If you couldn't Attract your Dream\Soul Mate in your 20s or 30s, is it likely to happen in your 40s and Older?
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Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
My girl is cool and I'll probably put a ring on it, but I ain't head over heels for her. We just work.
I said it before, at 38...if this don't work, imma be a demon in these streets. I don't need companionship. I like meeting new people, having some good convo, smashing for a few weeks/months, and then moving to the next one. That's how I'm built. Only settling down because I want a family. I'd be on some George Clooney shyt if I had paper like that. Single and fukking around until I'm in my 50's.
There is no soul mate, there's just people you're compatible with for the long-term.
I said it before, at 38...if this don't work, imma be a demon in these streets. I don't need companionship. I like meeting new people, having some good convo, smashing for a few weeks/months, and then moving to the next one. That's how I'm built. Only settling down because I want a family. I'd be on some George Clooney shyt if I had paper like that. Single and fukking around until I'm in my 50's.
There is no soul mate, there's just people you're compatible with for the long-term.
dr. pill biden
All Star
breh how the fukk that happen *6* timesI was telling this chick at Happy Hour that i've dated-been in relationships with about 6 girls that I was crazy about and thought I was going to married.
She responds "Wow, I've never dated a man that made me feel like that. " I tell her, "you 40 now, it's going to be even harder to attract that type of magic
at our age." She looked stunned.
Anybody else having attracted a great mate and are in their 30s? Sorry to give you do news, but it's probably isn't going to happen.
Depends on how u take care of yourself and prepare financially. I'm 40 but will get carded for liquor if I shave my beard. People swear I'm 25/30. Had to fall back socially due to all these damn viruses in the air but I get 20 something year olds flirting with me just from riding my bike around the city. It can happen
Soul mate? Yes it's possible
Dream mate? Not likely
Dream mate? Not likely
ndthentherewasx
El Capitan
Nothing to do with age, finances, time, distance, the soul is not bound to those constructs.
You already have soulmates, many of them. The thing is they aren't obgliated to be romantic lovers. They can be friends, family, mentors and sometimes yes partners. But in the context of this fairy tale romance (twin flames), the "ONE", if that really is the scenario, it can happen well into middle or even later age, sometimes with huge age gaps because that kind of connection goes beyond whatever relationship template you think it should fit in.
If you want to bring more people that you have soul bonds with into your life...get in tune with your soul.
You already have soulmates, many of them. The thing is they aren't obgliated to be romantic lovers. They can be friends, family, mentors and sometimes yes partners. But in the context of this fairy tale romance (twin flames), the "ONE", if that really is the scenario, it can happen well into middle or even later age, sometimes with huge age gaps because that kind of connection goes beyond whatever relationship template you think it should fit in.
If you want to bring more people that you have soul bonds with into your life...get in tune with your soul.
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To me, soul mate just means the person that will ride with you till death. People over 40 can find that. But they aren't gonna be the Tupac in a business suit/Dimepiece they dream about.It's possible to hit the Powerball Lottery, not likely and don't bet on it.
dr. pill biden
All Star
why didn’t you marry any of them?
No.
Above 50 how do you not have obligations?
I disagree, soulmates exist, the likelihood of meeting is just some galactic level odds.