If you really think about it: Aren't women completely to blame if their single?

[john goodman]

American women are spoiled brats that have too much power and freedom with no responbilty.

Yep

 

[rapdonttweet]

I also want to throw .2 more cents in here. Women want something that doesn't exist. They want a dude that's:
-over 6 feet tall
-Is young(20's to 30s)
-has gawd status fukking skills
-makes over $100,000 a year after taxes
-Is built like an olympic athelete
-looks like he should be walkin down a Calvin Klein fashion show runway

yet SOMEHOW
-He doesn't cheat
-Doesn't talk shyt to her and cuss her out when she's pissing him off
-Won't dump her ass when she starts getting old and looking
-Is not gay
-Doesn't demand that she do freaky shyt in bed.

From my experience this isn't even remotely true. Even a fat dude with the right type of game WILL get laid. I see it all the time. There's a lot of despair in this thread. The reason you ain't getting none is probably because you aren't trying.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

If that was the case, it'd be everyone's own fault that they were single and everyone should lower their standards.

Can't be an average woman looking for a dude with a nice physique, who is very handsome, with a very nice job, nice personality, (traits women admire in men), etc.

Can't be an average dude thinking you deserve a good looking woman, who's a lady, who can cook good, (traits men admire in women) etc.

Most people confused between what they actually deserve and what they want. They have a very false sense of self. If you are not in the supposed "10%" of dudes that women chase after, then you might wanna lower your standards and stop thinking you deserve the best. If you aren't an exceptional woman, the same goes there. Calm your ego, see where you rank in the strata of society, and finds someone who fits that. Don't keep trying to race against Usain Bolt and wonder why your record is a losing one as if he's the one who is wrong. Find someone who races at your level and maybe you two can grow together.

If you are having trouble getting what you want, it's because you don't deserve it and it's not meant for you. If you're surrounded by hoes and can't find good women, that's what you deserve. If you're surrounded by no good nikkas and you can't get good dudes to like you, that's what you deserve. Lower your expectations, especially your shallow ones. That's for everyone. Get off your high and mighty train.

From my experience this isn't even remotely true. Even a fat dude with the right type of game WILL get laid. I see it all the time. There's a lot of despair in this thread. The reason you ain't getting none is probably because you aren't trying.

Yeah. Dudes are in here over exaggerating to make up for whatever they lack/are doing wrong.

 

[teeswinger]

American women are spoiled brats that have too much power and freedom with no responbilty.

 

[Shameonyou]

like I give a fukk what your fakkit ass thanks

is this nikka serious?

 

[International Playa]

If that was the case, it'd be everyone's own fault that they were single and everyone should lower their standards.

Can't be an average woman looking for a dude with a nice physique, who is very handsome, with a very nice job, nice personality, (traits women admire in men), etc.

Can't be an average dude thinking you deserve a good looking woman, who's a lady, who can cook good, (traits men admire in women) etc.

Most people confused between what they actually deserve and what they want. They have a very false sense of self. If you are not in the supposed "10%" of dudes that women chase after, then you might wanna lower your standards and stop thinking you deserve the best. If you aren't an exceptional woman, the same goes there. Calm your ego, see where you rank in the strata of society, and finds someone who fits that. Don't keep trying to race against Usain Bolt and wonder why your record is a losing one as if he's the one who is wrong. Find someone who races at your level and maybe you two can grow together.

If you are having trouble getting what you want, it's because you don't deserve it and it's not meant for you. If you're surrounded by hoes and can't find good women, that's what you deserve. If you're surrounded by no good nikkas and you can't get good dudes to like you, that's what you deserve. Lower your expectations, especially your shallow ones. That's for everyone. Get off your high and mighty train.



Yeah. Dudes are in here over exaggerating to make up for whatever they lack/are doing wrong.

WORD!!!!!!!!

Men and Women need to be honest with themselves, you need to be dating people in your league and under, if you are 4, dont be mad if that 6 aint feeling you, you only deserves 4 and under

If you wanna date a 8 or 9 and you are a 4, you gotta put in work in yourself to improve yourself from a 4 to a 8 or 9. Improve yourself by going gym, making more money, going gym, buying better clothes, better haircut etc.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

is this nikka serious?

Extremely

 

[Shameonyou]

Extremely

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

From my experience this isn't even remotely true. Even a fat dude with the right type of game WILL get laid. I see it all the time. There's a lot of despair in this thread. The reason you ain't getting none is probably because you aren't trying.

I'm just sayin, you have to be cognizant of the fact that for a majority of females, THAT is what they want and if you're not at least showing some potential to become that? then good luck getting a date.

