If you don't want to pay for dates....

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Go to a park or a public art or music festival ( post-COVID)

COVID should be the best excuse for those who are hard on funds or just don’t wanna spend money


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Let’s hit up CVS and get tested/vaccinated gurl....
 

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If she is a dyme, dudes would pay 100%



When people like each other, money ain't an issue.

This chick I met on POF, she invited me to her aunties house, she cooked me lunch, we went for a free museum, cheap drinks after, came back & smashed on her aunties couch.
 

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If she is a dyme, dudes would pay 100%



When people like each other, money ain't an issue.

This chick I met on POF, she invited me to her aunties house, she cooked me lunch, we went for a free museum, cheap drinks after, came back & smashed on her aunties couch.
That’s a trick mentality
That same dime got dudes who don’t have to a damn thing to get her time and attention
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
You're referring to a woman that either

A). Already knows you and likes you

B) Has an agenda e.g. Already knows she gonna fukk you.


Not some chick you're just meeting and doesn't fit either if those yet
You must not have substantial dealings with women
Women know if they are fukking with you or not
In the first few minutes of meeting you
It’s brehs who can attest to this on this very site
Of having the ability to pull like that
And in my lifetime
I’ve had the pleasure of meeting women(my wife included)
That felt comfortable enough with me on the first meeting
That spent the whole afternoon/evening together
And gave into sin
But I’ll let you call it:duck:
And be contrarian/devils advocate loved one
I know that’s how you grumpy nikkas get down:salute:
 

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The last real relationship I was in, when we first me she said she was new to Chicago and hadn’t really been out and about in the city. So I asked her out that night and as a first date the next day, I told her to dress comfortable and wear sneakers. We rode the train around the city going to different neighborhoods. I think we tried to go to ribfest but we got lost or couldn’t find it. Went to the fountain, the cloud etc. We just rode the train and walked the city eating ice cream in the summer, getting to know eachother.

If a woman actually likes you, it doesn’t matter what you guys do on a date as long as it’s your company she wants.
 

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What's wrong with taking a lady out for a nice meal? If you build rapport through phone conversations and video chatting, she will alley-oop that puzzy in your lap. Dudes know when a broad isn't really feeling them like that and they try to force it and then get in their feelings when the date doesn't go as planned.
 

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Y’all making this complicated as fukk:russ:
If a woman is really feeling you
It doesn’t matter where you go
Who pays
She just wants to be in your presence
If these are just quick smash and dashes
Telling her let’s meet at *insert coffee/bar*
If she shows up
Then you fukking with a real one
If she flakes
Saved yourself some money and time
And proceed to hunt at the bar
Work smarter not harder:sas1:
thread.
 
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The Ghetto of Oz
You must not have substantial dealings with women
Women know if they are fukking with you or not
In the first few minutes of meeting you
It’s brehs who can attest to this on this very site
Of having the ability to pull like that
And in my lifetime
I’ve had the pleasure of meeting women(my wife included)
That felt comfortable enough with me on the first meeting
That spent the whole afternoon/evening together
And gave into sin
But I’ll let you call it:duck:
And be contrarian/devils advocate loved one
I know that’s how you grumpy nikkas get down:salute:

See option B) above
 

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Meet her at a park during the day. This will solve all issues:

If she’s super “made up” you’ll know she’s not cute :usure:

if she’s overweight and using angles you’ll know when she’s sweating from being outdoors :ufdup:

if she’s a gold digger she’ll decline :yeshrug:
All this is nonsense
 
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