If you couldn't Attract your Dream\Soul Mate in your 20s or 30s, is it likely to happen in your 40s and Older?

[BBG]

I can only speak on my own experiences. Everybody has a crackhead in they family, but mine was my father. Muthafukka been aint shyt my whole life, I even put the paws on him one time for having my lil brother out all night on a school night cuz he wanna get high.

I say that to say, some chick he went to highschool with (whom he never dated or was even close with, mind you) hit him up on facebook several years ago, he had to be about 49-51 at the time. Comes to find out, she's super successful, living in a beautiful gated community in Florida, and she actually negotiates MLB contracts for players. I cant make this shyt up. My pappy gets with her, but because he's an addict he still cheats on her and does drugs. She almost finally left him after some years, but finally he got his act together.


Fast forward to today, he been clean for a lil while, lives with her now in that big ass house with undeground pool and jacuzzi, mfer gives him an allowance, just living great. Now I dont know if she's his "soul mate" per se, but this mothafukka won I'd be lying if I said I dont be hating on him sometimes lol. Like he did everything WRONG in life and some life-changing blessing just falls out the sky and you did NOTHING to deserve it. shyt wild


But yeah, if you throw away the goofy ass "soul-mate" term and just focus on happiness with a partner, you can absolutely find it at any age.

 

[Raphaello]

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Above 50 how do you not have obligations?

It’s all relative. But generally the kids are older and you have more money.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Your best bet is ages 23-28. If you dont get lucky by then, its gonna be slim pickings because the cream of the crop of women who have a good head on their shoulders have been taken out the dating market and likely married like minded nikkas.

Past the age of 30 you working with women who are emotionally unavailable and those who have deep scars from failed marriages and long term relationships so they are in a hurry and not willing to let shyt play out before yall commit. The rest of them are bitter women who mis-managed their pussies in their younger years and are now jaded blaming everybody but themselves for being lonely.


I missed my golden opportunity in my early 20s because i was trying to focus on my career and set myself up to stack bread, so the one girl I thought was perfect in every regard ended up getting scooped up by a smarter nikka. Last I checked a couple years ago they were still together and that nikka apparently broke her virginity


Now im older, out here with bread stacked...but the market is full of scraps. I fukked up

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

Anything is possible, but it will be harder in your 40s.

No it’s not.

 

[BunchePark]

I got my wife super early in the game

I feel for y'all sometimes reading your posts but then I realize it's a lot of whiny puss ass nikkas on here

 

[Amo Husserl]

It's all on you.
I had an opportunity to lock a good one down, realized it would be best for her to go her own way, bushed her because of the realization and knew at the time I wasn't going to find that any time soon thereafter. I was right. What my life could have been versus what it is; accept the reality of the situation.
All that soulmate talk is nonsense, you either recognize a good match and lock it down, play the averages and learn to be happy with what you get or choose to stay out of it entirely. I chose solitude. I regretted my decision early into it, but it gets easier over time as you accept your choice and act on the path you've chosen for yourself.
It's all on you.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Yall looking for soul mates?

 

[Roid Jones]

Soul mate?! believe in fairy tales brehs

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Yall looking for soul mates?

More than that...



KINDRED SOUL FLAMES.



(that's the hybrid of a Kindred spirit, soul mate AND twin flame).



I'm actually in canoodling and cavorting with a woman two years my junior (38). She moved here from sweden after highschool to attend college and ultimately became a back surgeon.



Her husband (who was ten years her senior) passed away a few years ago of canceritis, left her a winery and whatever she was the beneficiary of (she lives in a fukkin dope ass apartment in downtown; high ceilings, multiple bed rooms, hella bottles of S Pellegrino in the fridge, telescopes in every corner of the place, a rustic leather sofa that appears vintage and costly... in essence: she has hella money and it shows) and then... here I am in the equation. lol.



Just think of that one season of Master of None where Aziz was cold gaming Claire Dames, who was clearly out of his league, but she fell for him based on his charm/wit/humor ---- and that's exactly how i scored this Swedish chick... cuz it defintely ain't my money cuz i got very little. lol.




