If we are pro choice, we should be anti child support

[BrothaZay]

People like to say "it's a females choice to do what she wants with her body, she can kill the "unborn baby", if thats the case I think a father should have the choice on what he wants to spend his money on. If ho'z don't have to keep their own babies, then fathers shouldnt have to pay for them if they dont want to.

 

[ROFL_GUY]

"womens health"

"womens helath"

 

[BrothaZay]

"womens health" code for its my CHOICE to kill this baby


"womens helath"

There are certain situations where I can understand, but black females alone get 900 abortions a day, so when you add up all the other races im pretty sure we're probably almost at 2,000 a day. Not all of those women have health issues or have been raped

 

[Black_Jesus]

People like to say "it's a females choice to do what she wants with her body, she can kill the "unborn baby", if thats the case I think a father should have the choice on what he wants to spend his money on. If ho'z don't have to keep their own babies, then fathers shouldnt have to pay for them if they dont want to.

You make an interesting point

 

[MeachTheMonster]

 

[Yinny]

 

[CBSkyline]

I think what he is trying to say is, can you really call yourself pro-choice, if you are not pro choice in all areas of child custody/law. Which means if a mother has the choice to terminate her pregnancy or waive her rights to another, a man should have the right to terminate his rights, and get out of paying child support if he so chooses.

The same argument can be made with taking the stance of pro life. For example can you really be pro life and believe that life starts at conception and must be protected, while at the same time be pro death penalty, the opposite of what it means to be pro life.

Or at least I think that is what he is trying to say. I may be way off

 

[Yinny]

I think what he is trying to say is, can you really call yourself pro-choice, if you are not pro choice in all areas of child custody/law. Which means if a mother has the choice to terminate her pregnancy or waive her rights to another, a man should have the right to terminate his rights, and get out of paying child support if so chooses.

The same argument can be made with taking the stance of pro life. For example can you really be pro life and believe that life starts at conception and must be protected, while at the same time be pro death penalty, the opposite of what it means to be pro life.

Or at least I think that is what he is trying to say. I may be way off

Choosing to have or not have a child /= a person being entitled to choose whether they want to take care of someone they created.

There are "Safe Haven" laws and adoption options as an alternative to throwing little ones in the bushes, but it's incredibly counter-productive (to society's welfare) to say okay, you don't have to take care of the lil ones if you don't want to. Bad enough we have too many who don't.

 

[SuburbanPimp]

Nah, cause you also have the choice not to lay down with that Bish and go raw in her...

What you say does make sense in theory

But if that was the case, 95% of men would choose not to pay child support and not fukk with the Mom or the Kid which would make things and society even worse then it is now.


As a dad who has being paying child support since my son was born and helped raise him I'm like at dudes who don't or try to get out of paying child support. Them little b*stards didn't ask to be here. If all you want to do is strictly pay child support and not help with anythign else. I can respect that. But thats the least you can do...

 

[marcuz]

 

[Sierra Mist]

Choosing to have or not have a child /= a person being entitled to choose whether they want to take care of someone they created.

There are "Safe Haven" laws and adoption options as an alternative to throwing little ones in the bushes, but it's incredibly counter-productive (to society's welfare) to say okay, you don't have to take care of the lil ones if you don't want to. Bad enough we have too many who don't.

Your body. Your choice. Your responsibility. Women always want to have their cake and eat it too.

 

[marcuz]

Nah, cause you also have the choice not to lay down with that Bish and go raw in her...

What you say does make sense in theory

But if that was the case, 95% of men would choose not to pay child support and not fukk with the Mom or the Kid which would make things and society even worse then it is now.


As a dad who has being paying child support since my son was born and helped raise him I'm like at dudes who don't or try to get out of paying child support. Them little b*stards didn't ask to be here. If all you want to do is strictly pay child support and not help with anythign else. I can respect that. But thats the least you can do...

so why do you absolve women of all personal responsibility? they have the right to keep their legs closed, birth control, abortion, and adoption.

but it all still falls back to "well, you shouldn't have fukked her"

 

[marcuz]

Your body. Your choice. Your responsibility. Women always want to have their cake and eat it too.

 

[Sierra Mist]

I didn't see your post before I posted that btw.

so why do you absolve women of all personal responsibility? they have the right to keep their legs closed, birth control, abortion, and adoption.

but it all still falls back to "well, you shouldn't have fukked her"

Women have 100% or power when it comes to a child being born or not. She can say "no" to men who want to date/fukk/marry her. She can say she wants an abortion and the man can't do shyt about it. Men on the other hand have zero power when it comes to a child being born yet get 100% of the responsibility.

 

[Yinny]

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