And again it really also depends on where you're from. Maybe the standards women have in the places I've been to are higher, but in other cities the most they're looking for is a guy whose credit isn't fukked up, has his own place, and makes enough money so he's not living paycheck to paycheck and looks are mostly irrelevant.

But better to err on the side of caution and try to be a man who has money and who looks good than to assume that your "game" or personality will be enough to carry you through. Women in the west couldn't give a microfukk about what kind of dude you are on the inside unless you've got some tangible shyt on the outside(looks, paper, etc) to hook them so they want to know you. If a girl isn't attracted to you, then you're just going to be a friend to her or just another one of her admirers that she keeps around to gas herself up when she's feeling down.

I owe my success with females to the fact that I've got ambition and I do what I can to keep my appearance looking right. If you look good then you've got your foot in the door and they can grow to know you as a person after they get over the mystique of your money and looks. Its like how some dudes here won't even talk to a girl unless her face and body are looking on point. Women are the same when it comes to a guy's looks and his money.

 

[Ohene]

I'm just sayin, you have to be cognizant of the fact that for a majority of females, THAT is what they want and if you're not at least showing some potential to become that? then good luck getting a date.

And again it really also depends on where you're from. Maybe the standards women have in the places I've been to are higher, but in other cities the most they're looking for is a guy whose credit isn't fukked up, has his own place, and makes enough money so he's not living paycheck to paycheck and looks are mostly irrelevant.

But better to err on the side of caution and try to be a man who has money and who looks good than to assume that your "game" or personality will be enough to carry you through. Women in the west couldn't give a microfukk about what kind of dude you are on the inside unless you've got some tangible shyt on the outside(looks, paper, etc) to hook them so they want to know you. If a girl isn't attracted to you, then you're just going to be a friend to her or just another one of her admirers that she keeps around to gas herself up when she's feeling down.

I owe my success with females to the fact that I've got ambition and I do what I can to keep my appearance looking right. If you look good then you've got your foot in the door and they can grow to know you as a person after they get over the mystique of your money and looks. Its like how some dudes here won't even talk to a girl unless her face and body are looking on point. Women are the same when it comes to a guy's looks and his money.

question my friend. Where are you from and in what kind of settings do you most often interact with women because honestly, there some decent ones out here if you put yourself in the right environments. Theres a lot of filth too but at the same time that goes for men as well

the bold is pretty hyperbolic. but then again based on what I've heard about places like DC and Miami...I would believe it if thats where you are.

 

[god shamgod]

That "so many black woman are single" nonsense is a myth

Every chick I bag either has:a bf,a nikka/friend/ex or her kids pops she fukks,or has 2-3 cats she's "dating"/options

I never meet single celibate chicks who aren't talkin to nobody

 

[rapdonttweet]

I'm just sayin, you have to be cognizant of the fact that for a majority of females, THAT is what they want and if you're not at least showing some potential to become that? then good luck getting a date.

And again it really also depends on where you're from. Maybe the standards women have in the places I've been to are higher, but in other cities the most they're looking for is a guy whose credit isn't fukked up, has his own place, and makes enough money so he's not living paycheck to paycheck and looks are mostly irrelevant.

But better to err on the side of caution and try to be a man who has money and who looks good than to assume that your "game" or personality will be enough to carry you through. Women in the west couldn't give a microfukk about what kind of dude you are on the inside unless you've got some tangible shyt on the outside(looks, paper, etc) to hook them so they want to know you. If a girl isn't attracted to you, then you're just going to be a friend to her or just another one of her admirers that she keeps around to gas herself up when she's feeling down.

I owe my success with females to the fact that I've got ambition and I do what I can to keep my appearance looking right. If you look good then you've got your foot in the door and they can grow to know you as a person after they get over the mystique of your money and looks. Its like how some dudes here won't even talk to a girl unless her face and body are looking on point. Women are the same when it comes to a guy's looks and his money.

You're confusing ideals with expectations. My ideal woman may be that bombshell model with a perfect body but I will date the girl with a cute face instead. Same goes for women. I can't speak for a butt ass ugly or homeless guy, but if we're talking about your average guy these factors aren't anywhere close to as important as you're making it out to be. Over 6 ft tall, making 100k, looking like an athlete...Really dude? I fit none of those standards and likely never will, but I haven't had a problem getting women since I was in high school.

What makes me succeed with females? Confidence. All the guys I see failing with women are the same ones who act all insecure and go around wondering about thread topics like this. That's not coincidence. Meanwhile some fat guy is walking around with a hot girlfriend because he knows how to make her laugh.