"If ur in ur 30's and having hoes n material things excite u ur pathetic!" - Single Mom (PIC ADDED)

[Ronnie Lott]

Shes right. None of that shyt adds meaning to life. And so what if shes a single mother? Most of you were raised by one.

 

[Silkk]

The pic is so fukking typical

 

[Cynic]

What is the distinction? You get excited about things you dont value? I'm just saying as a mature adult my perception is different. I value a woman based on the relationship and bond we have.. Those intangible things add value to my life. What happens if you never achieve your goals? You rejected the finer things in life for what?



A house is shelter , a car is just a car. I just voluntarily took a 13k pay cut for a better career closer to home and less stress. Money always comes to me frequently and abundantly because I'm doing the things I love and not chasing after it.

Once again , not judging you brothas that chose to chase bytches and true religion jeans , but i can assure you there is more to life.

Once again with the high horse sh!t..... You think emotional/spiritual gratification somehow makes you more mature as an adult.
Financial gratification adds value to the lives of others by giving them income and creating a "nest egg" for future generations.
I will reach my goals or die trying it's that simple. What happens when your woman falls sick and you can't afford the best medical care ?

Are you going to pay for it with your intangibles ? :usherlol:


I have assets and disposable income.....women are uncontrollable expendable variables
I'd rather chase/form bonds with clients and partners (at this point) than women


As a pragmatic capitalist ROI alone is just :gotdamnbreh:

 

[chico25]

I'm sure. They same brothers who are rubbing their hands together thinking of the days when they hit their 30s to enjoy their success by buying Jordan's and bagging dimes are the same guys who desperately wanted to marry those 20 something year old black women but couldn't because they all wanted thugs. Ok dude.

I didn't say they were the same guys, I'm not even speaking on the original thread topic but you said.

I
Right point me in the direction of black men wanting to marry 20 something year old black women? These black men don't exist. Not in their 30s or 40s maybe their 50s when they need a nice church woman to administer their diabetes medication.

Which is simply not true. They exist some of them are already married and some are tring to weed through the bullshyt to find a woman worth spending the rest of there life with. Some women just don't have the patience for the screening process. Either because they want everything right now or because they know given enough time they won't be able to keep up the facade of respectability.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

You know why she is a single mother? What if the father died of cancer or a car accident? Would that change your view?



I think that is whats implied.

If you're a 30 year old male and you're still chasing hoes like you're 18.. I would have to agree that is pathetic. I'm 27 and that shyt stopped impressing me 6-7 years ago. Forging bonds , building strong relationships , spending time with family , living in the present , appreciating life and its nuances , living healthy , getting in touch with spirituality , seeing the world , helping something bigger than yourself.. These are the things I appreciate as I grow older.

and that makes you better how??


see the problem is not what you are doing with your life... that is great and i'm not saying that with 1 bit of sarcasm.

the problem comes in when you are doing all these things, then you feel the need to tell others how your life is RIGHT and what they are doing is WRONG... or even less than

you're looking down on people for how they live they life and what's important to them. as if there's a rule book on how you live your life


STOP JUDGING PEOPLE.... your spiritual book probably has a rule about that

 

[Wild self]

GTFOH. Dont attack black men, black man are not the issue. Black women choose the wrong type of black men to mate with, thugs, bad boys. Most black women end up wasting their best years on thugs/badboys while ignoring the nice guy or black nerd that is in to sciences, Maths etc. They now act confused when the thug and bad boy leaves and the black nerd they shunned dont want them no more. The black nerd now is flourishing in his career, buying foreign cars, nice flashy apartment, you really think the nerd would be attracted to a woman whose stock value is losing its value.

People need take responsibility for their lives, if you don't, life will teach you a harsh lesson.

"Bu bu but the thug has all the swag and he gets turnt up in the club all the time. He better than Dexter's boring ass studying computers n shyt like that."

Right point me in the direction of black men wanting to marry 20 something year old black women? These black men don't exist. Not in their 30s or 40s maybe their 50s when they need a nice church woman to administer their diabetes medication.

