If you're a man crying about how women only like 'bad boys', you need to admit you just can't pull

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It's not that complicated and it's not just women. Human beings hate being bored.

Right now somewhere there is man with a wife that he loves very much, who he's comfortable with and generally appreciative of. But if there is no sexual tension between them he will probably be fukking someone else on the reg, someone that would likely be generating some drama/passion that he can't get at home.

We need that balance, 'love' be damned. Which
Why are women this fukking complicated to begin with :why:
Women are afraid of men (they are stronger, aggressive, more physical)

But are also attracted to them for having these traits

So there's this conundrum where they are attracted to what they are afraid of, so you as a man have to toe that line
 

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You say be selfish, but some people want more than sex. They want a real relationship and a partner to build with. That's what most people issues are.
If you fukk you can do all that other shyt IF YOU SO CHOOSE.

That's the difference from relationship guy. Them nikkas get neither. Once you fukk no strings a relationship is like a layup cause she expects most nikkas to wanna keep the situation as is.
 

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When you don't get women naturally and you read things like this it makes them seem even more needlessly convoluted that they already seemed.

That's why I tried to point up a scenario where a lot of women are just as confused as you might feel about men's behavior.

"Why do men skip over the 'good girls' to chase hoes?" "I do everything this man asks me to do and he still cheats on me " :huh:

Women aren't jigsaw puzzels and women be asking the same questions that men do, from the other direction of course. When you don't have much passion about yourself or anything else it's going to be hard to hold anyone's attention for very long. This is why I always tell brehs who say they have women problems to back up off the women for a minute...get to know yourself, find something that brings some passion into your life and then come back to the table.
 

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Most girls like bad boys and most don’t. There’s always a balance to shyt. there’s never an extreme to anything.

On a unrelated note I’m pretty high right now. This weed is a bit too strong. I’m about to go fukk up my fridge.
 
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Not only can they not pull, its also not true that they like hood dudes for the most part
 

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Women are afraid of men (they are stronger, aggressive, more physical)

But are also attracted to them for having these traits

So there's this conundrum where they are attracted to what they are afraid of, so you as a man have to toe that line

Right
 

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naw, there is a problem with young people's value system. I say this as a happily married man with no dog in this fight.


They just interviewed hood rats so of course they would say drug dealer lol
They should have interviewed women from all walks of life
 

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So of what you say is true but let’s be real some this shyt is cultural because of media programming. Carlton black man will not do as well with black women because he’s not the archetypal Idea of masculinity. If he dates a white woman he faces racism though so he really is no one’s ideal
 

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So of what you say is true but let’s be real some this shyt is cultural because of media programming. Carlton black man will not do as well with black women because he’s not the archetypal Idea of masculinity. If he dates a white woman he faces racism though so he really is no one’s ideal
This
I think people really underestimate how powerful media and entertainment is on the mind.
 
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