I'm 24 and never had a girlfriend.
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Beerus
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No. I'd let myself die a old single man before I'd stop being #HOFHMaybe you shouldn't be so "Hard on Fat Hoes"
That's the thing I'm not lowering my standards at all at least not in all aspects. In terms of shyt I keep dear to me like having a good career being financially stable and shyt to the point that my kids have a wayy better life that I did in terms of opportunities this shyt I keep sacred. I ain't gon let nothing come in between my bettering. I just want a girl that i'll be able to fit into all that meaning that she gon have her own goals too. I ain't tryna get with no stupid bum bytch that'd be too easy but I ain't want that if its gonna come and throw a stick in my process.You display many tendencies of caring too much what others think of you.
You're being down on yourself because you feel you don't meet societies standards.
I have a friend who hasn't had a serious relationship as well, always saying he's willing to lower his standards... Nah man, just continue bettering yourself for a future women whose actually worth your while. Who cares what people think man, this is YOUR life and journey, you don't even have to listen to me man.
But anyways I'm just saying that me lacking that and just tryna get one now is really putting me at a god damn disadvantage cuz of lack of experience.
SPACE IS FAKE
Say No To NASA!
continue to better yourself and everything else will fall into place
Dolla$
Minus the bullsh*t...life's great
shyt is nothing but a headache bra..just involves you compromising yourself majority of the time for the sake of someone else's happiness.. after a year of fukking her you'll get bored and will look for something else..trust me bro you'll be much more ahead in life by focusing on you..that feeling of loneliness can be a bytch sometimes especially around this time of year but you'll look back on this drama free part of your life and miss it.
Thing about life is, we're always going to be in-experienced in some field.
You're at NO disadvantage as long as you got your own tunnel vision.You're one dude on a planet of 6 billion plus people breh, it's no biggie if you don't find that person for a while. Long as you're sticking to improving who you are, always.
Perpetual Beast
Beast Mode Always On
Who cares man ?? You can't measure your life based on these yard sticks of age....it'll happen when it happens, everyone peaks at different time..you're still real young brody
As a bonus too, your first relationship will be an adult one and not that teenage bullshyt that fukks with your mind and emotions...saved yourself a ton of time..
As a bonus too, your first relationship will be an adult one and not that teenage bullshyt that fukks with your mind and emotions...saved yourself a ton of time..
Well I'm 23 and I've never had a serious relationship but that's because I'm team awkward
Well I'm 23 and I've never had a serious relationship but that's because I'm team awkward
Maybe you shouldn't be so "Hard on Fat Hoes"
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Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
Same guy who makes internet dating threads every other day. 
I'm sorry, breh,
I'm sorry, breh,You'll be alright, breh. Focus on your passions. You'll run into that sista soon. Unless she happens to be fat and you give her the 
I turned 29 few months back, being objectively honest I have never really had a girlfriend either…..Yes, in middle school I had two 'girlfriends' with whom 'relationships' were arranged by friends, and subsequently ended, both girls cute, but at 13-14, you know the whole 'were going out' that equates to phone conversations and talking in hall, I was at a loss for how to do anything else….hadn't kissed or had sex yet. In high school, I was probably on my way to having one, multiple candidates ready and willing, again I was unsure how to proceed, it would have likely worked itself out….but, in 10th grade I started hustling, and that was it for me as far as relationships….I had my little crushes and unrequited loves, but I was doing coke and valium everyday, and the thing I cared about most was streets and money. Was not in position to have functional relationship, with anyone that I would have liked.
1 year after high school I fell in love with a close friends sister, and we both engaged in what amounted to a, drunken and drug addled affair at her house, for few months. We were both passionate and infatuated with each other, but I was too immature and honestly drug and alcohol addled to really take things further, I also got locked up for awhile, effectively ending things. We never held hands outside, or went on a date, we just slept together, drank, and lived with each other in a hazy, drunk blur for months. Jail, then rehab a year later after the alcohol caught up with me, then 18 months in halfway house….Then sober, I spent ALOT of time afterwards working on myself, for years, i didn't date, or have anything going on in that are at all, for a really long time. Then it was all about the money again, and it wasn't until the last few years, last 2 more so that I started dating and pursuing relationships…which hasn't worked out with whom I've wanted, but I'm for the most part fine with it…bizarrely enough, despite my lack of relationships, all my friends hit me for advice, and I've spent so much time observing, learning, whatever, I'm always the one giving the advice. In short, don't' worry about it much.
Went to my high school reunion over weekend, and I was mostly appalled at those who married young, or have been in long term relationships for better part of last decade, I am glad i didn't go that route, if nothing else.
1 year after high school I fell in love with a close friends sister, and we both engaged in what amounted to a, drunken and drug addled affair at her house, for few months. We were both passionate and infatuated with each other, but I was too immature and honestly drug and alcohol addled to really take things further, I also got locked up for awhile, effectively ending things. We never held hands outside, or went on a date, we just slept together, drank, and lived with each other in a hazy, drunk blur for months. Jail, then rehab a year later after the alcohol caught up with me, then 18 months in halfway house….Then sober, I spent ALOT of time afterwards working on myself, for years, i didn't date, or have anything going on in that are at all, for a really long time. Then it was all about the money again, and it wasn't until the last few years, last 2 more so that I started dating and pursuing relationships…which hasn't worked out with whom I've wanted, but I'm for the most part fine with it…bizarrely enough, despite my lack of relationships, all my friends hit me for advice, and I've spent so much time observing, learning, whatever, I'm always the one giving the advice. In short, don't' worry about it much.
Went to my high school reunion over weekend, and I was mostly appalled at those who married young, or have been in long term relationships for better part of last decade, I am glad i didn't go that route, if nothing else.
feelosofer
#ninergang
In 2014, this may actually be a good thing. The problem is that in todays society the man is expected to do all the heavy lifting in the relationship. At your age, you're better off not settling down until you are 30+.
Beerus
Banned
I still can get box.Same guy who makes internet dating threads every other day.
A nikka just wanted a gf.
I thougth I was almost there tho. Was finna close out 2014 wit a bang
But it aint happen :mjcrylal:
thats the thing i dont want to settle down lol
I just want a gf n see what goes on from there if i settle cool if not well
theres plenty of other women