I'm dating this single mom
- Thread starter Raheem95
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If she got a bytch ass baby daddy, then you know what to do
If everything is cool then
it didn't work out with them. they separated, but the kids still maintain a relationship with her baby daddy. they go live with him over the summer in Memphis.
So…are all single mothers pariahs of society to y'all?
Are they not capable of being loved because they have a child?
Not at all..They deserve happiness..
I think some are guilty of not being realistic...
If a man has no kids, 9/10 you already know the nikka about that smash and be friends life...
I love single mothers and i build with them all the time.
They just gotta realize the market changes after a child is born
Why I even bother asking?
He gonna be hitting that p*ssy whenever he wants to
maybe but then again, her baby daddy got a girlfriend. but yeah that can possibly happen.Do you have kids?
If you already have kids yourself I don't see the problem since you're on the same level. If you don't have any, you're dating down.
And she still fukking her baby daddy if he's still in her life. Doesn't matter if he has a girlfriend. He gonna fukk whenever he wants to.
Just too many issues you don't want to have.
And it's a red flag that you're already meeting her kids after just a few dates. Y'all ain't even in a relationship.
If you already have kids yourself I don't see the problem since you're on the same level. If you don't have any, you're dating down.
And she still fukking her baby daddy if he's still in her life. Doesn't matter if he has a girlfriend. He gonna fukk whenever he wants to.
Just too many issues you don't want to have.
And it's a red flag that you're already meeting her kids after just a few dates. Y'all ain't even in a relationship.
Reginald Noble
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I couldn't mess with a single mom unless she was a lawyer or high powered business woman making guap and her kids were grown and out the house. So in other words - She would be the same as a divorced mom in the 90's and probably not be younger than 35 or so at best.
If she was young enough when she made the mistake - AND is still broke - She can kick the kids out the house at 18 (like most broke Women do when they had kids they couldn't afford subsisting off that got damn child support) and try to do the "right thing" AKA find a Man with money and the means to support her ass. 18+18=36. So find a divorced dad the same age who didn't get taken to the cleaners. Either way her options will be slimmer due to her age and status (regardless if the kids gone or not ) but not impossible if she keeps her body fresh, don't do drugs, get proper sleep and not on that struggle 3 job lifestyle that bring on the wrinkles too quick.
So if you have to mess with a single mom, mess with an older one who can at least financially throw you a bone as a young nikka. When I was 19 or so I had 2-3 divorced sugar mommas (late 30's early 40's) that used to pay for my dinner, monthly metrocard, shyt like that
Don't mess with the broke single moms I mentioned above who had a lot of stress in life, body worn down and made poor career choices and survived off tricks and older nikkas on that SIMP shyt.
If she was young enough when she made the mistake - AND is still broke - She can kick the kids out the house at 18 (like most broke Women do when they had kids they couldn't afford subsisting off that got damn child support) and try to do the "right thing" AKA find a Man with money and the means to support her ass. 18+18=36. So find a divorced dad the same age who didn't get taken to the cleaners. Either way her options will be slimmer due to her age and status (regardless if the kids gone or not ) but not impossible if she keeps her body fresh, don't do drugs, get proper sleep and not on that struggle 3 job lifestyle that bring on the wrinkles too quick.
So if you have to mess with a single mom, mess with an older one who can at least financially throw you a bone as a young nikka. When I was 19 or so I had 2-3 divorced sugar mommas (late 30's early 40's) that used to pay for my dinner, monthly metrocard, shyt like that
Don't mess with the broke single moms I mentioned above who had a lot of stress in life, body worn down and made poor career choices and survived off tricks and older nikkas on that SIMP shyt.
Bottom line it's up to you how far you want to put into this relationship. My ex was a single mother and there was lot to deal with being with her. I learned a lot and had some good times, however going forward you have to know what you are willing to deal with and recognize red flags when you see them. Not saying I would never date a single mom again because there are some good women out there, just gotta know what you are getting into, and what you both want and have an understanding of that.
The single mother hate is wild
I mean they have made mistakes and shyt, but there is no reason to be harsh on them..
I know single mothers with a lower body count than some childless women out there
Relationships just dont work out sometimes
They just gotta find a man who is an acceptable companion to the new "them"...
I will say this..
You will always be #2.Unless the Baby Father pulls a complete dikk move.And sometimes even then
.The men who can accept this,go right ahead
And her chances of cheating are higher because she usually has less loyalty to number 2...
In saying that, i hope the best 4 them
I mean they have made mistakes and shyt, but there is no reason to be harsh on them..
I know single mothers with a lower body count than some childless women out there
Relationships just dont work out sometimes
They just gotta find a man who is an acceptable companion to the new "them"...
I will say this..
You will always be #2.Unless the Baby Father pulls a complete dikk move.And sometimes even then
.The men who can accept this,go right aheadAnd her chances of cheating are higher because she usually has less loyalty to number 2...
In saying that, i hope the best 4 them
Do you have kids?
If you already have kids yourself I don't see the problem since you're on the same level. If you don't have any, you're dating down.
And she still fukking her baby daddy if he's still in her life. Doesn't matter if he has a girlfriend. He gonna fukk whenever he wants to.
Just too many issues you don't want to have.
And it's a red flag that you're already meeting her kids after just a few dates. Y'all ain't even in a relationship.
nah he in the kids life, he just takes them lil nikkas to Memphis over the summer. but i understand anything could happen. and if he is dikking her down, it's not like i'm gonna stay, i'ma be out that motherfukker.
and i met her kids on accident when i picked her up, she ended up apologizing for that. i thought it was whatever cause shyt happens and another time i went over to pick her up, but she was running late in the bathroom and her kids wanted to play some Xbox so i did.
