Because it's funny and it makes for good social conversations like the one we are having now. I play it for the people at work mostly and we all have a good laugh; men and women.
If You're the Breadwinner...
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Taadow
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They aren't because I'm not looking to be rated by him or ya'll.
I already know I don't fall within the narrow window of perfection that would make me an acceptable woman in Kevin's eyes. We don't even need to go through the parade of shame.
But I also live in the real world and live around and know people with generational wealth...not just one man who achieved it in his lifetime. So I know better than to believe just any old guy on the internet because he wears a blazer with pajamas pants and says what I (general) want to hear.
I dont believe in a narrow window of perfection. The folks that are on this online space that do have that slim tiny window of perfection as their ideal, I believe, are men who lack experience with women period. Which is why their views on women are so limited and short sighted and unrealistic.
I value imperfections in a woman whether physically or philosophically or mentally or whatever. I'm imperfect myself so why hold her to some ethereal unrealistic measuring stick?
I dont follow Kevin Samuels nor do I believe he's a good "role model" for men. One breh on here said it best. Kevin has "auntie swag"
So I'm not looking to an obvious zesty dude for advice and it's kind of alarming that so many do.
But in a way, I understand it. There's an increasing level of frustration between men and women - on both sides.
But someone like Kevin is able to come along, pepper in some things to make men feel good while simultaneously calling into question the worthiness of women. And with that explosive collide of ideas, a following is born.
It's almost genius. Women listen to him because women seek validation. And the more a man does NOT validate women, the more women seek it. So they are intrigued by what Kevin says because its almost as if he's issued a challenge to women's ego. He's telling women that they are not worthy so it almost seems like every woman that speaks to him is hoping to be that one worthy woman? I don't know. Thats my theory but I don't listen to him to know for sure.
And of course men love to listen because Kevin gets the opportunity to tell women to their face what thousands and thousands of frustrated men would like to say to yall.
A summed up version of "you want us men to be perfect? You aint perfect ya damn self. How you aint a virgin and been giving ya p*ssy away to all these men but expect to get the cream of the crop when you're ready to settle down? You passed over all the good men who wanted to make you an honest woman and instead went for dudes that were no good, you're not young anymore and a lot of you are out of shape, so why should we listen to what you want?"
It's a place of anger, a place of grievance, and that's what it seems Kevin has been able to tap into. He's the mouthpiece for the frustration of many men.
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Well thats what I'm saying. If I was a man of multiple means, then she and I would know that yes, I'm looking for another wife to add to our relationship. There would be no reason to hide it.
And yes in that situation, I do believe that being a breadwinner comes into play because if a man is talking about having a relationship with multiple women, then he should have the means with which to support those women.
Does that answer your question?
I already told you I am undesirable in the eyes of KS. No need to go through the motions. Just get the insult over with.
Why does so many folks on here act like anything less than 200k a year is a life rife with squalor
No because that's not cheating. The question is about cheating.
Again, does being the breadwinner give you the greenlight to cheat?
Taadow
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*hits mute button*
Hey...this is my show. Don’t talk to me this way.
*hits “slap” button*
luciddreamer
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Women do it all the time.... So..
He didn't tell her to stay with him because he said sorry?
I guess we watched 2 different videos
Just because you tell the female to “get over it” and try to save keep your marriage/relationship doesn’t mean that you’re condoning the behavior of the adulterous male.
If you want to keep your family intact, hold on to your “high value” man, and not be a miserable single mother on the dating market, you’re going to have to forgive and work through that shyt. That’s all. People fukk up and men like p*ssy. Doesn’t make it right, but it happens.
Now, if he’s just dogging you out, abusing you, and fukking everyone he meets with no regard, then the decision would be up to the woman. Maybe she’ll be happier without him, or maybe she’ll regret it and wished that she stayed to fix it (if fixable). Many women end up with the latter. That’s the risk. But, if she wants to stay with her man, she’s going to have to forgive, forget, and work with him in his repentance. Especially if you truly love that person.
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Why does so many folks on here act like anything less than 200k a year is a life rife with squalor
Uh oh I think you're arguing with yourself again
No one said that
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Man nikkas nowadays got some utterly clown ass morals. If you got it popping like that why not have a open marriage from time? I can't fathom run behind my woman back like a little bytch lying and shyt trying not to get caught to get some cooter
Men and women are crazy and you put them in a situation like that and you got to accept whatever type of demonic energy they come back with. If we are in a de facto mono relatoinship and I feel I need some new p*ssy we having that talk, and if she don't concede we separating. I've dealt with enough zany heauxs in my life to know cheatin is not the wave.
Men and women are crazy and you put them in a situation like that and you got to accept whatever type of demonic energy they come back with. If we are in a de facto mono relatoinship and I feel I need some new p*ssy we having that talk, and if she don't concede we separating. I've dealt with enough zany heauxs in my life to know cheatin is not the wave.
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Neo. The Only. The One.
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Nothing gives anyone the "green light" to cheat unless your partner tells you that she doesn't mind if you have relations with someone else.
And if she tells you that she doesn't mind, then is that cheating?