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And what appeals to them are "dirt bags".

No, what appeals to them is polarity, friction. '

Guys that are so concerned with what women are thinking or doing, going along to get along, acquiescing all the fukking time purposely go out of their way to NOT create tension do all that just for things to end up flat.

You don't have to be a 'bad' boy to create some tension, some drama, some polarity, but you do have to challenge that person to properly hold their attention. You can love somebody all you want, but if there is no polarity (a lot of married couples) things will be flat and attention will be elsewhere.
 

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You know people spend most of their lives chasing after who they want and ignore who they don't want. That goes for both men and women.

Nobody would be confused as to why shyt plays out like it does if the question was, how come 'baddies' get more attention than "good girls".
 

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No, what appeals to them is polarity, friction. '

Guys that are so concerned with what women are thinking or doing, going along to get along, acquiescing all the fukking time purposely go out of their way to NOT create tension do all that just for things to end up flat.

You don't have to be a 'bad' boy to create some tension, some drama, some polarity, but you do have to challenge that person to properly hold their attention. You can love somebody all you want, but if there is no polarity (a lot of married couples) things will be flat and attention will be elsewhere.
This is still dumb. Why would you want tension with someone you care about? If she's doing shiit to get a reaction from her mate, she's hella childish. And that man deserves better
 

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I got a light skin yoga instructor on her way over from east side ATL.

She has demonic tattoos and nipples piercings....so it's only right a nikka bout that 6 6 6 life bout to break her down

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Becareful she might try to pull the Lamborghini doors up
 

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This is still dumb. Why would you want tension with someone you care about? If she's doing shiit to get a reaction from her mate, she's hella childish. And that man deserves better

Not dumb, that's relationship 101 shyt and exactly why a lot of these nikkas be dumbfounded when "bad boy" brads and chads come through and snatch their bytch.

And tension isn't a bad thing, it's something we all crave actually. Tension is PASSION. That doesn't have to look like 'bad boy' behavior or drama but that's one reason why women gravitate to those guys. If a woman see's no kind of challenge in you, her options are either be bored or find it elsewhere.
 
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Not dumb, that's relationship 101 shyt and exactly why a lot of these nikkas be dumbfounded when "bad boy" brads and chads come through and snatch their bytch.

And tension isn't a bad thing, it's something we all crave actually. Tension is PASSION. That doesn't have to look like 'bad boy' behavior or drama but that's one reason why women gravitate to those guys. If a woman see's no kind of challenge in you, her options are either be bored or find it elsewhere.
Why are women this fukking complicated to begin with :why:
 

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It's not facts. You just confusing their attraction to confident/assertive traits
It's difficult because being genuinely respectful and kind can make you look less confident or assertive though

For instance... some women randomly get turned off if you are careful to ask if they are comfortable before kissing... they'll think your shy :francis:

Meanwhile the so called "bad boy" wouldn't care enough to do something like that.

I think that's where the hurt comes from these types of guys. I get the source of the frustration, when they are well intentioned :manny:
 
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Why are women this fukking complicated to begin with :why:

It's not that complicated and it's not just women. Human beings hate being bored.

Right now somewhere there is man with a wife that he loves very much, who he's comfortable with and generally appreciative of. But if there is no sexual tension between them he will probably be fukking someone else on the reg, someone that would likely be generating some drama/passion that he can't get at home.

We need that balance, 'love' be damned.
 
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It's not that complicated and it's not just women. Human beings hate being bored.

Right now somewhere there is man with a wife that he loves very much, who he's comfortable with and generally appreciative of. But if there is no sexual tension between them he will probably be fukking someone else on the reg, someone that would likely be generating some drama/passion that he can't get at home.

We need that balance, 'love' be damned. Which
When you don't get women naturally and you read things like this it makes them seem even more needlessly convoluted that they already seemed.
 
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