How is it possible to miss the point this badlyTom I’m sure has been with women of all colors . do we want white men to think black women are ugly . They are beautiful. Most men should want them.
How is it possible to miss the point this badlyTom I’m sure has been with women of all colors . do we want white men to think black women are ugly . They are beautiful. Most men should want them.
Black women’s collective self esteem is so low that being complimented on hair by a non-black is validation that they’re not ugly.
But if a black man says “baby, just wear your REAL hair” he wants you to be ugly because he secretly but openly prefers light skin long haired women.
These women make it SO HARD to defend them. I am not anti-woman I am anti bullshyt. And a lot of online discourse regarding relationships among black women is spearheaded by women who say one thing and do another. You cannot TRUST people like that.

.You can be performative all you want as a black man on some black queens forever snowbunnies never shyt, but that shyt pales in comparison to a WM complimenting them.
That's why i stopped caring about the colorism and desirability politics(aka femceldom).![]()
ReppedBut if a black man says “baby, just wear your REAL hair” he wants you to be ugly because he secretly but openly prefers light skin long haired women.
she bullshytting in them comments. she didn't expect to get her card pulled so she started juelzing about her black girlfriends on some UPN type shyt. women be easily fooled by the beginning of relationships. all u gotta do is blow a kiss and they think that speaks for the entirety of your character. smfh.
I've learned something in life and this ,applies to minority women in general not just bw, but alot of that self hate/colorism/hair insecurities is just women wanting to be seen by the dominate group as attractive.
You can be performative all you want as a black man on some black queens forever snowbunnies never shyt, but that shyt pales in comparison to a WM complimenting them.
That's why i stopped caring about the colorism and desirability politics(aka femceldom).![]()

Crazy how you taste the rainbow but if a BW does it something is wrong with her.technology and social media is just to advanced for black folk, we need to keep shyt simple
you mean to tell me that black women are so simple that oooh and aaah 'ing about their hair is enough to be pressure or flattery.
im a worldly breh so i take women of all kinds, but its clear you need to vet black women thoroughly for mental illnesses and wenchery.

For real, those dr.Umar brehs get no attention aside from a few laughing emojisI've learned something in life and this ,applies to minority women in general not just bw, but alot of that self hate/colorism/hair insecurities is just women wanting to be seen by the dominate group as attractive.
You can be performative all you want as a black man on some black queens forever snowbunnies never shyt, but that shyt pales in comparison to a WM complimenting them.
That's why i stopped caring about the colorism and desirability politics(aka femceldom).![]()
. I understand what they're trying to do but it's useless, you can't raise the collective self-esteem of black women like that.What does this has to do with that married black woman doing backflips because a white man complimented a black woman's hair in the OP thoughCrazy how you taste the rainbow but if a BW does it something is wrong with her.
There are literally whole channels of BM running around begging non-women to like them...and then they do the happy dance when one says yes.

This is also why America directly funds foreign males being propped up with businesses and gas stations in Black neighborhoods. Allowing our tax dollars to be invested in Black communities would give Black men control of resources, thus making us more attractive to Black women. Instead, the Black women look towards an arab or indian because they're the ones that own everything in our neighborhoods.I've learned something in life and this ,applies to minority women in general not just bw, but alot of that self hate/colorism/hair insecurities is just women wanting to be seen by the dominate group as attractive.
You can be performative all you want as a black man on some black queens forever snowbunnies never shyt, but that shyt pales in comparison to a WM complimenting them.
That's why i stopped caring about the colorism and desirability politics(aka femceldom).![]()

Weird how y'all really think Black women should operate like menCrazy how you taste the rainbow but if a BW does it something is wrong with her.
There are literally whole channels of BM running around begging non-women to like them...and then they do the happy dance when one says yes.
It's pretty obvious. You're struggling to make the connection? What exactly do you need assistance with?What does this has to do with that married black woman doing backflips because a white man complimented a black woman's hair in the OP though![]()