lol this is a woman saying all thisBlack women’s collective self esteem is so low that being complimented on hair by a non-black is validation that they’re not ugly.
But if a black man says “baby, just wear your REAL hair” he wants you to be ugly because he secretly but openly prefers light skin long haired women.
These women make it SO HARD to defend them. I am not anti-woman I am anti bullshyt. And a lot of online discourse regarding relationships among black women is spearheaded by women who say one thing and do another. You cannot TRUST people like that.
Most of the time, they're just getting passed around by cacs and lie about them dating when the guy is really just fukking. Peep how often wannabe swirlers talk about "dating" non-black men for years without ever mentioning a boyfriend or husband at some pointI hate when chicks immediately run to social media and say the usual “ my friends are dating so and so white guys”
Dating and fukking is one thing
Marriage is a whole different story

Idk and It don’t/won’t matterIsn't Tom Brady a huge MAGA supporter? He endorses an ideology that wants to take away black people's civil rights.
Any black women that's more worried about someone complimenting their hair than that is lost. That said, these are Internet loudmouths and not representative of black women in general.

We have to take our head out of the sand breh, because we're not afforded the same grace when black men do c00n shyt. The reality is that we've ignored the large section of BW that believe in this bullshyt, when we have evidence of it being a real problem.Isn't Tom Brady a huge MAGA supporter? He endorses an ideology that wants to take away black people's civil rights.
Any black women that's more worried about someone complimenting their hair than that is lost. That said, these are Internet loudmouths and not representative of black women in general.
What?Tom I’m sure has been with women of all colors . do we want white men to think black women are ugly . They are beautiful. Most men should want them.
“Oh its just the internet”We have to take our head out of the sand breh, because we're not afforded the same grace when black men do c00n shyt. The reality is that we've ignored the large section of BW that believe in this bullshyt, when we have evidence of it being a real problem.
Break it down for us.Holy shyt the hypocrisy in this thread![]()
I'm not even a swirler you weird idiot. If you gonna look up my post history like a weirdo, look up when I recently posted I have a black man. Yall mad af for real. It's not even that serious lmaoCaping for your fellow swirler I seeI do like how y'all stick for each other for real.

I'm not chastizing you for trying the swirl and reaching back to a black man after it failed sis, but I am curious as to how this thread is full of hypocrisy.I'm not even a swirler you weird idiot. If you gonna look up my post history like a weirdo, look up when I recently posted I have a black man. Yall mad af for real. It's not even that serious lmao![]()
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I'm not even a swirler you weird idiot. If you gonna look up my post history like a weirdo, look up when I recently posted I have a black man. Yall mad af for real. It's not even that serious lmao![]()
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