If you couldn't Attract your Dream\Soul Mate in your 20s or 30s, is it likely to happen in your 40s and Older?

[Stuntone]

I was telling this chick at Happy Hour that i've dated-been in relationships with about 6 girls that I was crazy about and thought I was going to married.

She responds "Wow, I've never dated a man that made me feel like that. " I tell her, "you 40 now, it's going to be even harder to attract that type of magic

at our age." She looked stunned.





Anybody else having attracted a great mate and are in their 30s? Sorry to give you do news, but it's probably isn't going to happen.

 

[kingjones29]

Anything is possible, but it will be harder in your 40s.

 

[Stuntone]

Anything is possible, but it will be harder in your 40s.

I don't think it's possible unless you change you expectations.

 

[Yas]

You don’t know that, and if I was her I would question your motives for saying that weird statement because it was unnecessary.

 

[KeysT]

You don’t know that, and if I was her I would question your motives for saying that weird statement because it was unnecessary.

Statistically it’s true. She’s older so it will be harder. Maybe an a$$hole thing to say but it’s a fact.

 

[MoveForward]

Say champ… You make a lot of relationship based threads. Apparently you’re having motion… IT money, you live in DC, you own shyt, etc…. Why aren’t you married to the woman of your dreams with kids?


On topic though, it’s never too late to find your person.

 

[Solomon Lurke]

I met my wife at around 32-33 so definitely possible. I’ve seen people find that person in their 40s but also had a slightly different approach to it. Basically that they are looking for a companion and someone to spend their time with that clicks. It may not be some magical aha moment like most people hope for.

 

[Apprentice]

shyt lol, that shyt hard to hit off rn in my 20s

I said it the other day, the older I get the less loyalty woman owe me in terms of relationships

 

[Tair]

I don't think it's possible unless you change you expectations.

Well then you aren't getting your soul mate. You are settling down out of fear of being alone.

The world is diverse and large, it is definitely possible.

She'll just have to put herself in settings that her ideal mate will likely be in.

 

[Raphaello]

The easiest time to find a soulmate is when your younger than 20 and older than 50. At those ages you tend to have less obligations and follow your heart rather than your head.

 

[010101]

soulmate¿*

 

[Sccit]

PROBABLY HARDER FOR WOMEN THAN MEN

 

[MikelArteta]

No such thing as a soulmate

what are the odds that your "soulmate" is in your city

 

[Auger]

There's no such thing as a dream/soulmate

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

The "magic" is just lust anyway