I'm dating this single mom

[Youseenmywork]

The men creating these babies are also poor decision makers
Nyggas got stop with the alpha beta shyt like men don't do the same
men wanna fukk mad hoes but won't make those hoes their wife
in the same way women have dudes they just wanna have sex with and men they want to settle down with
Same shyt recognize the game and position urself correctly

Yeah but it's still up to the woman who enters her body thoe. No matter what type of game a nikka spittin. You right men gotta take responsibility for just laying up and making babies, but this man is a direct reflection of how and what the women think of herself. If a woman is fukking nikka with no ambitions no nothing and she know this it does say a lot about her. Like my grandmother said ...before welfare nobody slept with those dusty nikka in the village cause the village knew they wasn't about nothing.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Diyhai]

I was with you until here. Women are not getting knocked up by male jumpoffs. More often than not these are nikkas they want to settle down with. The nikka getting treated like the jumpoff is the "friend" who they never have sex with.

It goes both ways
what you are saying is definitely true but I dont think most women intentionally get pregnant by bums
I seen plenty of chicks just dealing with a dude they dont really see a future with and accidentally get pregnant

 

[Krazy]

0 interest in dating a single mother.

Only would do it AFTER I've got a child/children of my own.

 

[FTBS]

It goes both ways
what you are saying is definitely true but I dont think most women intentionally get pregnant by bums
I seen plenty of chicks just dealing with a dude they dont really see a future with and accidentally get pregnant

I wouldn't say that women intentionally get pregnant by bums. I would say they just do a poor job vetting dudes. I see the chicks that get accidentally pregnant but that is a minority. The majority of chicks that end up pregnant were either in a relationship or wanted to be.

My main point was that can't compare a chick fukking a dude she didn't see a future with to a dude fukking a jump off. A chick has to hold a dude in certain level of esteem, no matter how misguided it may be, in order to fukk him. Otherwise the friendzone wouldn't exist.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

If they are so creepy and unattractive then why do you care that they won't date single mothers?

That's like us getting mad that fat chicks, ugly chicks and single mothers won't date us?

We'll say okay

If we are even bothered to listen to what they have to say. People generally don't care about anything people lower than them have to say.

It sounds like you do care to be honest

Nope I don't. But I can see I hit a nerve and ur probably on of the people I was talking about in my post.
The way u honed in on the creep factor is very telling especially out of everything else I had to say in that post.
And yes if a grown ass man has that many fukks to give about what another man dates there is usually an agenda behind it. Same with women.

The creep factor comes in because you want to punish women for not choosing you so ur going on a quest to convince other males to punish them too. I don't care but the shyt is laughable primarily because ya'll don't see how transparent u are.
The creep factor also rears its head because you have so much resentment against women who chose men other than you that you are stereotyping all single mothers.

These women are a living embodiment of all the females who didn't want you in life. Who chose otherwise, so you're hoping they'll "pay" for their grievous mistake of not being attracted to you. Lmao!

Grow up. Relationships are complex. In many cases you can choose right and things still don't work which is why ya'll need to stop with the single mom hate.

Get over yourself. Give the dude some unbiased advice. And stop seeing the cheerleaders who ignored you in school in every single mother out there all while hoping they stay lonely for the dubious sin of not choosing you. Because your not perfect either and had they chosen u, there would have been merely another set of issues.

 

[Diyhai]

I wouldn't say that women intentionally get pregnant by bums. I would say they just do a poor job vetting dudes. I see the chicks that get accidentally pregnant but that is a minority. The majority of chicks that end up pregnant were either in a relationship or wanted to be.

My main point was that can't compare a chick fukking a dude she didn't see a future with to a dude fukking a jump off. A chick has to hold a dude in certain level of esteem, no matter how misguided it may be, in order to fukk him. Otherwise the friendzone wouldn't exist.

U dont think a woman finds a dude attractive and just fukks him off that alone?
U dont think women have dikk on standby they dont love the dude but that dude just know how to fukk her right?
u dont think women just dont fukk exes cuz they dont want to get their body count up
friendzone is for lame nyggas they dont wanna fukk

 

[MalikX]

Nope I don't. But I can see I hit a nerve and ur probably on of the people I was talking about in my post.
The way u honed in on the creep factor is very telling especially out of everything else I had to say in that post.
And yes if a grown ass man has that many fukks to give about what another man dates there is usually an agenda behind it. Same with women.

The creep factor comes in because you want to punish women for not choosing you so ur going on a quest to convince other males to punish them too. I don't care but the shyt is laughable primarily because ya'll don't see how transparent u are.
The creep factor also rears its head because you have so much resentment against women who chose men other than you that you are stereotyping all single mothers.

These women are a living embodiment of all the females who didn't want you in life. Who chose otherwise, so you're hoping they'll "pay" for their grievous mistake of not being attracted to you. Lmao!

Grow up. Relationships are complex. In many cases you can choose right and things still don't work which is why ya'll need to stop with the single mom hate.

Get over yourself. Give the dude some unbiased advice. And stop seeing the cheerleaders who ignored you in school in every single mother out there all while hoping they stay lonely for the dubious sin of not choosing you. Because your not perfect either and had they chosen u, there would have been merely another set of issues.

Nope I don't. But I can see I hit a nerve and ur probably on of the people I was talking about in my post.
The way u honed in on the creep factor is very telling especially out of everything else I had to say in that post.
And yes if a grown ass man has that many fukks to give about what another man dates there is usually an agenda behind it. Same with women.

