Ight I'm learning now... Being a Nice Guy is no way to Win

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

lol say fukk it all huh?

Yea. The game's just not for me.

I have no problem entertaining the thought that there's no one out there for me and I'm destined to be alone. Been alone for the majority of my Life anyways.

 

[Nomadum]

Yea. The game's just not for me.

I have no problem entertaining the thought that there's no one out there for me and I'm destined to be alone. Been alone for the majority of my Life anyways.

damn fam, I thought my outlook on this shyt was getting dark lol. sorry to hear that shyt though.

 

[MikelArteta]

I respect that.
guess we just seeing things on different levels.

nothing wrong with that, all I'm telling you is that there are women out there who will like that gentleman act how you are you.

Look I don't like seafood, I don't care if a top renowned seafood chef cooked it. I'm not eating it, I have absolutely no interest in eating at a seafood restaurant. Should that top renowned chef change his whole restaurant andstyle because I don't like seafood, no because there are many people out there who love seafood.

 

[Killer Instinct]

How are you liking someone a lot who is playing cold? This is ass backwards.

You may not be that way & that's understandable and for the record, I agree with you.
Women become a lot simpler when you understand that there are entirely too many to be hung up on one.
But the fact is, the old saying of "Everyone wants what they can't have," is true more often than not.
Most people, male and female, are more in love with the hunt and chase than they are the person.
Look back at the women in the past who wanted you.
The ones who hawked you down the most incessantly were likely the ones you wanted nothing to do with.

 

[Slystallion]

Asian men are one of the least sexually desired ethnicity proven by studies the heck are you talking about

 

[Aceofspades404]

I can respect that. guess my biggest issue is that I do rock my heart on my sleeve. I hate having to put up a front just to net a dame. but this nice guy shyt, as I get older, just isn't the business. I'm me 110% when dealing with a dame, if I'm holding doors, pulling chairs and shyt it's because that's how I was raised to treat a female. but now, the way society and dating is structured, I have to audible in order to get the dames I want. shyt is fukked up, but not winning the dame you're after is more fukked up.

Masking who you are will not get you the woman you need. Most guys aren't worth dealing with so it'll be best if you separate yourself from the wolves.

Yea. The game's just not for me.

I have no problem entertaining the thought that there's no one out there for me and I'm destined to be alone. Been alone for the majority of my Life anyways.

Do you genuinely feel like this or is this just a coping mechanism?

 

[BaldingSoHard]

This.. ages old platitude needs to be put to rest.
I'm the nicest dude I know, and I could fukk 80% of your wives / women... Married or otherwise.


The rule is this.
Look out for yourself first, and everything else will follow.
Hint: In the above sentence, "everything" is bolded for a reason.

#NiceGuysFinishFirst

 

[Nomadum]

Masking who you are will not get you the woman you need. Most guys aren't worth dealing with so it'll be best if you separate yourself from the wolves.

I dig it.

Asian men are one of the least sexually desired ethnicity proven by studies the heck are you talking about

over your head like vince charter in the Olympics

 

[Nomadum]

This.. ages old platitude needs to be put to rest.
I'm the nicest dude I know, and I could fukk 80% of your wives / women... Married or otherwise.


The rule is this.
Look out for yourself first, and everything else will follow.
Hint: In the above sentence, "everything" is bolded for a reason.

#NiceGuysFinishFirst

your posting is madd cryptic b.
can you break it down less cryptic?

 

[Nomadum]

You may not be that way & that's understandable and for the record, I agree with you.
Women become a lot simpler when you understand that there are entirely too many to be hung up on one.
But the fact is, the old saying of "Everyone wants what they can't have," is true more often than not.
Most people, male and female, are more in love with the hunt and chase than they are the person.
Look back at the women in the past who wanted you.
The ones who hawked you down the most incessantly were likely the ones you wanted nothing to do with.

damn near always.

 

[Roid Jones]

Yea. The game's just not for me.

I have no problem entertaining the thought that there's no one out there for me and I'm destined to be alone. Been alone for the majority of my Life anyways.

If you are ok with that, live your life

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

there are no secrets, just make your move...

 

[the bossman]

Like I said, change your core and then what you get vagina and maybe a few months in the honeymoon period till you can't keep up the act anymore?

Or stop messing with vegan type broads who don't enjoy your steak.

Look no offense but everyone proclaims they are a solid ass dude, a good dude, bla bla, just like every woman proclaims she is loyal honest bla bla. None of that means ish if someone doesn't like you.

Not every woman will like you or what you have to offer regardless of how "great a guy" you are, thing is who cares, there is a surplus of women out there and each likes different things. Some broad right now prob praying out for a gentleman like you, and your going to change who you are because some vegan type chicks didn't like your steak.


THe one thing I'd change if I were you is to realize not everyone will like you and just shrug and move on with life

The analogy in this one

 

[BaldingSoHard]

your posting is madd cryptic b.
can you break it down less cryptic?

Yea, I can try.

Basically, it's this.

I'm the corniest dude I know.
I'm not tall.
Not rich (by self-made standards).
Not exciting by any means.
But I will fukk your girlfriend / wife with little to no effort.
Basically, I'm a scumbag who knows how women work, so it's easy to pull them.

Women... are like children. Give them ice cream or candy and they will follow you. The only trick is to find what each woman considers "ice cream". As they get older, it diverges a bit. But the baseline is simply attention.

(pause to collect thoughts)

They crave attention from men who are in-demand.
You don't have to be special to be in-demand. Just be yourself and be true to yourself and put YOURSELF first (not in a selfish way if that makes sense) and these hoes will flock.
They're just looking for a strong leader, after all.

 

[old_timer]

i'm bored, so let me add a wacky analogy to the mix
might or might not be relevant

imagine you are a baseball pitcher
you have to establish your pitches
not be afraid to throw them

like you might be a fastball pitcher
2nd best a curveball, 3rd best a slider
but really, people only respect your curveball or slider
AFTER they have seen your fastball
so you have to throw the fastball

it might be a wild pitch, or in the dirt, or a hit batsman
or throw 4 balls for a walk
whatever, you have to keep trying to establish the fastball

if you load the bases with 3 walks and then a wild pitch
yeah, coach will send you to the showers
but oh well
..clearly it wasn't your day to shine
take the L and keep it moving

you can't get scard
you can't start easing up, trying to aim the pitch
hoping to find the strike zone
gotta keep throwing hard
good or bad, you have to lead with your main quality