If you marry a woman without her completing a 1 year probationary period consisting of...

[LA Fisher]

Well should he?

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Wait, so your husband is an encumbrance? Again, why get married if you don't even want to be around the dude full time? If your privacy is more important that the man you're going to share a home with, share a bank account with, have children by and sleep in the same bed with, then why even go through the motions?

I'm not saying your privacy and alone time shouldn't be important but if its MORE important than your dude, then he aint your dude. He's just a walking dildo.

Peace

Can we be realistic and acknowledge the fact that being dependent on someone and building a life/family/etc together is a burden? When you get married, you make the decision to take on those major responsibilities together forever. You don't make those vows when you're in a relationship, or what's the point of marriage??

 

[Elle Driver]

Well should he?

I don't get it breh, are you condoning cheating?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

So many strong opinions, such little knowledge and experience

 

[Rawtid]

So you're privacy is more important than the person that you potentially want to spend the rest of your life? If that's the case, why even entertain the idea of marriage to someone you wouldn't even be willing to move in with? What would change about your need for privacy once its official? Wouldn't he still be an intrusion on your privacy? Or does he become a welcome encumbrance now that he's a husband instead of fiance?

I'm curious.

Peace

Privacy isn't something I'd want to sacrifice for someone I'm not married to.

 

[LA Fisher]

I don't get it breh, are you condoning cheating?

I'm saying that a person who isn't at their best shouldn't expect the best in return.

A bus driver making 25 grand a year shouldn't expect his woman to cook and clean for him.

An ugly person shouldn't expect someone to be faithful to them

 

[Elle Driver]

I'm saying that a person who isn't at their best shouldn't expect the best in return.

A bus driver making 25 grand a year shouldn't expect his woman to cook and clean for him.

An ugly person shouldn't expect someone to be faithful to them

You buggin.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

I hate when people say sh*t like this....

So what you saying breh...the hood bus driver making $27,000 a year don't deserve the big piece of chicken

The security guard at Macys can't get a ham sandwich and peace and quiet in his own house nikka

Nikka who said anything about how much you make

I specifically pointed out BUM niccas aka dusty niccas

Are you on the pipe nicca

 

[Nintendough]

Should a good hearted ugly man expect to not be cheated on?

Should a cheating woman expect to not get her ass whooped?

 

[LA Fisher]

You buggin.

I didn't make the rules

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I'm saying that a person who isn't at their best shouldn't expect the best in return.

A bus driver making 25 grand a year shouldn't expect his woman to cook and clean for him.

An ugly person shouldn't expect someone to be faithful to them

Im saying. I want to know what these nikkas bring to the table to be making such strong demands.

 

[LA Fisher]

Should a cheating woman expect to not get her ass whooped?

No she shouldn't

 

[Rawtid]

There is no difference between engaged and marriage except an expensive and irrelevant ceremony. If you're waiting on a magic switch to flip on and be like I'm married now, committment aint for you. I've seen nuff enaged broads cheat on their fiancees with this mindset.

You're bugging.

You'd fight WITH your homeboy while the dude at work you may stand and watch or call for help at the most. You'd buy your girl a birthday gift while the chick you're just kicking it with MAY get a phone call. Don't pretend like you've never customized your thoughts and behavior based on the relationship you had with a person and it was all totally done based on the rules you set yourself.

So if a man is my husband, I'm going to consider things I wouldn't if he were just my bf.

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

@everyone in the thread. Why get married at all? I legitimately don't see the point.

 

[Elle Driver]

Should a cheating woman expect to not get her ass whooped?

By who?