would do if he confessed another man commandeered his a$$hole

You know what man, this thread is gettin crazy

 

[Gold]

Do you mean after you met? Or before you met?

Cuz there are alot of women out there that have been sexually molested (some even raped).

regardless i wouldn't leave because of that alone.

Now if it was something that she could not get over (refused counselling/therapy etc) and it was negatively affecting us.... then she's not ready for a relationship and I would have to leave

 

[HonoredOne]

If the relationship is still healthy while she's working through it sure. But if not I'd try to remain friends to make sure they're okay.

 

[kovi]

Even if you don’t stay her her, you should at least be there to support her mentally. Leaving someone hanging over foul shyt like that is scummy.

It’s your fault if you go to jail, it’s not yours if you get raped.

 

[number21]

If it's during my time with her I will go and wish her the best.

Cause I will be wondering how she even got in the position to be raped. Cold and harsh but that's just how it is.

 

[L&HH]

This thread been made before and someoneposted his story of this happening to him. He said he stayed but it fukked up their relationship and they eventually split. He said his girl started resenting him for it and was blaming him. She was raped at an event she wanted him to attend but he couldn't make it.

I'd try my best but shyt like this really damage a relation to no return.

 

[MaxPain]

If it's during my time with her I will go and wish her the best.

Cause I will be wondering how she even got in the position to be raped. Cold and harsh but that's just how it is.

Yeah that would make me

Do you mean after you met? Or before you met?

Cuz there are alot of women out there that have been sexually molested (some even raped).

regardless i wouldn't leave because of that alone.

Now if it was something that she could not get over (refused counselling/therapy etc) and it was negatively affecting us.... then she's not ready for a relationship and I would have to leave

While ur in a relationship with her and it happens

 

[Doobie Doo]

Even if you don’t stay her her, you should at least be there to support her mentally. Leaving someone hanging over foul shyt like that is scummy.

It’s your fault if you go to jail, it’s not yours if you get raped.

You don't know how America works do you , breh

 

[MaxPain]

This thread been made before and what dude posted his story of this happening to him. He said he stayed but it fukked up their relationship and they eventually split. He said his girl started resenting him for it and was blaming him. She was raped at an event she wanted him to attend but he couldn't make it.

Got the idea from that thread but know someone this happened to as well

He left her

 

[Couth]

Stay. I know my girl isnt the type to lie or embellish about something like that.

 

[Gold]

Yeah that would make me



While ur in a relationship with her and it happens

I've dated women who were raped years before I ever met them and there is still a huge psychological and mental impediment to anything sex/intimacy related.

So if it happened while we are dating, there goes all the intimacy of our relationship most likely.
I would relegate myself to a friend because a relationship without intimacy isn't a relationship.

Obviously it wouldn't be her fault, but that doesn't change the fact that it would indirectly effect me.
I wouldn't leave tho... I would still be a friend.


The only way it would stay in the relationship is if we did counselling and therapy immediately

 

[Dad]

Stay and support her, wtf kind of question is this?