I'm dating this single mom

Diyhai

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You didn't answer my questions.
i didnt answer them because i didnt make those assumpstions
but I think a woman can respect you and not want to have sex with you
you are in the friend zone not because she doesnt respect you it is because she is not attracted to you sexually that could be many reasons
a women is suppose to have sex with everyone she respects?
she could easily have less respect for a dude she is fukking than someone she has in the friendzone
 

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Let's not get carried away, chicks with kids are more likely to not be shyt than your everyday woman. Birth control comes in many forms nowadays, pregnancy comes out of recklessness and disregard for your own financial future.
And I definitely remember that thread where Coli nikkas were complaining about women being "too educated."

we can agree to disagree. itheres plenty of not shyt bytches running around here with 4 and 5 abortions under their belt or a frequent buyer discount card at the drugstore for plan b.
if you a aint shyt chick or a aint shyt dude you gonna be aint shyt with or without a kid.
 

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American women are so stupid I swear. Fighting tooth and nail for your privilege to get pregnant by multiple guys and then want to shame men afterward because they don't want to date you. Just shows how backwards and toxic our society is that we even have to have a conversation about why single mothers aren't serious marriage material :heh: Marry the man first, stupid. Then have the baby. How hard is that :heh: You have one biological purpose on this planet and you can't even get that right. Christ.

Shame all you want. I don't have to date single mothers. They're invisible to me. I don't work to take care of another nikkas kids. My wife will never have kids by another man. It's disgusting. The thought is repulsive. Any man who does this needs his head checked.

If I was this dry dikk loser you claim I am, lets remember, this entitlement shyt works both ways. The Prom Queen, as you stated, wasn't required to give me any play back in the day. And I'm not required to take care of her b*stard kids now. That's fair. That's equitable. We are allowed to say we don't want to deal with certain women, the same way women are allowed to say they don't want to deal with certain men. It goes both ways. Check your fukking entitlement. Life is real easy for you. Marry a guy before you have his babies and you'll never have to worry about being out here like a dumbass begging other men to take care of your illegitimate kids.
Lmao! But that's the point I'm making no one is trying to get him to "cape for those prom queens" or encourage anyone to save them.

I was merely giving a humorous commentary on how the bitterness or hopefulness shines through in some of these nikkas advice to the dude because of their own personal agendas.

You're fighting a battle that is all in your head and trying to deem urself Frank Castle to any even single mom by depriving them of u when they don't want u in the first place.

But I digress. No one is defending single motherhood but that's the platform ur trying to sneak ur gradeschool resentment in under. Stop it. Also stop stereotyping all single mothers as relationships don't work out for many different reasons. Who the hell are u, a poster child for Reagan era welfare queen propaganda?

Ya'll kill me.
 

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actually i get and acknowledge that its much harder to date a parent

my comment was really more adressed to the notion on the coli that all women are shyt. thats the running theme. young chicks aint shyt, old chicks aint shyt, chicks with kids aint shyt, chicks who go to the club aint shyt, chicks with too many degrees aint shyt etc etc...

ftr, even for married women with children with their husband the children will always come first [yes it should be different if they are your kids, but alot of men dont realize that and then have hurt feelings when it happens]
Except PAWGS. They are always the exception here :mjpls:
 
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we can agree to disagree. itheres plenty of not shyt bytches running around here with 4 and 5 abortions under their belt or a frequent buyer discount card at the drugstore for plan b.
if you a aint shyt chick or a aint shyt dude you gonna be aint shyt with or without a kid.



I find out if a woman's had an abortion I have to dead the relationship. It's in my principles.
 
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If they didn't invent welfare and made laws against dealing with hoe ish men/women would this even be a topic?
So of you guys need to do history kings talked bad about single mothers trust...and I have to say the value of men in that time period was higher thane ever. I'm trying to be a renaissance man. To me it's the best way to enjoy life.
 

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Lmao! But that's the point I'm making no one is trying to get him to "cape for those prom queens" or encourage anyone to save them.

I was merely giving a humorous commentary on how the bitterness or hopefulness shines through in some of these nikkas advice to the dude because of their own personal agendas.

You're fighting a battle that is all in your head and trying to deem urself Frank Castle to any even single mom by depriving them of u when they don't want u in the first place.

