I'm dating this single mom

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but there is no reason to be harsh on them...

You will always be #2.

And her chances of cheating are higher

Read your thought process breh - You are being sympathetic and empathetic to cheaters who want another Man (and him to be faithful and exclusive) while she continues to potentially get knocked up with more and other nikkas children? :francis:

This is why we are struggling as a people, nikkas get a moment of weakness because the p*ssy feels good, the azz is phat or whatever, meanwhile there is some dark-skinned African, South American or other woman with the same features and none of this baggage to even deal with.:patrice:

I am extending this a little - But nikkas need to see the fault lines where they go wrong and yours is the best example.

fukk forgiving or being nice - It's all about economics - When you look at the baby momma rate in DR vs. Drumminicans here in NYC - Drumminican Women have almost TWO TO THREE TIMES THE NUMBER OF ILLEGITAMITE CHILDREN IN THE U.S. THEY HAVE IN THEIR HOMELAND...

Instead of tussling with this bullshyt state side go where the economics favor the man - And usually in those countries which are traditional - AT MOST they will have one illegit child and then the SHOP IS CLOSED....

nikkas talmbout being empathetic and shyt - Meanwhile Women abroad KNOW they got to be ULTRA practical or get even worse than what the pain and ostracized attitude they getting from their fam and peers already. :ld:

Let me tell you something - With the sunset of Amerikkka this baby momma shyt will NEVER be acceptable, EVER :sas2:

Be harsh nikka, don't SLIP UP none of this nice-nice bullshyt :beli:
 

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My last 2 gf's (current and previous of 7 years) both had a kid.

Listen people here might play you and acting all sideways like its fukked up, but it aint easy being a single mother, a lot of times they have their shyt together MUCH more then a women with no kids. A lof of them had very rough patches in life. I am still friends with my ex and her daughter is best friends with my niece to this day. I dated her for 6 years, her kid was 1 when we started dated, we broke up when she was 7 and i helped raise her, changed diapers and shyt. It was never planned and didn't really think it out, it just happens man. I still love that girl, her family still trust me picking her up and having her chill with my niece.

My current, she hid the fact she had a kid for our first bunch of dates, i guess she wanted to feel me out and make sure i wasnt a piece of shyt before i met her, she was also worried i would dip on her when she told me. Not only did i not dip, but i told her about my ex, and even let her know she has to be cool with it, I am not messing with my ex on the dl or anything, so it can be difficult for a girl to accept that, but its simple I will never let a new gf break that friendship my ex's daughter and niece have, they are literally best friends.

If taken seriously by both sides and no shady shyt going on, it can be a great thing man, and i will say this now, its not always easy man, especially if baby daddy drama rises.

If you stick with it bro, congrats and :salute: that kid dont deserve her moms to have guys running in/out of her life.
 

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If i were you, just be very careful..

What do the baby father do for a living:patrice:


he a rapper, he did a song with Young Dolph :manny::manny:

:russ::russ: nah i'm joking, he a electrician breh. i heard the average salary electricians make is $50K a year, not that bad :ehh::ehh:
 

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Read your thought process breh - You are being sympathetic and empathetic to cheaters who want another Man (and him to be faithful and exclusive) while she continues to potentially get knocked up with more and other nikkas children? :francis:

This is why we are struggling as a people, nikkas get a moment of weakness because the p*ssy feels good, the azz is phat or whatever, meanwhile there is some dark-skinned African, South American or other woman with the same features and none of this baggage to even deal with.:patrice:

I am extending this a little - But nikkas need to see the fault lines where they go wrong and yours is the best example.

fukk forgiving or being nice - It's all about economics - When you look at the baby momma rate in DR vs. Drumminicans here in NYC - Drumminican Women have almost TWO TO THREE TIMES THE NUMBER OF ILLEGITAMITE CHILDREN IN THE U.S. THEY HAVE IN THEIR HOMELAND...

Instead of tussling with this bullshyt state side go where the economics favor the man - And usually in those countries which are traditional - AT MOST they will have one illegit child and then the SHOP IS CLOSED....

nikkas talmbout being empathetic and shyt - Meanwhile Women abroad KNOW they got to be ULTRA practical or get even worse than what the pain and ostracized attitude they getting from their fam and peers already. :ld:

Let me tell you something - With the sunset of Amerikkka this baby momma shyt will NEVER be acceptable, EVER :sas2:

Be harsh nikka, don't SLIP UP none of this nice-nice bullshyt :beli:

Im not dealing with the shyt:ehh:..If another nikka wants to, then so be it...The older simp generation wants to save them,let them...that's what they there for:manny:

I already broke down the game for the younger nikkas who want to enter that realm..

Lets keep it a buck..

U mentioned having divorced single mothers tricking on you...you were getting yours 2:pachaha:

There is a whole market for single mothers...the older simp generation are their best bets...because they are so concerned with companionship, most have the mario winans i dont want to know song in their mentality already:ld:

Single mothers been good to me...I cant save them, but i have no issue with the older simp doing it:banderas:
 
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