Im back reading bout cacs getting played@.coping with infidelity' forum

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I've cheated and disrespected my husband and now he has found out. He wants to leave and I don't know what to do. These past few weeks have been hell and I've been constantly crying. I really need to find a way to fix what I've done. My husband is on the road most of the time since he is a truck driver. We mostly see the each other 2-3 days out of the week. He works while I stay at home and make sure the kids get to school and take care of them. We had a new neighbor that moved in the condo next to ours. He came over one day and wanted to use our wifi since he hadn't gotten his internet hooked up yet. I didn't want to be difficult since he is our neighbor so I gave him the password so he could get on. He then invited me over to watch a movie if I wasn't doing anything. I took him up on the movie offer but I made it clear that I am married. He was nice about it and didn't pursue me at first. I don't know what happened but we started hanging out on a daily basis and he kept making passes at me. I should have been stronger and pushed him away but I missed the companionship of my husband and I also felt good being with him. We started kissing one night and I can't explain the feeling but we ended up having sex. This went on since October and I only did it on the days that my husband wasn't home. My husband came home a day early on a Thursday without calling and caught me having sex on our bed. My husband beat up the neighbor which isn't fair because everything is my fault. He also kicked me out of the house.

After a day he told me to move back in to be with the kids and he wanted to move out instead. I felt like he was torturing me. He was acting very cold and like he doesn't care about me. I know I made mistakes but he didn't understand the way I felt and the fact that me feelings weren't being met. The neighbor turned his back on me and doesn't even look at me. My husband only came home for Christmas and New years and even then, he said it was only for the kids. How can I get him to forgive me and fix our marriage? I love him but he doesn't see it. He has been saying that he will file for divorce but he still hasn't given me papers. That right there tells me that he still feels something for me. However, he still acts cold when we talk and he says that he doesn't think he can get over what I've done. What can I do to fix this? I know I will never do this again and I want to prove it to him.

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping...ng-engaged-i-learned-many-hurtful-things.html

Wtf is wrong with some of u dudes?

 

[RealAssanova]

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping...how-can-i-make-my-husband-man-i-want-him.html

Ok I know people frown on this kind of thing so I will get this out the way first.

I've been cheating on my husband for the past 3 years!

The other man works on the same job as me. It was originally just a fling and eventually became an entirely new relationship. This man was everything my husband used to be when we met. Funny, handsome, athletic.....he had it all. I know that being in this relationship was wrong but I was being selfish and trying to live my own life without thinking about my husband or children.

I've sensed my husband has always knew something was wrong and I believe that's why he has tried so hard to please me. We've been to countless marriage sessions to try to "work" on our marriage but none of it ever worked. All of this constant pressure really took a toll on me. I made a pact with the man that I was sleeping with and we both agreed to divorce our spouses and be with each other. We were together for so long that I felt this was the right choice for me to be happy.

So I separated from my husband earlier this year against his wishes. He wanted to stay and try to make things work but I knew in my heart that I was in love with someone else and that there was nothing my husband could do to make this work.

Now what does my true lover go and do? He goes to Cancun with his wife and renews his wedding vows!!!!!

He didn't tell me but I just found out this week. I'm so hurt and didn't know that he could hurt me so bad. All this time, he claims he wants to be with me. Now he decides he wants to be with his wife. Oh and get this, he still wants to keep having sex with me. That's just not going to happen.

So I've decided that I want to work things out with my "almost" ex husband. We've been talking this week and he wants to come back home and try again. I really want to give him another chance and I want to know what I can do to change him into the man I originally married. I feel like he has taken me for granted all these years and that's what caused me to cheat. I never wanted to hurt him but we both deserve to be happy. I want him to treat me like the queen I am and to stop going through the motions.

Sorry for the rant and I'm sure I left something out. I know this marriage can't be a lost cause and I need to know what to do to make it work.

Is this the average female logic cuz I am finding this shyt really hard to read.

This almost makes me wanna be HOH till i'm dead.

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

nah i'm cool with marriage. not all girls are hoes. but a lot are

 

[smoove157]

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping...how-can-i-make-my-husband-man-i-want-him.html

Ok I know people frown on this kind of thing so I will get this out the way first.

