If you don't want to pay for dates....

[Neuromancer]

Shouldn't you just find a woman who will ask you out so she has to pay?

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

For me it’s pretty simple

If she ain’t the type of woman I wanna pay for, I don’t take her ass on a date in the first place....and if further calculations showed me she ain’t worth paying for, she not getting hit up for anymore dates

 

[humminbird]

Have a list of restaurants you’re willing to pay for 2
Have her choose from that list
If she picks something not from that list(she’ll pick something if she likes you) suggest coffee
Rinse repeat

 

[BaggerofTea]

Just hit up the hotdog stand and take a walk in the part.

You are a stupid motherfukker to take a woman you dont even know on a restaurant date the first time around.

 

[Neuromancer]

Just hit up the hotdog stand and take a walk in the part.

You are a stupid motherfukker to take a woman you dont even know on a restaurant date the first time around.

 

[TL15]

Meet her at a park during the day. This will solve all issues:

If she’s super “made up” you’ll know she’s not cute

if she’s overweight and using angles you’ll know when she’s sweating from being outdoors

if she’s a gold digger she’ll decline

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Y’all making this complicated as fukk
If a woman is really feeling you
It doesn’t matter where you go
Who pays
She just wants to be in your presence
If these are just quick smash and dashes
Telling her let’s meet at *insert coffee/bar*
If she shows up
Then you fukking with a real one
If she flakes
Saved yourself some money and time
And proceed to hunt at the bar
Work smarter not harder

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

I live downtown. If me and a chick doing something, it’s downtown. For one, everybody know me and shyt so I’m always bumping into people or the people in the stores or food spot may know me and it make me look cool as hell Then, my spot down here. So it ain’t nothing to be like, oh come with me to the house to get my charger, or we might as well go smoke one before or after, or shyt, this place crowded as hell, man I got liquor at the crib

Then, we doing something light, like going to get some drinks or some shyt. shyt sometimes I still spend like $70 on drinks and appetizers and shyt and be like It’s all part of the game though. I’m basically taking these chicks to my neighborhood spots I be going to anyway. Anytime a woman suggest something outside my area I be like naw. And I tell them I don’t leave city limits

Basically, you gotta have home court advantage on these hoes.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Shouldn't you just find a woman who will ask you out so she has to pay?

This will leave a lot of brehs dry dikked. Terrible advice homie.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

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Y’all making this complicated as fukk
If a woman is really feeling you
It doesn’t matter where you go
Who pays
She just wants to be in your presence
If these are just quick smash and dashes
Telling her let’s meet at *insert coffee/bar*
If she shows up
Then you fukking with a real one
If she flakes
Saved yourself some money and time
And proceed to hunt at the bar
Work smarter not harder

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Have a list of restaurants you’re willing to pay for 2
Have her choose from that list
If she picks something not from that list(she’ll pick something if she likes you) suggest coffee
Rinse repeat

First few dates don't do this. You have to establish you can make decisions and lead. Tell her this is where I'm treating you. Because that's exactly what it is, you're treating her. If she objects, then bush her.

Just imagine, you decide to treat your friend and say hey man, let's go to Red Lobster, on me! And he responds with nah, you can take me to Pappadeaux though. It's a total fukk you type thing to do. Don't make an excuse just because the person has a p*ssy. Especially you don't even know this person like that.

 

[The ADD]

Y’all making this complicated as fukk
If a woman is really feeling you
It doesn’t matter where you go
Who pays
She just wants to be in your presence
If these are just quick smash and dashes
Telling her let’s meet at *insert coffee/bar*
If she shows up
Then you fukking with a real one
If she flakes
Saved yourself some money and time
And proceed to hunt at the bar
Work smarter not harder

^^^

 

[humminbird]

First few dates don't do this. You have to establish you can make decisions and lead. Tell her this is where I'm treating you. Because that's exactly what it is, you're treating her. If she objects, then bush her.

Just imagine, you decide to treat your friend and say hey man, let's go to Red Lobster, on me! And he responds with nah, you can take me to Pappadeaux though. It's a total fukk you type thing to do. Don't make an excuse just because the person has a p*ssy. Especially you don't even know this person like that.

I agree

 

[Neuromancer]

This will leave a lot of brehs dry dikked. Terrible advice homie.

Do you mean to tell me women aren't approaching men? Equality and all that.

 

[semicko82]

Shouldn't you just find a woman who will ask you out so she has to pay?