Ight I'm learning now... Being a Nice Guy is no way to Win

[DarkHorse23]

nah, maybe when young. but the older you get the more your looks work against you, especially in the trust category and the preconceptions.

know how many times I had the question asked "I bet you get alot of girls don't you?" if I say no, I'm lying and she knows it so now it's "I knew this nikka was a liar" if I say "yea" then it's "Oh he think he a player".

I don't know, but I don't think being attractive to the opposite sex works for women with a head on her shoulders. for women with no standards to their guy choice or personal life choice then looks is all she cares for. but a dame with shyt going for her ain't about to let a cute dude fukk up her world, not easily atleast.

They all the same bro. The women with a good head on they shoulders who care about more than looks is few and far between. You got women in they 30's and 40's still only caring if he "fine" and if he "can get it". Remember Chilli from TLC and that "list" she had? Things don't change with most women.

I'm 25(still young) so the women i'm dealing with that's going always be the end all be all.

 

[Nomadum]

Coli nikkas get no puss

or maybe I'm just on here to bullshyt free time away and decided to speak on some women issues?

that can't be the situation? it absolutely has to be that I get no box?

Damn, Coli breh's the coldest

 

[Nomadum]

They all the same bro. The women with a good head on they shoulders who care about more than looks is few and far between. You got women in they 30's and 40's still only caring if he "fine" and if he "can get it". Remember Chilli from TLC and that "list" she had? Things don't change with most women.

I'm 25(still young) so the women i'm dealing with that's going always be the end all be all.

I've dated some shallow dames in the past but never on the scope you speaking on. but I hear you. and nah, I didn't know of no list, I didn't listen to TLC like that.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I've dated some shallow dames in the past but never on the scope you speaking on. but I hear you. and nah, I didn't know of no list, I didn't listen to TLC like that.

I haven't either but I do know they exist. That's all i'm saying....

Disregard the last part.

 

[Nomadum]

I haven't either but I do know they exist. That's all i'm saying....

Disregard the last part.

I can respect that. guess my biggest issue is that I do rock my heart on my sleeve. I hate having to put up a front just to net a dame. but this nice guy shyt, as I get older, just isn't the business. I'm me 110% when dealing with a dame, if I'm holding doors, pulling chairs and shyt it's because that's how I was raised to treat a female. but now, the way society and dating is structured, I have to audible in order to get the dames I want. shyt is fukked up, but not winning the dame you're after is more fukked up.

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

or maybe I'm just on here to bullshyt free time away and decided to speak on some women issues?

that can't be the situation? it absolutely has to be that I get no box?

Damn, Coli breh's the coldest

Throw her in the bushes youngsta.

Next time you see her acknowledge her, be cordial but be short and keep it pushing.

Dont give wishy washy chicks the time of day.

 

[Suicide King]

Throw her in the bushes youngsta.

Next time you see her acknowledge her, be cordial but be short and keep it pushing.

Dont give wishy washy chicks the time of day.

Yep, if she is wishy washy, she is not interested. You win some, you lose some. Dudes really need to stop being so obsessed.

 

[Nomadum]

Throw her in the bushes youngsta.

Next time you see her acknowledge her, be cordial but be short and keep it pushing.

Dont give wishy washy chicks the time of day.

I feel you breh, I've thought about that as well. but now I run the risk of "Oh that nikka aint really like me" or "lol he a bytch, he stopped talking to me because I didn't give him no play"

shyt is skressful breh. no win for a nice nikka in 2015.

 

[Nomadum]

Yep, if she is wishy washy, she is not interested. You win some, you lose some. Dudes really need to stop being so obsessed.

I ain't stalking the chick, checking her IG every 10mins or no shyt so calm horses on the "obsessed" talk. do I like the chick alot, hell fukking yea but to say I'm obsessed is a bit much breh.

 

[Suicide King]

do I like the chick alot, hell fukking yea

How are you liking someone a lot who is playing cold? This is ass backwards.

This is the root of you and other "nice guys" problem.

Don't force things.

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

I feel you breh, I've thought about that as well. but now I run the risk of "Oh that nikka aint really like me" or "lol he a bytch, he stopped talking to me because I didn't give him no play"

shyt is skressful breh. no win for a nice nikka in 2015.

Instead of thinking about how this girl percieves you, you could have already pulled a badder one thats really into you by now. Feel me.

Wishy washy = She loves the attention

 

[Nomadum]

Instead of thinking about how this girl percieves you, you could have already pulled a badder one thats really into you by now. Feel me.

Wishy washy = She loves the attention

Most def.
I'm assuming you didn't read my last thread on her but long story short, a breh felt that love at first sight shyt for the first time and been powerless to that shyt since. but you right though fam.

 

[Nomadum]

How are you liking someone a lot who is playing cold? This is ass backwards.

This is the root of you and other "nice guys" problem.

Don't force things.

I got bit by the bug breh, fell head over heels for this dame.
but I feel where you coming from.

 

[Roid Jones]

Talked to a homie today to tell him about the shortie I told y'all about. explaining how she be sending mix signals with the whole she seem interested 1 day next day she on some cold shyt. my homie said some shyt that make me go ....... my homie said "You be trying to solve women like Math problems. you too nice and you over think shyt. just focusing on one will have you thinking she on some shyt"



And real talk, I've noticed in the past that being an a$$hole always work. chicks would stay on me, but the minute I go Mr.Gentleman and shyt and all of a sudden I get that instant friendzone treatment like "Oh yyyeeaa?". so now I know what I have to do

Got to pretend to be an a$$hole until I get in.

women like high level math breh's, only Asian's understand them easily

Nice guy does not mean you have to display no backbone, are you 12 or something

 

[Suicide King]

I got bit by the bug breh, fell head over heels for this dame.
but I feel where you coming from.

Nothing wrong with that, but be ready to breeze if she aint feeling you. Don't force things.

You will be wasting wayyyy too much time AND energy trying to get her to like you, only nice guys will try such a pointless strategy. Don't force things.