I’m at a bar alone cause I don’t wanna hear my ex getting dug out... AMA

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Living with my ex while i apartment hunt. Not a bad set up cause I get to see my dogs every day...

Only issue is, Monday and Thursday are the days her bf spends the night. I’m not in the mood to hear some Brit smashing my ex...

I usually work late so I didn’t think there would be issues. Only, I was off work today :sadcam:


The bartender is cute tho,,,
Move you sad bum
 

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Shid..I ain't mad at cha!! It's too cold out there to be insecure given your situation. Now that I know you live in NYC, your situation kinda makes sense. I bet there is a lot of people in your situation. Seems like you are over her and ain't tripping off of her current situation.

But OP..

You know that many dudes in your situation would be trying to slide in those sheets which is why I couldn't be her current dude.

I hope you get your own spot so you can do your own thing and tske your dogs with you. Does your ex mind you having female company over?

He seems like to be a special breed.
shyt he even offered free storage at his house in CT for my shyt.

Nice guy and I’m guessing he loves her to put up with this.

No rules for me having company. We do have a type of love for each other. She rubbed my moms feet after her stroke and I rescued her from an abusive mom.

I guess he figured if I hadn’t smashed after seeing her every week to get drunk/high, maybe t really is platonic.
 

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He seems like to be a special breed.
shyt he even offered free storage at his house in CT for my shyt.

Nice guy and I’m guessing he loves her to put up with this.

No rules for me having company. We do have a type of love for each other. She rubbed my moms feet after her stroke and I rescued her from an abusive mom.

I guess he figured if I hadn’t smashed after seeing her every week to get drunk/high, maybe t really is platonic.

Yeah, it's obvious that y'all care for each other, if anything like extended family. The fact that she didn't give you house rules is a win win situation for you! Honestly, she is lucky to have you as an ex lover homie who respects her because many dudes would try to take advantage of this type of arrangement.

Maybe I am old fashioned like a mugg, but one of my house rules is:

If you ain't my mom or female relative, no woman can live with me who ain't fukkin me! No woman can sleep in my Cali King bed inside my master bedroom w/o fukkin me! I got a spare room with a semi firm queen sized bed for the relatives and platonic home girls.

Thanks for sharing snd best of luck with your apt. hunting!

Respect!
 

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Yeah, it's obvious that y'all care for each other, if anything like extended family. The fact that she didn't give you house rules is a win win situation for you! Honestly, she is lucky to have you as an ex lover homie who respects her because many dudes would try to take advantage of this type of arrangement.

Maybe I am old fashioned like a mugg, but one of my house rules is:

If you ain't my mom or female relative, no woman can live with me who ain't fukkin me! No woman can sleep in my Cali King bed inside my master bedroom w/o fukkin me! I got a spare room with a semi firm queen sized bed for the relatives and platonic home girls.

Thanks for sharing snd best of luck with your apt. hunting!

Respect!


Thanks breh . I posted cause even I couldn’t believe this situation, but our history has never been usual ( her and I) and fukk it, if brehs can laugh at this, have at it . I ain’t tripping.

I share your sentiment with the old fashioned way of thinking, but lucky for me, she doesn’t
 

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:francis: Agreed, it makes more sense now that I know they in the city. But damn, that's crazy, breh. :huhldup:

NYC, DMV, SF, LA, etc. is expensive AF!!! I live in So. Cal although in the I.E., it is still expensive to get a decent spot for a decent price. I expect OP and others like him to swallow pride and set aside egos given the situation.

I don't understand why anyone would try to clown OP when he is really winning low key...

I do think he needs to get his own spot though...But, he got my respect foenplaying the game right given the circumstances...
 

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Thanks breh . I posted cause even I couldn’t believe this situation, but our history has never been usual ( her and I) and fukk it, if brehs can laugh at this, have at it . I ain’t tripping.

I share your sentiment with the old fashioned way of thinking, but lucky for me, she doesn’t

It's all good! Yeah, I am conservative with some things, but as someone who lives alone and paying everything in an expensive state, I understand how difficult it is to sustain oneself.

I am blessed to have a great job and a beautiful home. Not everyone is able to handle all of that with one income.

I expect some brehs to clown just because they may be younger or in a different space, but to me, there is nothing funny about your situation and I do know that different people have different living arrangements. My archaic way of thinking works for me. I don't expect you nor anyone else to live like me.

You are alright in my book! No judgment from me!

Stay strong breh!

Respect!
 

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NYC, DMV, SF, LA, etc. is expensive AF!!! I live in So. Cal although in the I.E., it is still expensive to get a decent spot for a decent price. I expect OP and others like him to swallow pride and set aside egos given the situation.

I don't understand why anyone would try to clown OP when he is really winning low key...

I do think he needs to get his own spot though...But, he got my respect foenplaying the game right given the circumstances...
I live in Manhattan. :beli::wow:
I never lived the roommate life myself, but it's a struggle, ex or not. At least they comfortable with each other's habits and stuff. :ld:
 

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I live in Manhattan. :beli::wow:
I never lived the roommate life myself, but it's a struggle, ex or not. At least they comfortable with each other's habits and stuff. :ld:

HH, I have had a few roommates in my life. I actually lost a friend behind it, so where I am at in my life, I can't do the roommate thing anymore!

My exception is my mom. She can live with me til the casket drops because she is my mom and she will never be homeless while I am alive!!!!

Everyone else gotta HYON or break hella bread! I have zero interest in getting my Jack Tripper on in my house with some so called home girl or ex gf.
 
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