Ight I'm learning now... Being a Nice Guy is no way to Win

[Nomadum]

Nice guy does not mean you have to display no backbone, are you 12 or something

I didn't display a backbone because.... ???

I'm trying too explain how you arrived at this conclusion before I engage in a back and forth with you

 

[Nomadum]

Nothing wrong with that, but be ready to breeze if she aint feeling you. Don't force things.

You will be wasting wayyyy too much time AND energy trying to get her to like you, only nice guys will try such a pointless strategy. Don't force things.

man....lol.
but yea, you right though.

 

[karim]

nah, maybe when young. but the older you get the more your looks work against you, especially in the trust category and the preconceptions.

know how many times I had the question asked "I bet you get alot of girls don't you?" if I say no, I'm lying and she knows it so now it's "I knew this nikka was a liar" if I say "yea" then it's "Oh he think he a player".

I don't know, but I don't think being attractive to the opposite sex works for women with a head on her shoulders. for women with no standards to their guy choice or personal life choice then looks is all she cares for. but a dame with shyt going for her ain't about to let a cute dude fukk up her world, not easily atleast.

I can respect that. guess my biggest issue is that I do rock my heart on my sleeve. I hate having to put up a front just to net a dame. but this nice guy shyt, as I get older, just isn't the business. I'm me 110% when dealing with a dame, if I'm holding doors, pulling chairs and shyt it's because that's how I was raised to treat a female. but now, the way society and dating is structured, I have to audible in order to get the dames I want. shyt is fukked up, but not winning the dame you're after is more fukked up.

be clueless brehs.

 

[beenz]

Talked to a homie today to tell him about the shortie I told y'all about. explaining how she be sending mix signals with the whole she seem interested 1 day next day she on some cold shyt. my homie said some shyt that make me go ....... my homie said "You be trying to solve women like Math problems. you too nice and you over think shyt. just focusing on one will have you thinking she on some shyt"



And real talk, I've noticed in the past that being an a$$hole always work. chicks would stay on me, but the minute I go Mr.Gentleman and shyt and all of a sudden I get that instant friendzone treatment like "Oh yyyeeaa?". so now I know what I have to do

Got to pretend to be an a$$hole until I get in.

women like high level math breh's, only Asian's understand them easily

that last part got me dying over here!

 

[Suicide King]

man....lol.
but yea, you right though.

I know the feeling, and I still get a buzz when I like a chick but I Don't force things. If she aint feeling you, just breeze.

There is no easy fix or secret to getting a girl to like you who has zero interest.

 

[Nomadum]

Don't force things. If she aint feeling you, just breeze.

There is no easy fix or secret to getting a girl to like you who has zero interest.

real shyt.

 

[Nomadum]

that last part got me dying over here!

 

[MikelArteta]

There is nothing wrong with being a nice guy, your not really nice because you are expecting rewards for being nice.

Anything I do for someone I do because I want to, not to get some vagina or head or her to text me.

Thing is your messing with women who don't really like you, and your putting all this effort into them trying to coerce them into liking you, your not nice your a fraud.

If a woman is not feeling you, cut your losses. COntrol your emotion and get on with your life.

 

[MikelArteta]

Kinda true.


its about being assertive. When a dude is assertive its a sign that he has high testosterone and is driven. Thats what females are into.

When a dude is all lovey/dovey, buying her flowers and serenading her its a sign that he either has low test, is a faq, or is completely inexperienced in relationships. So yea women naturally gravitate towards the more impatient or rude dudes.

I dont even do it on purpose to be honest. I just be myself. And rude shyt will slip out or i'll get impatient and do something rude. And females will be like "err mah gawwwwd, you're such a dikk" while giggling and feeling on my chest at the same time.

Assert that dominance.

is that so?

Spoiler

when a woman is into you really, all that ish goes out the window,

 

[MikelArteta]

I can respect that. guess my biggest issue is that I do rock my heart on my sleeve. I hate having to put up a front just to net a dame. but this nice guy shyt, as I get older, just isn't the business. I'm me 110% when dealing with a dame, if I'm holding doors, pulling chairs and shyt it's because that's how I was raised to treat a female. but now, the way society and dating is structured, I have to audible in order to get the dames I want. shyt is fukked up, but not winning the dame you're after is more fukked up.

A woman that is truely into you, will find that amazing.

Why change your core for transient women

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

I just gave up. On women. On love. On everything...except money.

I'd rather focus on financial security. Everything and everyone else isn't worth the headache. I'm sick and tired of playing games only to lose.

 

[Couth]

is that so?

Spoiler

when a woman is into you really, all that ish goes out the window,

True. But if a female is really into you that means she already sees you as assertive n all that.

And like i said i can only speak from experience. Being fake with females never got me anywhere in the long term.

 

[Nomadum]

There is nothing wrong with being a nice guy, your not really nice because you are expecting rewards for being nice.

Anything I do for someone I do because I want to, not to get some vagina or head or her to text me.

Thing is your messing with women who don't really like you, and your putting all this effort into them trying to coerce them into liking you, your not nice your a fraud.

If a woman is not feeling you, cut your losses. COntrol your emotion and get on with your life.

was all the way with you until the fraud part.
can I ask what part you felt said I was only a gentleman to get at her?

Everything else with your posting sounds on the money though.

 

[Surreal]

You nikkas ever think you fukkin with the wrong broad?
Continue being nice if ur nice. She don't respond then leave the bytch alone

 

[Nomadum]

I just gave up. On women. On love. On everything...except money.

I'd rather focus on financial security. Everything and everyone else isn't worth the headache. I'm sick and tired of playing games only to lose.

lol say fukk it all huh?