If You're the Breadwinner...

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It didn't. He told her to try to save her marriage even if that meant going to the extent of creating a lane for him to have sex with other women with her knowledge and permission. And her having sex with someone on the side too.




He regularly tells women to take whatever they can get in terms of marriage and encourages women to belive the title of marriage is more important over everything including happiness and love. He tells women all the time they don’t need to love their husbands which is exactly what he told her.

Let's say said women is 25, she a 8, 130lbs, no kids, getting married to HVM who earns north of 150k.

Fast forward 10 years, hvm man is earning 200k. The wife is now 35 years old 145 lbs, 2 kids slightly lower the a the 8 she use to be but still pretty.
Let's say hvm man cheats, she wants a divorce, problem is, this women still expects to get married to the same type of man she is leaving which is a hvm earning north of 150k.
Problem with that is she is no longer 25, she also has 2 kids, she also 15 pounds bigger but still pretty, she's not going to get the same value she did when she was 25 an childless boy she expects to, but those men have access to the 25-28 childless version of what she once was. She now has baggage but she not making the adjustment to what she can really expect to get once single, Ks is right, someone like her will have to make a deal, finding a good man that makes about 65-70k a year which is roughly half of what her ex husband makes, which means, she she is going to lose her lifestyle and way of life.
So in actuality it's better for her to stay in her marriage in order to not take a huge step backwards trying to find another man similar to the one she just left....the ones available on market arent going to want a lesser version of herself, 1 to 2 kids deep 5 years from 40.
Yea...its better to work it out with her huhsband

 

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It's simple, powerful people tend to want it all and money brings access, if guys makes 300k he want a women who can provide a stable family and pass a legacy.........however some women cant fulfill or arent built for both roles as far as being a homemaker and bedroom shaker..and the bedroom shaker isnt built to be a homemaker so they go an get both if they can afford it.

Yeah I get this but I also think with some men, they start taking the homemaker for granted once they got her. Many would be surprised at how that boring ole homemaker can be a bedroom shaker for somebody else given the opportunity.

To be honest, I think monogamy is great and necessary but men and women just get bored with each other
But because men and women are also hypocritical a$$holes, they each wanna do them—but want their partners to stay loyal to the relationship.
It’s a really fukked up way to operate. And whoever contributes the most financially gets to justify dipping out on the basis of “I finance your life so you need to just shaddup and take it.”

Why not just stop being selfish? Give each other a marriage break and separate for a lil bit. Let him get that super head and new new p*ssy. Let wifey get her toes sukked from her super romantic freaky work husband that makes her thighs shake. Make sure nobody brings back any STDs, and then ya’ll go back to martial bliss.

If everybody wanna have sides, just be upfront so nobody feels betrayed, nobody is lonely or neglected.

 

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Yeah I get this but I also think with some men, they start taking the homemaker for granted once they got her. Many would be surprised at how that boring ole homemaker can be a bedroom shaker for somebody else given the opportunity.

To be honest, I think monogamy is great and necessary but men and women just get bored with each other
But because men and women are also hypocritical a$$holes, they each wanna do them—but want their partners to stay loyal to the relationship.
It’s a really fukked up way to operate. And whoever contributes the most financially gets to justify dipping out on the basis of “I finance your life so you need to just shaddup and take it.”

Why not just stop being selfish? Give each other a marriage break and separate for a lil bit. Let him get that super head and new new p*ssy. Let wifey get her toes sukked from her super romantic freaky work husband that makes her thighs shake. Make sure nobody brings back any STDs, and then ya’ll go back to martial bliss.

If everybody wanna have sides, just be upfront so nobody feels betrayed, nobody is lonely or neglected.

Is this something you would personally consider

 

[MarcMan]

Something I’m curious about is why people who want to cheat WANT relationships.

Im not talking about the people who go into relationships with the best intentions and then get caught up. Nor am I talking about two petty, immature individuals who want to get back at each other.

Im talking about the men or women who literally feel ENTITLED to loyalty, respect, love and honesty from their partners.....but also feel entitled to side dikk or side chicks.

Why not just stay single? And keep your assets safer as well. There’s a psychological element to this shyt too.

Of course.

However most men see most sex not as some expression of intimacy, but as a physical act.

And while it's a pleasurable act, sure, that pleasure isn't why they cheat.

