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I agree with this but the only thing that’s weird is we got dudes who shame women for having easy options in regards to sex (It’s easier for women to have sex and they have to put less effort to get it) and would rarely defend them “Well, she had so many options so she was bound to cheat”.

But when affluent men start having access to all these options, it’s so easy to understand or justify the cheating mindset.
a key than can open many locks is a master key.

A lock that opens to many keys is a shytty lock

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I'd feel bad cheating on my wife if we had kids. Just cause I don't want them seeing their mother get done like that

But to KS point - let's say you been with breh for 6+ years, nice home, car, lifestyle, etc. Supports you in your career, business, whatever. Yall living the power couple lifestyle. He puts it down exactly the way you like and all.

But the ONLY negative is that he might get some strange when you not around every now and then. Would you stay?

Too much comes with stepping out; babies, diseases, butt hurt side pieces etc. It would really depend on the nature of the circumstances.

I know a guy right now married, power couple and all that jazz in my DMs. I'm only 1 DM from blowing his spot. I'm not messy like that though. I just blocked him and kept it moving. There are videos of him and his wife on line and she will never call him her husband. She stays calling him her partner. Very loveless marriage. I don't wanna live like that just for the sake of being married.
 

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And we all recognize there is a lot of deeper layers to this...:mjpls:


As far as females go, it doesn't take money, to buy class. :unimpressed:

You realize that women could use that same reasoning for why they’re not able to be traditional wives, right? Having to run a household due to black men being funneled into the prison system? Having to harden up and be argumentative in a society run by white men to get ahead in life? Etc?

You sounding a little hypocritical. If not adhering to traditional gender roles from times past is your reasoning for men cheating on women then you should also defend the women who cheat on men for not following their traditional roles either.

There are obvious systemic reasons at why those roles have been muddied, which you seem to understand, but you only brought up up in response to women using your same logic to justify cheat on men.

Why is that? Do you feel that men cheating is different than women cheating?
 

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a key than can open many locks is a master key.

A lock that opens to many keys is a shytty lock

:wow:

This has also been a shytty argument because of how simplified it is.

If that “master key” can only open 5 outta 100 locks, can it be called a master key?

If that lock didn’t open for 100 different keys but opened for 5 keys that it liked, is it a bad lock or working as intended?

Removing all the agency of the women choosing who she’s allowing into her body and immediately judging them for being sexual at all.

I'd feel bad cheating on my wife if we had kids. Just cause I don't want them seeing their mother get done like that

But to KS point - let's say you been with breh for 6+ years, nice home, car, lifestyle, etc. Supports you in your career, business, whatever. Yall living the power couple lifestyle. He puts it down exactly the way you like and all.

But the ONLY negative is that he might get some strange when you not around every now and then. Would you stay?
 

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I watched this a couple weeks ago and he is not saying that if you're the breadwinner it gives you the greenlight to cheat. He did not once say Cheating was Okay.

He said men with resources and options explore them, so if you want a high value man with resources, options and lots of women chasing him he may very well exercise those options.

A lot of the women that call into his show want a man that makes at least six figures, and KS tells them they have a better chance staying with their husband then divorcing him and trying to find another six figure man that will marry them. And he says this because the women are older, already have children, and an older man can't provide them with things they haven't already experiences (vacations, purchasing a home together, etc).

He also says these women should try and work it out with their husband before leaving because the dating game is tough, and the grass may not be greener on the other side.

Honestly, after watching a good amount of his videos I don't think he's a bad guy. Do I agree with everything he says? No. But he's giving these women the harsh truth they don't wanna hear or accept, and yes there are exceptions but we are talking in generalities.

Now is he milking this for all he can because it's bringing him views, clicks, likes and overall more money? Yes, but most would. :yeshrug::manny:
 
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Breh gave her that real pep talk like a father. Like look he fukked up cheating on you. But lets be real babygirl this dating game and all that healing you would have to do in 2020 aint what you wanna deal with. If he apologized and he still takin care of business at home :manny:

Like he said marriage is messy :manny:
Exactly.
 

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I agree with this but the only thing that’s weird is we got dudes who shame women for having easy options in regards to sex (It’s easier for women to have sex and they have to put less effort to get it) and would rarely defend them “Well, she had so many options so she was bound to cheat”.

But when affluent men start having access to all these options, it’s so easy to understand or justify the cheating mindset.
:ehh:

I never thought of it like that but damn you're right.
 

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I think the woman in the clip said she was like 29 with no kids, and if she's fine then she probably won't have problems attracting another "high value man" or getting one to marry her.

Now will that one be faithful? It's gon be tuff.

People are human and fall to temptation :yeshrug::manny:
 

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This has also been a shytty argument because of how simplified it is.

If that “master key” can only open 5 outta 100 locks, can it be called a master key?

If that lock didn’t open for 100 different keys but opened for 5 keys that it liked, is it a bad lock or working as intended?

Removing all the agency of the women choosing who she’s allowing into her body and immediately judging them for being sexual at all.
a key that can only open 5 out of 100 locks ain't a master key :gucci: 5/100 is your definition of many?!?

Your argument ain't even making sense.

Who thinks a dude who can only pull 5 out of every 100 chics he approaches is a male hoe/womanizer/player?! Not a damn soul

And in the inverse who says a chic with 5 bodies is a hoe?!?

Where are you even getting this from lmao
 

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I agree with this but the only thing that’s weird is we got dudes who shame women for having easy options in regards to sex (It’s easier for women to have sex and they have to put less effort to get it) and would rarely defend them “Well, she had so many options so she was bound to cheat”.

But when affluent men start having access to all these options, it’s so easy to understand or justify the cheating mindset.
men get props because being a male hoe is harder than a woman.

Not even women respect hoes :mjlol:

You gotta be attractive, fit, well off in your career, mouth piece, etc. It takes considerable effort to be a desirable man.

A woman just has to exist. It's human nature to not respect things that come easy to people.

It's like comparing someone who came from a single parent household in a poor neighborhood, worked two jobs to put themself through law school and become a lawyer vs someone whose daddy owns the law firm, put them through school and gave them a job. Off rip you're going to respect the one who put in all the work. And those are few and far between
 

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Too much comes with stepping out; babies, diseases, butt hurt side pieces etc. It would really depend on the nature of the circumstances.

I know a guy right now married, power couple and all that jazz in my DMs. I'm only 1 DM from blowing his spot. I'm not messy like that though. I just blocked him and kept it moving. There are videos of him and his wife on line and she will never call him her husband. She stays calling him her partner. Very loveless marriage. I don't wanna live like that just for the sake of being married.
:hubie:

Woman are too emotional to step out on, I like less drama in life most importantly
 
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