Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
It doesn’t matter. Men gonna pay. Ain’t nothin’ free.
Hell, sometimes Money is the easiest way to pay - you can replace money. You can’t replace time, and you can’t replace your life.
If you gotta jump thru hoops, pay for this and pay for that to get a woman, is that an ugly gang/ lame tax?
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It doesn’t matter. Men gonna pay. Ain’t nothin’ free.
Hell, sometimes Money is the easiest way to pay - you can replace money. You can’t replace time, and you can’t replace your life.
You tried but the plane didn't land like you thought it would.
Liking me and me liking you is not enough. I have plenty people who we like each other. That doesn't mean they get the things a man wants from a relationship with a woman from me. What are ya'll in middle school?
If you wanted to ask are there additional requirements then all you had to do was ask. No need to be a smart ass and hide behind the WMs video.
I don't worry if men will take me on dates because I only deal with men that will be willing to do that and have the money to do it fluently without it being a burden on them.
The way y'all quibble about the most basic interactions is so obvious why relationships nowadays don't work.
My baseline requirements:
Round 1 (Acknowledgement)
1. Attractive
2. Has a career
3. Formally educated
Round 2 (Getting to know each other)
1. Consistent
2. Moral
3. Compatible
4. Meets my life style requirements
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Chemistry
Round 3 (Dating exclusively)
1. Do our lifestyles successfully integrate?
2. Do the previous requirements stand the test of time?
Round 4 (Long Term Commitment)
1. Continuation of Rounds 3 with more serious and grounded permanent undertones.
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I would love for a lot of y'all to just to admit that you don't have the money to date.
I'd respect it more than you trying to blame everybody else.
There are plenty of dusty women who are okay with never going on a date? Honestly more than there should be.
Why don't you want those women? Why do you insist that the women with standards actually lower these standards for you?
I'd respect it more than you trying to blame everybody else.
There are plenty of dusty women who are okay with never going on a date? Honestly more than there should be.
Why don't you want those women? Why do you insist that the women with standards actually lower these standards for you?
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Mr.Bigglesworth
Formerly "It Was Always Jerry" that account 🔒 Smh
I agree. My time is more important.
DJ Paul's Arm
Veteran
I don’t have these problems. Hoes buy me stuff.
I mean if you really like someone, it shouldn't be a problem taking them on a date.
The gag is knowing who is there based off mutual attraction and who is there cuz they're bored or hungry.
Figure that out and you eliminate half your problems.
The gag is knowing who is there based off mutual attraction and who is there cuz they're bored or hungry.
Figure that out and you eliminate half your problems.
What kind of hoops do some of you brehs have to jump through? I’m genuinely curious about that.
Most of the women I’ve dated, fukked and been in relationships with, introduced themselves. That’s not to say I’ve never been the pursuer, but I’ve never gone out of my way or jumped through hoops.
Most of the women I’ve dated, fukked and been in relationships with, introduced themselves. That’s not to say I’ve never been the pursuer, but I’ve never gone out of my way or jumped through hoops.
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Superstar
Is this a general question or directed towards someone specifically?
If it’s directed towards me, I have no problem if I meet someone and invite them out for a drink or some type of outing. Zero problem.
This was more so about all these hoops a guy gotta jump thru to see her
I’ve never had a woman ask me to pay her rent or pay for her nails. But I do know guys who’ve done that or are doing that. And they aren’t broke.i remember seeing this when i was a kid before these internet discussions. Idk if they see it as their responsibility.., they’re trying to be “good men” or they have to do it in order for the women to stay around…that’s why the discussion.
There are levels here. You ask somebody out, you should pay. If you are interested in being with them, you should be asking them out. As a man, in a mature relationship you will be coming out them pockets. Pimp culture aka predatory weak ass men and insecure women have ruined dating. Got dudes thinking that spending any sort of money is getting played or simping.
However if thats all there is to it and she is just using you for dinners and gifts, thats different. You shouldnt have to be spending exorbitant sums of money or going through a bunch of BS if she actually likes you.
Some dudes do lead with that though. You cant be mad if people looking for that respond in kind. No different than chicks having their ass out and being all provacative. Cant be mad dudes tryna smash.
However if thats all there is to it and she is just using you for dinners and gifts, thats different. You shouldnt have to be spending exorbitant sums of money or going through a bunch of BS if she actually likes you.
Some dudes do lead with that though. You cant be mad if people looking for that respond in kind. No different than chicks having their ass out and being all provacative. Cant be mad dudes tryna smash.
Dwayne_Taylor
Superstar
I could never "like" a man who thought he shouldn't have to take me out or pay for dates.
The bare minimum is paying for a date.
Dating a woman with this stance is how you end up with a wife or girlfriend who will only have sex with you on date night after ...if she’s not tired.
Dating a man who thinks it is wrong to require any stimulating outside of looking at his ass is how you end up bored and miserable. He'll have you looking at the nikka in the office thinking damn I wish I was with him instead.
I'm social and I like social men. I don't understand why you have an issue with that.
Yes. Handsome gang just needs to exist.
At least thats what hear from handsome gang acquaintances.
This is the origin of that "just be yourself" line
I like, how you conveniently skipped over the post where I actually quoted you to try to go and make this post about you.
I’ve never experienced this, but I heard many brehs have. Let’s discuss
Sounds like a woman with options.
#BOTHSIDES
Superstar
You just like to argue…
I don’t see the problem with someone saying two ppl liking each other should be the bare minimum and then move on to the next level after that