I've been cheating on my husband for the past 3 years!

The other man works on the same job as me. It was originally just a fling and eventually became an entirely new relationship. This man was everything my husband used to be when we met. Funny, handsome, athletic.....he had it all. I know that being in this relationship was wrong but I was being selfish and trying to live my own life without thinking about my husband or children.

I've sensed my husband has always knew something was wrong and I believe that's why he has tried so hard to please me. We've been to countless marriage sessions to try to "work" on our marriage but none of it ever worked. All of this constant pressure really took a toll on me. I made a pact with the man that I was sleeping with and we both agreed to divorce our spouses and be with each other. We were together for so long that I felt this was the right choice for me to be happy.

So I separated from my husband earlier this year against his wishes. He wanted to stay and try to make things work but I knew in my heart that I was in love with someone else and that there was nothing my husband could do to make this work.

Now what does my true lover go and do? He goes to Cancun with his wife and renews his wedding vows!!!!!

He didn't tell me but I just found out this week. I'm so hurt and didn't know that he could hurt me so bad. All this time, he claims he wants to be with me. Now he decides he wants to be with his wife. Oh and get this, he still wants to keep having sex with me. That's just not going to happen.

So I've decided that I want to work things out with my "almost" ex husband. We've been talking this week and he wants to come back home and try again. I really want to give him another chance and I want to know what I can do to change him into the man I originally married. I feel like he has taken me for granted all these years and that's what caused me to cheat. I never wanted to hurt him but we both deserve to be happy. I want him to treat me like the queen I am and to stop going through the motions.

Sorry for the rant and I'm sure I left something out. I know this marriage can't be a lost cause and I need to know what to do to make it work.

was already when she threw in that exclamation point at the end of the 2nd sentence

 

[Art Barr]

nah i'm cool with marriage. not all girls are hoes. but a lot are

detach yourself from labeling females the wrong label.
females who cheat and don't do extras are cheaters.

females who do extra's are ho's.
on top of the fact relish in being called a ho, too.

if you know how to observe, recognize and properly label a female.
that is the first step in the game.



art barr

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping...how-can-i-make-my-husband-man-i-want-him.html

Ok I know people frown on this kind of thing so I will get this out the way first.

I've been cheating on my husband for the past 3 years!

The other man works on the same job as me. It was originally just a fling and eventually became an entirely new relationship. This man was everything my husband used to be when we met. Funny, handsome, athletic.....he had it all. I know that being in this relationship was wrong but I was being selfish and trying to live my own life without thinking about my husband or children.

I've sensed my husband has always knew something was wrong and I believe that's why he has tried so hard to please me. We've been to countless marriage sessions to try to "work" on our marriage but none of it ever worked. All of this constant pressure really took a toll on me. I made a pact with the man that I was sleeping with and we both agreed to divorce our spouses and be with each other. We were together for so long that I felt this was the right choice for me to be happy.

So I separated from my husband earlier this year against his wishes. He wanted to stay and try to make things work but I knew in my heart that I was in love with someone else and that there was nothing my husband could do to make this work.

Now what does my true lover go and do? He goes to Cancun with his wife and renews his wedding vows!!!!!

He didn't tell me but I just found out this week. I'm so hurt and didn't know that he could hurt me so bad. All this time, he claims he wants to be with me. Now he decides he wants to be with his wife. Oh and get this, he still wants to keep having sex with me. That's just not going to happen.

So I've decided that I want to work things out with my "almost" ex husband. We've been talking this week and he wants to come back home and try again. I really want to give him another chance and I want to know what I can do to change him into the man I originally married. I feel like he has taken me for granted all these years and that's what caused me to cheat. I never wanted to hurt him but we both deserve to be happy. I want him to treat me like the queen I am and to stop going through the motions.

Sorry for the rant and I'm sure I left something out. I know this marriage can't be a lost cause and I need to know what to do to make it work.

:lolha:

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

I wish these threads had pics so I know what to look out for

 

[Busby]

Man.....just....

 

[MewTwo]

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping...-who-only-dated-blacks-cheated-black-man.html

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/family-parenting-forums/65663-my-mother-dating-black-man.html

 

[Ricky Church]

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping...how-can-i-make-my-husband-man-i-want-him.html

Ok I know people frown on this kind of thing so I will get this out the way first.