The creep factor comes in because you want to punish women for not choosing you so ur going on a quest to convince other males to punish them too. I don't care but the shyt is laughable primarily because ya'll don't see how transparent u are.
The creep factor also rears its head because you have so much resentment against women who chose men other than you that you are stereotyping all single mothers.

These women are a living embodiment of all the females who didn't want you in life. Who chose otherwise, so you're hoping they'll "pay" for their grievous mistake of not being attracted to you. Lmao!

Grow up. Relationships are complex. In many cases you can choose right and things still don't work which is why ya'll need to stop with the single mom hate.

Get over yourself. Give the dude some unbiased advice. And stop seeing the cheerleaders who ignored you in school in every single mother out there all while hoping they stay lonely for the dubious sin of not choosing you. Because your not perfect either and had they chosen u, there would have been merely another set of issues.

American women are so stupid I swear. Fighting tooth and nail for your privilege to get pregnant by multiple guys and then want to shame men afterward because they don't want to date you. Just shows how backwards and toxic our society is that we even have to have a conversation about why single mothers aren't serious marriage material Marry the man first, stupid. Then have the baby. How hard is that You have one biological purpose on this planet and you can't even get that right. Christ.

Shame all you want. I don't have to date single mothers. They're invisible to me. I don't work to take care of another nikkas kids. My wife will never have kids by another man. It's disgusting. The thought is repulsive. Any man who does this needs his head checked.

If I was this dry dikk loser you claim I am, lets remember, this entitlement shyt works both ways. The Prom Queen, as you stated, wasn't required to give me any play back in the day. And I'm not required to take care of her b*stard kids now. That's fair. That's equitable. We are allowed to say we don't want to deal with certain women, the same way women are allowed to say they don't want to deal with certain men. It goes both ways. Check your fukking entitlement. Life is real easy for you. Marry a guy before you have his babies and you'll never have to worry about being out here like a dumbass begging other men to take care of your illegitimate kids.

 

[FTBS]

U dont think a woman finds a dude attractive and just fukks him off that alone?
U dont think women have dikk on standby they dont love the dude but that dude just know how to fukk her right?
u dont think women just dont fukk exes cuz they dont want to get their body count up
friendzone is for lame nyggas they dont wanna fukk

Of course. I just don't think you can act like it's the same for both sexes. If a chick is fukking a dude, whether it's casual or not, she has to have certain level of respect for him. Way more respect than a guy has to have for a chick in order to fukk her. A chick not wanting to fukk a guy is the female equivalent of a guy only wanting to fukk a chick.

 

[Diyhai]

Of course. I just don't think you can act like it's the same for both sexes. If a chick is fukking a dude, whether it's casual or not, she has to have certain level of respect for him. Way more respect than a guy has to have for a chick in order to fukk her. A chick not wanting to fukk a guy is the female equivalent of a guy only wanting to fukk a chick.

really so
so what is the equivalent of a dude not wanting to fukk a chick for a women?
u really putting woman on a pedestal some of them is on the same cruddy shyt as you dudes

 

[FTBS]

really so
so what is the equivalent of a dude not wanting to fukk a chick for a women?
u really putting woman on a pedestal some of them is on the same cruddy shyt as you dudes

There isn't one because guys don't devote any time or energy towards or develop relationships with chicks they aren't trying to fukk.

So a chick has an equal level of respect for the dude she is fukking and the dude she is putting in the friendzone and she's just randomly picking who to fukk? Friendzone has nothing to do with a guy being a pushover and thusly the female not having any respect for him?

 

[Diyhai]

There isn't one because guys don't devote any time or energy towards or develop relationships with chicks they aren't trying to fukk.

So a chick has an equal level of respect for the dude she is fukking and the dude she is putting in the friendzone and she's just randomly picking who to fukk? Friendzone has nothing to do with a guy being a pushover and thusly the female not having any respect for him?

You are assuming the respect part, that is what you said not me
So because you have no sexual attraction for a person that means you dont respect them?

 

[FTBS]

You are assuming the respect part, that is what you said not me
So because you have no sexual attraction for a person that means you dont respect them?

You didn't answer my questions.

 

[EndDomination]

Don't listen to the women or the simps in this thread.
You need to do what is best for you, and there isn't a single scenario in which inheriting someone else's family is a good idea.
You will continue to be second or third in her life, and if you don't think it will bother you, it will trust me.
You will incur more unnecessary costs, after all: you haven't made any borderline retarded mistakes that cost you a huge chunk of money every year.
There are better women out there, and they likely don't have kids. Why date a woman making mid-5 figures with two kids, and a myriad of personal issues and complications, when you can date the more in-shape, less problematic, higher-paid, career woman who eventually may want to settle down and have kids that'll be yours?
I don't hate single mothers at all, I'm just letting you know there is better out there, and you should never sell yourself short.

 

[EndDomination]

actually i get and acknowledge that its much harder to date a parent

my comment was really more adressed to the notion on the coli that all women are shyt. thats the running theme. young chicks aint shyt, old chicks aint shyt, chicks with kids aint shyt, chicks who go to the club aint shyt, chicks with too many degrees aint shyt etc etc...

ftr, even for married women with children with their husband the children will always come first [yes it should be different if they are your kids, but alot of men dont realize that and then have hurt feelings when it happens]

Let's not get carried away, chicks with kids are more likely to not be shyt than your everyday woman. Birth control comes in many forms nowadays, pregnancy comes out of recklessness and disregard for your own financial future.
And I definitely remember that thread where Coli nikkas were complaining about women being "too educated."