If you ever needed to be reminded of why #GMB is undefeated...read r/DeadBedrooms

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How many of these men provide a relaxing home environment where their wives have time to get in the mood?

How much of the women's time is spent on her family and personal interests vs. working under (:huhldup:) other men in order to have an acceptable standard of living?

Finance before romance.

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I'm digging the female trolling on here. You should tweet this joke to Amy Schumer, it would have been the funniest thing in her last (uneventful) special. :heh:
 
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Women enjoy sex just as much as men. A sexless marriage/relationship is a 2 way street. Sex is emotional to women as well. If you dont take care of her emotional needs, why would she have sex with you? Theres ALWAYS a reason behind not being intimate with your partner. These couples need better communication...........

ok sister....riddle me this:

what the next step after you've sat your wife down and calmly, with an even voice asked what you can do to make things better, what does she need you to do...she then proceeds to cuss you out...blame you...and offer no explanation for her behavior....

this attempt at 'communication' happened atleast 3 times....with similar results


whats your next step?
 

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My boss got a divorce from his wife for this very reason. Lol I broke my phone once and for whatever reason I think I was waiting on the new iPhone so he gave me his old phone. I remember asking him if he made sure he erased it he said he did but he didn't realize he never took out the sd card. He had videos on there of some chick, it looked personal so I always assumed that he was cheating on his wife. But yeah, he's not the only one either, some of these men here are so miserable (mostly white) they complain all the time about this. shyt must be bad when ur not even embarrass to admit it in front of people :wow:
Oh yeah one of our wine vendors is always complaining about how he never gets any from his wife so one day he was up here talking to us and his wife called him and asked him to bring home wine coolers. It was pretty early so he was grumbling about it. I was like what you getting mad for that's good way for you loosen her up a bit and get some. He busted out laughing and was like yeah right I got some last night I'll be lucky if I get any for another two weeks. He actually called his wife in the phone in front of me and told her what I said she was on speaker and they both started laughing she was like
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you already got some last night buddy. I laughed but that shyt was sad to me. I guessbthats why he be fukkkng strippers behind her back. But shyt she probably knows and doesn't care :bryan:
White people are crazy. I had a former boss who married a younger chick and was punching a bit above his weight class. He got her pregnant when she was right out of college and he was in his 30's but looking a bit :flabbynsick:. I only worked with him for a year and their relationship was a bit on and off. One time she had sent him a text that was a pic of her and some other guy sticking their middle fingers at the camera and captioned "fukk you John [his name isn't John]". Dude proceeds to post it on his facebook blasting his business to the entire world on some "look at what my wife just sent me."
 

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"But mostly, I look over at her, and I'm either angry and resentful, or just sad. I know she's not sexually interested in me anymore. So I try to not snap at her or otherwise be short, but it's hard to contain my heart dropping through my stomach. I still do love my wife. I feel butterflies looking at her."
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Men should stop settling for women that only like them for their personality or else they could end up like the men in these stories. Personality isn't enough in a lot of cases and having no actual physical attraction is a problem.

Their woman is just settling for them and get bored eventually.
 

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By primal nature at its very core man is supposed to exercise his options.
These dudes are not the dominant partner in the relationship.
I can't imagine that this is how most 'nice' guys have it.
 

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My boss got a divorce from his wife for this very reason. Lol I broke my phone once and for whatever reason I think I was waiting on the new iPhone so he gave me his old phone. I remember asking him if he made sure he erased it he said he did but he didn't realize he never took out the sd card. He had videos on there of some chick, it looked personal so I always assumed that he was cheating on his wife. But yeah, he's not the only one either, some of these men here are so miserable (mostly white) they complain all the time about this. shyt must be bad when ur not even embarrass to admit it in front of people :wow:
Oh yeah one of our wine vendors is always complaining about how he never gets any from his wife so one day he was up here talking to us and his wife called him and asked him to bring home wine coolers. It was pretty early so he was grumbling about it. I was like what you getting mad for that's good way for you loosen her up a bit and get some. He busted out laughing and was like yeah right I got some last night I'll be lucky if I get any for another two weeks. He actually called his wife in the phone in front of me and told her what I said she was on speaker and they both started laughing she was like
tenor.gif
you already got some last night buddy. I laughed but that shyt was sad to me. I guessbthats why he be fukkkng strippers behind her back. But shyt she probably knows and doesn't care :bryan:
Breh, go to the "do y'all fukk with escorts" thread in jbo. GMB is a way of life. Everybody cheating except whenbitbwith an escort it's not cheating because it's like jacking off.
 

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i was in a marriage that ended up like this...dried up to about once a month....

those cats are right...you get pissed....

its a weird dichotomy to be in being mad at somebody and still be turned on by them...

if youre not careful it can put you in a bad place mentally
No such thing as rape if she's your wife:shaq:
 

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ok sister....riddle me this:

what the next step after you've sat your wife down and calmly, with an even voice asked what you can do to make things better, what does she need you to do...she then proceeds to cuss you out...blame you...and offer no explanation for her behavior....

this attempt at 'communication' happened atleast 3 times....with similar results


whats your next step?
At that point it seems as if she's not into you, or the marriage. So..........a separation would be my next step:yeshrug:
 

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If you don't show the type of affection a man responds to, your emotional needs will be neglected.
Women have tried that stupid game with me...lol. If you're attractive and confident that game ends. I simply treat shorty like a low ranking male friend until she goes away...the attempt is disrespectful. No hugs, no terms of endearment, no chivalry....then purposely have an overlap to the next relationship.
I learned this from watching what women react to: being ignored and/or taking the thoughts they have and being extreme.
Women also have curious frenemies.
Of course, all of this isn't necessary.
Tactical games call for tactical games. Don't even show frustration....laugh in a bytch face. Disappear. She just reduced her worth to box by using it as a bargaining chip.

So basically..............its a 2 way street like a said. She's neglecting you. You're neglecting her. Sex life is being neglected period.

I dont see how its a bargaining chip though. If ya'll both are neglectful in every other way, why would ya'll be having sex? How do you get turned on by someone who neglects you? How is your dikk even getting hard for a woman that wont even kiss or hug you? Of course sex would be off the table. If anything, ya'll are BOTH playing the "game".
 

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i divorced her a year ago

Thats good. I dont think you were in the wrong for that. You tried.

Who wants to have sex in a shytty relationship tho? Thats my question. bad communication skill, bad conflict resolution skills, subpar relationship overall. Who wants to have sex under those conditions? I wouldnt:manny:
 
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