Those black men are shytted on because of being "lame" and not being like the stereotypes. The educated and humble black man is the most shytted person in the western hemisphere, bar none. Few people know of Neil DeGrasse Tyson, but everyone knows of the swagged out nikka.

Chase got it right, don't blame black men, we face tremedous obstacles in the job scene. Some of these chicks prefer thugs when their young and when their old they have regrets. She looks over 30 and a bit big so she's not gonna have good options of quality men, men of means who are single probably won't cater to her since he can do much better.

She's stuck with lower income dudes even with her bimmer, she still ain't pulling no top brother so she still loses, pre single mother and afterwards.

These sisters choose wrong at young and get mad and bash black men when they fail.

And

I know nikkas in they 40's hanging out with the fellaz, driving nice cars and meeting women, bitterness is talking....

A broke man over 320 can scoop up sisters like her, play xbox and chill and drive her whip all day, they stay heavy here in the south. nikkas don't really have to do anything, just latch onto a single mom and call it a day.

Down south is a monster. I would clean up house with that shyt. Especially if you light skinned and tall.

Yeah man I hit up POF in the ATL area and get a little t if chicks like her... I'm sure she's 30+ single mom now...


Mans a lot of the black chicks that are younger still seem to be "I'm not their type" bullshyt. I don't have a certain look to me and I can tell and I'm cool with it. When she was on her A game I'm sure she pulled the same type of dudes the younger ones trying to chase after now...

Then when they get her age/size, with 2 or 3 different kids they want to try to holla at me and I'm gonna hit them with the

I wasn't your type then. And you not my type now. Oh well

See, some black women be thinking that you have a certain "tone" and swag in order to fukk with them. I keep it 100 with them and spit the truth in a rugged way.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Right point me in the direction of black men wanting to marry 20 something year old black women? These black men don't exist. Not in their 30s or 40s maybe their 50s when they need a nice church woman to administer their diabetes medication.

please... i know too many black men who literally tell me "i ain't fukking with no white girls".. there's MILLIONS of black men in this country.. lets not even get into EARTH

but yet, you have your mind made up that they all the same... that none of them are lining up to marry black women.. and yet every year, millions of black couples get married... so stop with the bullshyt


like homie said... what kind of black men are you dating? you find them in the clubs or at the library? do they have on J's or wing tips? Is he driving a benz with no job or a corrolla working in the junior exec intern pool?



y'all want this cookie cutter man that don't exist.. then get upset when nikkas tell you they don't exist... and still go out there and date a dude, who is clearly inventing an image for you... then he plays you.. using most these material things named in the thread... and goes off with some other hoes...


and suddenly "No black men want me and they all want material shyt and they all chase hoes"


nah... no black nikka you dating wants to marry YOU.. i see black weddings everyday b

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Shes driving a bimmer... But cars don't matter tho

exactly.... in some fresh matching nikes... but we ain't gone talk about that

 

[LadySimone]

please... i know too many black men who literally tell me "i ain't fukking with no white girls".. there's MILLIONS of black men in this country.. lets not even get into EARTH

but yet, you have your mind made up that they all the same... that none of them are lining up to marry black women.. and yet every year, millions of black couples get married... so stop with the bullshyt


like homie said... what kind of black men are you dating? you find them in the clubs or at the library? do they have on J's or wing tips? Is he driving a benz with no job or a corrolla working in the junior exec intern pool?



y'all want this cookie cutter man that don't exist.. then get upset when nikkas tell you they don't exist... and still go out there and date a dude, who is clearly inventing an image for you... then he plays you.. using most these material things named in the thread... and goes off with some other hoes...


and suddenly "No black men want me and they all want material shyt and they all chase hoes"


nah... no black nikka you dating wants to marry YOU.. i see black weddings everyday b

Why do you assume I want to marry a black man or have ever been interested in marrying one? Secondly you guys are the ones who keep mentioning how unmarriageable black women are then Turn around and say oh all my homies marrying Sistas. You can't have it both ways.

