If you gotta jump thru hoops, pay for this and pay for that to get a woman, is that an ugly gang/ lame tax?

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You just like to argue…

I don’t see the problem with someone saying two ppl liking each other should be the bare minimum and then move on to the next level after that

Oh it's my fault?



No you just couldn't stand on your shyt so you evaded to try to engage me on a "gentler" topic.

If you were so worried about me arguing with you then you wouldn't have circled back, engaged me at all or be on a DISCUSSION forum.

I could care less about trying to convince you or argue with you about treating your woman. Better her than me. Do you boo.

So since you're so scared of arguing, let's just disengage now. You got it.

Very disappointing response.

 

[Taadow]

This was more so about all these hoops a guy gotta jump thru to see her

I’ve never had a woman ask me to pay her rent or pay for her nails. But I do know guys who’ve done that or are doing that. And they aren’t broke.i remember seeing this when i was a kid before these internet discussions. Idk if they see it as their responsibility.., they’re trying to be “good men” or they have to do it in order for the women to stay around…that’s why the discussion.

Oh okay, this is something kinda different. You should’ve led the thread with this.

Yes, it is an ugly nicca/lame tax.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Haven’t had that problem in a long time

 

[egsteel]

 

[UpThruDere]

My experiences have been:


Meet a few times, always respectful and never pressing the issue.

The WOMEN have been the one initiating the physical contact. Me coming through, me spending the night, etc.

Then once that happens and they get tired of the arrangement they put in place they want to step back take things slow and start going out “dates”

Yeah, chicks usually start wanting to go on dates after I done already hit them a few times which is when I usually fallback cause we’re going to finish how we started ho and that’s not how we started out.

 

[2 one 3]

Yeah, chicks usually start wanting to go on dates after I done already hit them a few times which is when I usually fallback cause we’re going to finish how we started ho and that’s not how we started out.

Exactly fam…

And it’s funny a few times when I try to tell them, I’m wanting to move slow. They damn near would give me ultimatums or make it seem like they would not catch feelings or want anything more than just a casual thing when in reality they just want to have their way…

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Yeah, chicks usually start wanting to go on dates after I done already hit them a few times which is when I usually fallback cause we’re going to finish how we started ho and that’s not how we started out.

So you’re admitting women would be smarter to make you pay for the dates before you hit, so they don’t give it to someone who has no serious intentions? Are you admitting women run up their body count on men who don’t take them seriously, so they should probably wait?

 

[3rdWorld]

You pay in various ways, but ultimately you part with something.

 

[Mass]

20 years of this shyt man .... we know the answer already.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Some people are just nice. A man I sat next to and chatted with on the plane basically got me through immigration in another country by any means necessary including paying bribery money (lol) cuz I didn't have my shyt together (I thought I had everything but nobody told me I needed vaccinations and ish) and they were trying to hold me.

I don't even think he wants to smash too but he's hands0me

 

[KingsOfKings]

Good thread

 

[UpThruDere]

So you’re admitting women would be smarter to make you pay for the dates before you hit, so they don’t give it to someone who has no serious intentions? Are you admitting women run up their body count on men who don’t take them seriously, so they should probably wait?

I tell them what type of time im on from the beginning but they think they can give you some to lure you in then try to switch everything up when that’s not what we(well not what I at least) agreed to, women always think they can bend reality like Scarlet Witch then be bitter after when they swore they wouldn’t catch feelings and can move like a dude, never turns out that way