I've been cheating on my husband for the past 3 years!

The other man works on the same job as me. It was originally just a fling and eventually became an entirely new relationship. This man was everything my husband used to be when we met. Funny, handsome, athletic.....he had it all. I know that being in this relationship was wrong but I was being selfish and trying to live my own life without thinking about my husband or children.

I've sensed my husband has always knew something was wrong and I believe that's why he has tried so hard to please me. We've been to countless marriage sessions to try to "work" on our marriage but none of it ever worked. All of this constant pressure really took a toll on me. I made a pact with the man that I was sleeping with and we both agreed to divorce our spouses and be with each other. We were together for so long that I felt this was the right choice for me to be happy.

So I separated from my husband earlier this year against his wishes. He wanted to stay and try to make things work but I knew in my heart that I was in love with someone else and that there was nothing my husband could do to make this work.

Now what does my true lover go and do? He goes to Cancun with his wife and renews his wedding vows!!!!!

He didn't tell me but I just found out this week. I'm so hurt and didn't know that he could hurt me so bad. All this time, he claims he wants to be with me. Now he decides he wants to be with his wife. Oh and get this, he still wants to keep having sex with me. That's just not going to happen.

So I've decided that I want to work things out with my "almost" ex husband. We've been talking this week and he wants to come back home and try again. I really want to give him another chance and I want to know what I can do to change him into the man I originally married. I feel like he has taken me for granted all these years and that's what caused me to cheat. I never wanted to hurt him but we both deserve to be happy. I want him to treat me like the queen I am and to stop going through the motions.

Sorry for the rant and I'm sure I left something out. I know this marriage can't be a lost cause and I need to know what to do to make it work.

I honestly can't believe there's simp fakkits at that simpery level like her husband in the world...I really can't

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Some of these kats have got to be trolling. The details, though...These kats are serious.

 

[O.G.B]

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/158129-she-cheated-after-22-years-marriage.html


Guy finds out wife of 22 years has been cheating on him with a 60 year old ex-cop from her gym, yet he's still contemplating staying married after the fact!

 

[Illuminatos]

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping...how-can-i-make-my-husband-man-i-want-him.html

Ok I know people frown on this kind of thing so I will get this out the way first.

I've been cheating on my husband for the past 3 years!

The other man works on the same job as me. It was originally just a fling and eventually became an entirely new relationship. This man was everything my husband used to be when we met. Funny, handsome, athletic.....he had it all. I know that being in this relationship was wrong but I was being selfish and trying to live my own life without thinking about my husband or children.

I've sensed my husband has always knew something was wrong and I believe that's why he has tried so hard to please me. We've been to countless marriage sessions to try to "work" on our marriage but none of it ever worked. All of this constant pressure really took a toll on me. I made a pact with the man that I was sleeping with and we both agreed to divorce our spouses and be with each other. We were together for so long that I felt this was the right choice for me to be happy.

So I separated from my husband earlier this year against his wishes. He wanted to stay and try to make things work but I knew in my heart that I was in love with someone else and that there was nothing my husband could do to make this work.

Now what does my true lover go and do? He goes to Cancun with his wife and renews his wedding vows!!!!!

He didn't tell me but I just found out this week. I'm so hurt and didn't know that he could hurt me so bad. All this time, he claims he wants to be with me. Now he decides he wants to be with his wife. Oh and get this, he still wants to keep having sex with me. That's just not going to happen.

So I've decided that I want to work things out with my "almost" ex husband. We've been talking this week and he wants to come back home and try again. I really want to give him another chance and I want to know what I can do to change him into the man I originally married. I feel like he has taken me for granted all these years and that's what caused me to cheat. I never wanted to hurt him but we both deserve to be happy. I want him to treat me like the queen I am and to stop going through the motions.

Sorry for the rant and I'm sure I left something out. I know this marriage can't be a lost cause and I need to know what to do to make it work.

Yo this chick right here is disgusting. I can't believe I really just read this garbage.

 

[MikelArteta]

These men are all misognyst, how dare they talk about the discord in their marriage
If only they chose a better wife they wouldn't be in that predicament.