It's like so many contradicting narratives are prevailing with black men lying about black women. You guys are marrying them by the truck load while simultaneously they all 30 plus baby momma thug lovers.

I'm just happy I'm not apart of that.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Why do you assume I want to marry a black man or have ever been interested in marrying one? Secondly you guys are the ones who keep mentioning how unmarriageable black women are then Turn around and say oh all my homies marrying Sistas. You can't have it both ways.

It's like so many contradicting narratives are prevailing with black men lying about black women. You guys are marrying them by the truck load while simultaneously they all 30 plus baby momma thug lovers.

I'm just happy I'm not apart of that.

no i never mentioned that.... we assume it because you made the complaint... not caring means you just bringing up shyt you don't care about, to start an argument... and either way, you still wrong

FACT is... black men and black women are getting married every year.... bm / bw are the biggest group vs bm / anyone else or bw / anyone else



don't pay any attention to what these nikkas is talking about... i'm simply making the point black love is out there and EASY to find... and anyone, you or them, saying otherwise... is not only retarded, but can't read simple numbers

 

[LadySimone]

I didn't say they were the same guys, I'm not even speaking on the original thread topic but you said.



Which is simply not true. They exist some of them are already married and some are tring to weed through the bullshyt to find a woman worth spending the rest of there life with. Some women just don't have the patience for the screening process. Either because they want everything right now or because they know given enough time they won't be able to keep up the facade of respectability.

Yeah I heard about those good brothas who are so desperately seeking their Nubian queen. Keep a rotation of women jumping through hoops because he is one in a million.

 

[LadySimone]

no i never mentioned that.... we assume it because you made the complaint... not caring means you just bringing up shyt you don't care about, to start an argument... and either way, you still wrong

FACT is... black men and black women are getting married every year.... bm / bw are the biggest group vs bm / anyone else or bw / anyone else



don't pay any attention to what these nikkas is talking about... i'm simply making the point black love is out there and EASY to find... and anyone, you or them, saying otherwise... is not only retarded, but can't read simple numbers

This is what black women are saying. This is what a black woman said on her face book. One half of the room like yeah we collecting Jordan's and dimes in our 30s and the other half saying I really wanted to marry a nubile Nubian princess but she was chasing thugs and getting pregnant.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

This is what black women are saying. This is what a black woman said on her face book. One half of the room like yeah we collecting Jordan's and dimes in our 30s and the other half saying I really wanted to marry a nubile Nubian princess but she was chasing thugs and getting pregnant.

and she's a retard... cause the FACTS would prove her wrong... and the silly nikkas in this thread too

fact is, they BOTH chasing things they shouldn't be... why men would want a woman who is the type to date thugs and getting knocked up is strange to me.... same as the women chasing the thugs


but then both sides will say "b-b-b-b-b-but i'm just not attracted to the plain jane vanilla types" then cry later on when they single and it becomes "b-b-b-b-b-but no black people want to date each other"

 

[chico25]

This is what black women are saying. This is what a black woman said on her face book. One half of the room like yeah we collecting Jordan's and dimes in our 30s and the other half saying I really wanted to marry a nubile Nubian princess but she was chasing thugs and getting pregnant.

I have never said that black women are not worth marrying in fact I've never tried to put all black women in one category. What I have said is that the ones complaining about black men may need to look in a mirror and be honest with themselves about the choices that led to where they are.

As far as the jumping through hoops statement, it has nothing to do with thinking you are rare and special. Anyone, man or woman, should be somewhat picky and want to know as much as possible about a person they are going to spend the rest of there life with and maybe raise kids with. It's just easier to justify being picky when you bring a lot to the table. You don't want to commit yourself to someone quickly only to find out something later that's a deal breaker.

As far as your point about this being what black women are saying it goes back to my original point, not all black women are saying this, some are happily married or in good relationships. The ones saying it are shifting blame for there circumstances away from there own choices, there are exceptions but the truth is the truth.

 

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