But I digress. No one is defending single motherhood but that's the platform ur trying to sneak ur gradeschool resentment in under. Stop it. Also stop stereotyping all single mothers as relationships don't work out for many different reasons. Who the hell are u, a poster child for Reagan era welfare queen propaganda?

Ya'll kill me.

I don't care how they end up single mothers.

Not my problem.

If you wasn't trying to come at my neck, you'd see I offered women advice. Advice people have been giving them since the dawn of time.

Find a man. Date a man. Plan out future with the man. Marry the man. Then have a family with the man. All in that precise order.

It's not rocket science sweetheart :skip:

Stop getting pregnant by non-committal men and getting mad because 90% of the male population isn't willing to pick up the pieces.

You should have made him marry you before you started popping out babies.
 
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i didnt answer them because i didnt make those assumpstions
but I think a woman can respect you and not want to have sex with you
you are in the friend zone not because she doesnt respect you it is because she is not attracted to you sexually that could be many reasons
a women is suppose to have sex with everyone she respects?
she could easily have less respect for a dude she is fukking than someone she has in the friendzone

:mjlol: at guy in the friendzone being respected. He's lame (your words) but she has more respect for him than the nikka (who apparently isn't lame) that she's bending over and taking nuts to the face for? :dead: :dead: :dead:

It's not assumptions it's reality and you are twisting what I said. Respect is necessary for a woman to find you sexually attractive that doesn't mean it's the only thing or automatic. But it must be present though.

You male or female?
 

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:mjlol: at guy in the friendzone being respected. He's lame (your words) but she has more respect for him than the nikka (who apparently isn't lame) that she's bending over and taking nuts to the face for? :dead: :dead: :dead:

It's not assumptions it's reality and you are twisting what I said. Respect is necessary for a woman to find you sexually attractive that doesn't mean it's the only thing or automatic. But it must be present though.

You male or female?
a male
a chick can think u a bum and not respect u but find u attractive and use u for sex
plenty of broke nyggas that women let fukk but they dont respect them because they broke and wouldn't consider being with them
a dude that is doing well for himself but corny she will respect him being a good dude and working hard but she is not attracted to him
what is hard to understand about this
respect is not necessary for a women to have sex with a man in the same way its not for a man
watch an episode of sex in the city nygga lol
I can tell u never talk to women about this shyt
u sound naive as shyt
 

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a male
a chick can think u a bum and not respect u but find u attractive and use u for sex
plenty of broke nyggas that women let fukk but they dont respect them because they broke and wouldn't consider being with them
a dude that is doing well for himself but corny she will respect him being a good dude and working hard but she is not attracted to him
what is hard to understand about this
respect is not necessary for a women to have sex with a man in the same way its not for a man
watch an episode of sex in the city nygga lol
I can tell u never talk to women about this shyt
u sound naive as shyt

Take what women say at face value and use a TV show that was really about gay men as a source and then call other people naïve brehs.

:heh: at a woman "using" a man for sex. That's nothing more than thotspeak from chicks that are getting ran through who are trying to act like they are in control. That's like a guy saying he's using a chick for a night out that he's paying for and a pedicure that he's providing and some cuddling.

It's plenty of chicks out here supporting broke nikkas that they are either with or tryna be with. One thing that women do do like men is lie to boost themselves and keep themselves from looking stupid.




My nikka said watch Sex in the City :laff:

Corny, lames get more respect than nikkas who aren't corny and lame. :mjlol:
 

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Nothing wrong with dating single moms. I actually used to prefer it sometimes. It really depends on what you are looking for:manny:

If you're the needy type dude where you want some chick all up in your space all the time then they typical single mom isnt for you. She has bigger fish to fry (her kids) and doesnt have time to be all in your space all the time. Her priority in life is her children. Not you. You're not her life like they typical chick who has no children.

But if you're just looking for a chill chick to kick it with sometimes but dont need her in your space all the time then a single mom may be for you. Scheduling outings can be an issue due to schedule and need to get a baby sitter and such. But the time she is available she aint gonna waste your time. The little bit of time she is able to get away from her kids she wants to make it count have fun because those dont come by often. Again, she has a limited amount of time she she wants to have a good time, get some d!ck and go back home to her kid.
 
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