She's a sweet gal, carries herself like a high value woman, doesn't wants kids, generous, prolly has tremendously awesome credit and doesn't need anything from me... and as much as I'd like to spend prolly the rest of my life with her, tomorrow is never promised. I just don't know how much we really have in common besides the physical part.




Kinda sucks she's such a massive City Girls fan... but whatever. Her strengths utterly outweigh her shortcoming(s) and she's just soo fukkin' chill. This is why i prefer women after a certain age (generally speaking) because they're so blase blase, mid energy (which i prefer) and just appear to be glad to be alive it seems.




I still think about what coulda been with my previous two exes (the lawyer and the paralegal that's in law school now... yeah i have a type, hee hee). But... that's life.



Never thought I'd score a doctor, but i'm pretty sure this is going to be very short term and this is not a brag post because there's chances she's prolly fukkin' other guys.




You're right... it's impossible to find your dream love in your 40's. Especially with how picky i is.




Hmph.










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[NoirDynosaur]

In my 20's and late teens, it was easier because we're more open and emotional.

After 25, we become more logical and more skeptical of new people.

I met a girl who I was really into at my college. It was a once in a lifetime thing because she had charisma, sex appeal, could have a conversation and was cool mentally. The timing was messed up the situation. Still miss her till this day.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

More than that...



KINDRED SOUL FLAMES.



(that's the hybrid of a Kindred spirit, soul mate AND twin flame).



I'm actually in canoodling and cavorting with a woman two years my junior (38). She moved here from sweden after highschool to attend college and ultimately became a back surgeon.



Her husband (who was ten years her senior) passed away a few years ago of canceritis, left her a winery and whatever she was the beneficiary of (she lives in a fukkin dope ass apartment in downtown; high ceilings, multiple bed rooms, hella bottles of S Pellegrino in the fridge, telescopes in every corner of the place, a rustic leather sofa that appears vintage and costly... in essence: she has hella money and it shows) and then... here I am in the equation. lol.



Just think of that one season of Master of None where Aziz was cold gaming Claire Dames, who was clearly out of his league, but she fell for him based on his charm/wit/humor ---- and that's exactly how i scored this Swedish chick... cuz it defintely ain't my money cuz i got very little. lol.




She's a sweet gal, carries herself like a high value woman, doesn't wants kids, generous, prolly has tremendously awesome credit and doesn't need anything from me... and as much as I'd like to spend prolly the rest of my life with her, tomorrow is never promised. I just don't know how much we really have in common besides the physical part.




Kinda sucks she's such a massive City Girls fan... but whatever. Her strengths utterly outweigh her shortcoming(s) and she's just soo fukkin' chill. This is why i prefer women after a certain age (generally speaking) because they're so blase blase, mid energy (which i prefer) and just appear to be glad to be alive it seems.




I still think about what coulda been with my previous two exes (the lawyer and the paralegal that's in law school now... yeah i have a type, hee hee). But... that's life.



Never thought I'd score a doctor, but i'm pretty sure this is going to be very short term and this is not a brag post because there's chances she's prolly fukkin' other guys.




You're right... it's impossible to find your dream love in your 40's. Especially with how picky i is.




Hmph.










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Who the fukk is supposed to read all that?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I swear people on here act like you’re dead past 40

I got a homie/mentor now that if he wasn’t married he’d have old and young chicks after him. I’ve seen it at the gym. He’s a handsome dude and it’s the way he carries himself…

He’s 53

 

[Shadow King]

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It’s all relative. But generally the kids are older and you have more money.

That money comes with responsibility and routine.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

I swear this site has been taken over by early 20's - mid 20's age people. fukk do ya'll think happens after you turn 30 or hell even 50?

 

[Roid Jones]

I swear this site has been taken over by early 20's - mid 20's age people. fukk do ya'll think happens after you turn 30 or hell even 50?