If we are pro choice, we should be anti child support

[Coco Loco]

If it is a woman's choice to have a baby, it's the mans choice to sleep with and impregnate her. The consequences come in when they both have to deal with that child.



You seem to watch too much tv. In real life women aren't running around getting pregnant for $300 worth of foodstams. And do you really think the irresponsible nikka that got her pregnant is going to be responsible enough to keep a job and pay child support. Like i said before, nobody benefits from unwanted children.

The choice a woman gets is whether to abort the baby or not. If she chooses to abort the baby, then both parents avioided the consequences, if she chooses to have the baby, then they both have to deal with the consequences. You are correct that choice is left up to the woman to make, but as a man knowing you can't make that choice, you should take control of the choice you do have, which is getting her pregnant in the first place.

Raising a child with help or not IS being held accountable. Point is when a child comes in this world it is the responsibility of both parents to take care of that kid period. Actually men are getting off easy by paying child support. Child support can't take more than a third your salary, I live with my kids and they get more than 2/3 of my income plus they get 100% of my time and attention. A single mother has to make up for two parents in time and attention AND she has to spend most of her money on the kids. The father just has to send a check every month.

Thank you!

And I wish people would stop trying to blame the other party. Unless you plan on co-parenting with the people you have sex with birth control is a must. Condoms and or the pill/other methods; It's that simple.

 

[Black_Jesus]

If it is a woman's choice to have a baby, it's the mans choice to sleep with and impregnate her. The consequences come in when they both have to deal with that child.

If two people sleep together it's BOTH the man AND the women's choice.. the women can choose not to deal with the consequenses of having a child by simply getting an abortion/take morning after pill... The consequence is ALWAYS in the hands of the women.. women= pro choice Men = no choice after pregnancy

You seem to watch too much tv. In real life women aren't running around getting pregnant for $300 worth of foodstams. And do you really think the irresponsible nikka that got her pregnant is going to be responsible enough to keep a job and pay child support. Like i said before, nobody benefits from unwanted children.

you seem to only put the responsibility on men when it comes to the act of getting pregnant.. not one mention of these hoes keeping their legs open for every nikka that look like their favorite rap artist.. I know women that use and work the system to their advantage.. some real lowlives.. have 3 different baby daddy's with no shame whatsoever.. lol @ too much tv

The choice a woman gets is whether to abort the baby or not. If she chooses to abort the baby, then both parents avioided the consequences, if she chooses to have the baby, then they both have to deal with the consequences. You are correct that choice is left up to the woman to make, but as a man knowing you can't make that choice, you should take control of the choice you do have, which is getting her pregnant in the first place.

Raising a child with help or not IS being held accountable. Point is when a child comes in this world it is the responsibility of both parents to take care of that kid period. Actually men are getting off easy by paying child support. Child support can't take more than a third your salary, I live with my kids and they get more than 2/3 of my income plus they get 100% of my time and attention. A single mother has to make up for two parents in time and attention AND she has to spend most of her money on the kids. The father just has to send a check every month.

I agree with all this except for the bolded.. just because a single mom is supposed to do those things doesnt mean she does...

 

[MeachTheMonster]

If two people sleep together it's BOTH the man AND the women's choice.. the women can choose not to deal with the consequenses of having a child by simply getting an abortion/take morning after pill... The consequence is ALWAYS in the hands of the women.. women= pro choice Men = no choice after pregnancy

Again if the woman aborts the baby neither have to deal with it. I don't understand your problem with that. If she decides to have the baby BOTH have to deal with the consequences. We all know women get to make that decision, so as a man you should take control of the decision you DO have, which is having sex in the first place.

you seem to only put the responsibility on men when it comes to the act of getting pregnant.. not one mention of these hoes keeping their legs open for every nikka that look like their favorite rap artist.. I know women that use and work the system to their advantage.. some real lowlives.. have 3 different baby daddy's with no shame whatsoever.. lol @ too much tv

No I'm in here talking to males, you are a male, so im addressing males. If this was a thread full of women talking about dead beat dads, I would tell them the same thing, quit fukking them. These women you speak of are scum and 9 times out of 10 the nikka that slept with them knew that going in. But that still doesn't mean these women are living the high life off foodstamps and child support. Again the average baby mamma is broke and fukked up, not living it up off of some poor defenseless dudes paycheck.

I agree with all this except for the bolded.. just because a single mom is supposed to do those things doesnt mean she does...

If she's not doing those things AND you are paying child support, then you have some legal avenues you can follow to protect yourself and your child. In reality a worthless woman who is not taking care of her kids isn't attracting a responsible dude anyway, so none of this applies.