If you marry a woman without her completing a 1 year probationary period consisting of...

[Akata Man Bromo]

I agree with most of this

You left out the part where you need to make sure you're worthy of being submitted to though

I see too many dumb bum ass niccas talking about they want a woman to submit to them and they wonder why they get with the face

If you are a man about your shyt a woman will NATURALLY follow your lead. The onus is on YOU, not them fellas...GET YOUR shyt TOGETHER FIRST!

I digg the premise of the thread though

 

[LA Fisher]

This is real talk.

I told the girl I'm currently seeing from the jump what I expect of her if things are to progress into something more serious.

I think it's vital for the fellas to lay down the marker asap about what you expect from your girls. Women will let you call the shots as long as they respect you and what your trying to achieve.

I didn't know how a woman was supposed to treat a man until I moved in with my dad and his Chinese wife
She enjoyed cooking and catering to my pops
Too many men grew up in single parent households and never got to see how a woman keeps a man
Chase "strong" women brehs

 

[LA Fisher]

I agree with most of this

You left out the part where you need to make sure you're worthy of being submitted to though

I see too many dumb bum ass niccas talking about they want a woman to submit to them and they wonder why they get with the face

If you are a man about your shyt a woman will NATURALLY follow your lead. The onus is on YOU, not them fellas...GET YOUR shyt TOGETHER FIRST!

I digg the premise of the thread though

That's the most important part. You have to be a boss financially, mentally and physically.

 

[Nintendough]

Men are too scared to make demands.
It's a shame that some guys are scared to ask for a home cooked meal every night
But But But she's too busy to clean the house and cook

Exactly, the women in my fam will work so they will get up an hour earlier and make food for later or at least get a head start. The men in my fam make sure the women never step foot in a car shop, they fix it. Some hard labor needs doing, they do it tired and all.



These new woman want the pay off but don't want work.

 

[m@jestic]

I didn't know how a woman was supposed to treat a man until I moved in with my dad and his Chinese wife
She enjoyed cooking and catering to my pops
Too many men grew up in single parent households and never got to see how a woman keeps a man
Chase "strong" women brehs

This is real talk breh.

The lack of positive male role models within the communities has been to the detriment of our society.

What you said about being worthy of submission is gold as well, a man has to be about his business and hande things correctly. It's important as a man to do what you say.

 

[DaRealness]

No way am I marrying a woman again without living with her first.

 

[Remote]

No way am I marrying a woman again without living with her first.

What happened the first time?

 

[m@jestic]

@innocentdevil @Desirous @BillCosbyAteMyHomework @raedawn07 @Phoenix_Knightly23

Ladies If your man doesn't handle his business correctly does your behaviour change towards him?

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Good luck with that.

Thanks.

 

[DaRealness]

What happened the first time?

Marriage didn't work out.

I'm talking in generalities though. I personally think it's a good idea to live under the same roof for a while and get to know each other more that way - especially nowadays.

 

[Batman]

Thanks.

I can see that you'll be an easy person to live with already.

 

[Raava]

@innocentdevil @Desirous @BillCosbyAteMyHomework @raedawn07 @Phoenix_Knightly23

Ladies If your man doesn't handle his business correctly does your behaviour change towards him?

When you say business, what exactly do you mean?

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

I can see that you'll be an easy person to live with already.

Why the sarcasm?

 

[devizelle]

@innocentdevil @Desirous @BillCosbyAteMyHomework @raedawn07 @Phoenix_Knightly23

Ladies If your man doesn't handle his business correctly does your behaviour change towards him?

Yeah. I won't deal with him.

 

[m@jestic]

When you say business, what exactly do you mean?

I'm referring more to his actions and his behaviour towards yourself.

For example If he says he's going to fix your car but instead he's making it rain at the strip club.