Most men cheat for the same reason most of America is fat. Some of the strong human urges that served our ancestors well enough to stay alive and reproduce aren't a perfect fit for today's world. Our male ancestors had to be coded to literally risk life and limb for a chance to mate. That kind of behavioral natural selection doesn't just vanish because having multiple sex partners has suddenly gone out of vogue.

So while most men desire love and intimacy in the same way that most women do, most women will frankly not understand why men cheat on a visceral level.

I know that's an unsatisfying answer. I'm also not absolving anyone of their personal decisions. Just my honest opinions.

 

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Is this something you would personally consider

I dunno. If I decide to get married, I would like to believe that it should last forever. But I also know human nature.
It’s hard to say how you will respond unless you are there.
I know i have the will power to be faithful, but if I get the indication that it’s not being reciprocated, why would I stay? And if I did, why would I stay faithful if that energy isn’t returned. I make my own money, have a pretty good career, so I’m not with my man for any type of “lifestyle”. I’m with him for companionship. A friend and partner in crime. A haven from the world. So what’s the incentive to stay if I’m not getting what I wanted the relationship for in the first place.

Being in a relationship and STILL being alone is horrible.

 

[SheWantTheD]

He told her she should work out an arrangement to allow him to cheat because he is a HVM and she's too old to do better. If that's not him telling her to greenlight his cheating idk what is.

KS leaves out something VERY important in these conversations which is PROXIMITY. If your friends, family and social circle have money you MORE THAN LIKELY will easily find someone who has money.

His go to tactic is to try to shame and scare women into desperation.

I live in the richest state in the country, in the richest county in the state which is surrounded by 3 or 4 of some of richest counties in the country.There are tons of HVM or potentially HVM around and "HVM only date/marry XYZ types of women" is such bullshyt. They have the same shytty dating habits as other types of men. They usually just deal with people IN THEIR CIRCLES.

KS leaves that part out A LOT. Yes a lot of the women who call in are delusional and need a reality check. But his perspective is very limited and narrow.

My good friend is rich. Money has been in her family for at least 3 generations on both sides. She is awesome but can get just as ratchet as anyone else. She is married to a HVM and all her female (3) siblings are married to HVM and not 1 of them is the picture of the women that KS paints. She has 2 children with her husband and I know if they broke up tomorrow she would have zero problems getting another HVM because that is the only men she knows and she's drop dead gorgeous.

KS is milking the fact that BM enjoy watching BW get shamed. So he creates a small narrow definition of "acceptable" and then uses that strict definition to shame any woman who doesn't fit into that tiny box. shyt he even lowkey shames women who do fit in that box.

Ima have to rewatch the video.

And like I said I don’t agree with everything he says and I agree there are men who make six figures and make poor dating decisions, are simps etc but KS says he’s not talking about those men.

But let’s put all that aside. Even so, the percentage of black men that make over six figures let alone as much or more than the women who call in saying the man has to be both attractive and equally yoked (woman making like 350k said this).

What is the percentage of men that fits those criteria? Like 2-3% maybe?

I know a fine woman making 300k + a year and is single because she has to have a man that makes just as much of more than her. She also has to be attracted to him and that spark gotta be there.

And I don’t think an overwhelming number black men love to hear black women being bashed that’s just ridiculous.

That’s just his audience and I see plenty of black women in his comments section also singing him praises.

 

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[Art Barr]

Stop posting this agent sus goofie cap ass nikka in our community.


Art Barr

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Kevin Samuels is entertaining. He exposes some fukked up mindsets some women walk around with. However he talks a lot of rubbish and nobody really calls him out on it.

 

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[Lady.Libra.]

Cheaters never win.

 

[Contrefaire]

I think its fukked up to use the advantage of financial control to engage in infidelity.

Just not a high character thing to do.

That requires a discussion with the old lady.

But you never know. If you choose correctly and your money game is tight. You will be most likely be able to pull it off as long as you pass it through her first and she is 100 percent cool with it which is a 99 percentile woman so you are basically winning the lottery.

There are a lot more women than you might think who would be "okay" with being married to a cheater if he provides them with a comfortable lifestyle, doesn't publicly embarrass them and keeps his dalliances discreet. The problem is, a lot of men fail in one or all of these areas.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Shouldn't even be considered cheating

 

[O.T.I.S.]

No

 

[L&HH]

I'm not saying a woman should accept a cheater. But from what I've seen in my personal life the reality is a lot of men with the financial means and confidence do step out. Again not saying they should accept it just stating a reality I've noticed.