O.T.I.S.
Veteran
The lineWhere’s the line?
Is the tip okay?
Just a handie or BJ?
If your homeboys wife is flirting with you...
- Thread starter Marco Zen
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Where do you draw the line when it comes to fukking?
I got into an interesting convo with a group of nikkaz.. a few of which say there's no line.
For example, their argument is if your friends wife (who's a baddie) is hitting on you, there's no reason to reject her. You might as well fukk her because clearly she's gonna cheat on him anyway whether its you or someone else, and it's not your fault so your friend has no reason to be mad at you about it... I disagree but it was interesting to see how many nikkaz really roll like that.. Invite a nikka over for a barbecue and while your back is turned flipping the meat hes over there with your girl trying to Flip The Meat... They say the "circle of trust" doesn't apply in that situation.
So im like what if its your friends sister?
His mom?
His daughter? (Legal age of course)
Your neighbors wife?
Your boss's wife?
Wheres the line and why
Me personally I wouldn't fukk my homies girl. I don't care how bad she is id tell her foh, go take a cold shower... I wouldn't tell him about it tho.. If keeping that secret costs us our friendship later that's cool... at least I didn't fukk her
You might need to find a new group of people to hang with.
Dwayne_Taylor
Superstar
Under no circumstances is it okay to deal with a married woman.
Telling your homie legit might be as bad as just fukking her …
Flirting is HIGHLY subjective and completely unprovable. So if you tell him you’re putting his whole marriage on the line the kids the house etc on YOUR shoulders. Even if they patch it up that is the type of shyt will live with him til he dies. All this over something subjective. A glance
Thats just dumb af and low key just as manipulative as the dude’s who’d smashAlso you don’t know WHAT that woman will tell him to save her marriage.
And you don’t know what he’d do eitherThe correct answer is stay far away from her, ignore it/her. This ain’t the movies she’s not throwing herself at you. Irl a woman ‘flirting’ can easily be ignored
Set her up and tell your friend if she can't control herself beyond looks of mild admiration.
Another reason why black men aren't networking together. No brotherly code. Still led by the woman's demonic meanderings.
The only power worth flexing is hurting the mental health and or family of a brother. To hurt what a brother holds as value. This kind of jealousy doesn't stop with women unfortunately.
Another reason why black men aren't networking together. No brotherly code. Still led by the woman's demonic meanderings.
The only power worth flexing is hurting the mental health and or family of a brother. To hurt what a brother holds as value. This kind of jealousy doesn't stop with women unfortunately.
Telling your homie legit might be as bad as just fukking her …
Flirting is HIGHLY subjective and completely unprovable. So if you tell him you’re putting his whole marriage on the line the kids the house etc on YOUR shoulders. Even if they patch it up that is the type of shyt will live with him til he dies. All this over something subjective. A glance
Also you don’t know WHAT that woman will tell him to save her marriage.
The correct answer is stay far away from her, ignore it/her. This ain’t the movies she’s not throwing herself at you. Irl a woman ‘flirting’ can easily be ignored
I told my inner crew homies a long time ago that if I catch they old lady doing or trying scandalous shyt, I'm dropping the dime.
and I expected the same in return.
explained my reasoning and they all were like
fukk dem dirty bytches
Let’s not overlook the ego it takes to think a ngga girl wanna smash 
Some chicks let their guard down around the homies. A lot of nggas misread those type of signals, especially ones who are either egotistical or if they don’t get p*ssy. Some nggas ain’t never had a good looking woman be nice to him
And then you have women who just like to tease but wouldn’t actually do anything
And lastly yea you do have women who would step out
But let’s not act like it’s a lot of #1 and #2 going on and some nggas assume it’s #3
Some chicks let their guard down around the homies. A lot of nggas misread those type of signals, especially ones who are either egotistical or if they don’t get p*ssy. Some nggas ain’t never had a good looking woman be nice to him
And then you have women who just like to tease but wouldn’t actually do anything
And lastly yea you do have women who would step out
But let’s not act like it’s a lot of #1 and #2 going on and some nggas assume it’s #3
I told my inner crew homies a long time ago that if I catch they old lady doing or trying scandalous shyt, I'm dropping the dime.
and I expected the same in return.
explained my reasoning and they all were like
fukk dem dirty bytches
Sounds good.
But a woman’s version of ‘trying scandalous shyt’ is usually ambiguous. Especially your homie’s wife
So we’re likely talking staring….brush by you….touch you on the arm for no reason. What you gon tell your homie? ‘yo your wife was laughing real hard at my joke and brushed my arm bro sign them papers’ 
KingFreeman
Barely-Known Member
Strangers's girls or wives are fair game. As long as you're not moving stupid like going to her house or around people that's just life. Now, guys in your circle's women? Off limits. Harder to earn another man's trust than get buns.
In The Zone '98
Superstar
We watch our friends cheat everyday
Ofc he'd fukk your wife if the opportunity presented itself
Ofc he'd fukk your wife if the opportunity presented itself
Devil Plisken…CMS
Veteran
So you hanging around with dirt bags?
Damn near Gay Dirt Bags if you want to keep it live…
Marco Zen
Black Privilege
This happened to me years ago with a friends ol lady...
Before they were together we both knew her, she used to slick flirt with me then but I knew he really liked her so I backed off and let him shoot... few months later they were fukking and got serious, she halfway moved in wit the nikka... one night at his place were all drinking and he was so drunk he passed out.. I was in the kitchen pouring another one just fooling around on my phone killing time and she was cleaning up, getting all close to me, cracking jokes, brushing against me putting dishes away, reaching across me without an "excuse me".. ..idk if she was flirting with me or testing me to see if I would try her. Idk if i had grabbed her if she would've said "woah what are you doing?' Or if she would've immediately dropped her shorts and bent over in front of the dishwasher ... one will never know because as bad as I wanted to I didn't take the bait and went sat down in the living room then left.. fast forward to today and they're still together with two kids, 7 and 10 year old..
Only smashing if I know she gone keep it low key. Rather me be smashing her than a random that's gone get found out and now he dead and bro in jail and then I gotta consistently smash his wife so she don't take it outside the family and actually cheat on fam while he locked up kuz she decided to be for the streets
Can't be mad at you if you helped keep his bytch on a leash
Can't be mad at you if you helped keep his bytch on a leash
Sounds good.
But a woman’s version of ‘trying scandalous shyt’ is usually ambiguous. Especially your homie’s wife
of course no goofy accidental insecure shyt.
flirting with your boy is a no no. and you know when a broad is going too far.
