"I'm deeply dissatisfied with our sex life"

Scustin Bieburr

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You most likely share her at that point or you’ll share her if the next session isn’t otherworldly :hubie:
Why you assuming he isn't cheating

Maybe homie went on a business trip, got faded off some powerful local alcohol and got some fuego head. Maybe he got throat that was so good that he screamed like Michael Jackson. Maybe she did that thing some women can do where they contract their p*ssy muscles rhythmically while grinding on you and then pushing you down when you instinctively try to sit up.

Maybe coming home after that and getting that low effort guacguac and hearing 'my hand getting sore' just wasn't doing it for him and made him start re evaluating what he's even doing in this relationship and if there's a future.
 

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I just ….get mad and say it. :yeshrug:

I’ve been with a man that had a lower sex drive than me and I’d tell him I need it more often. Nothing really changed and I left the relationship for other reasons but I actually stopped wanting to date older men due to this.

But we thought y'all can just turn your horniness on and off like a light switch. So it really don't matter for y'all :yeshrug:
 

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The convo really depends on if it’s beeen that way (5 years tho :weirdo:) or got that way.

If it’s the former, it’s likely a libido issue and that’s hard to address.

If the latter, you gotta be able to do some introspection.
  • Are both of y’all coming when y’all have sex? If not, how lopsided is it? Why?
  • Are you maintaining your attractiveness? Staying in shape, putting in effort in your appearance? Could you pull another woman of your partner’s caliber in her prime with how you take care of yourself?
  • Are you romancing? Laying down game similar to what you 1st did to pull?
  • Does she have any stressors in her life? Are they things you can impact at all?
 

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Time to explore sexually . Add sex toys in to the mix, hand cuffs, blind folds etc. Communicate & explore each others fantasies

Take a weekend trip away
 

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Women are carnal. They just need to he activated. You may need to start eating some p*ssy and understanding what works to get her off.

Or paag and get her off with just the tip
Did you just announce to the coli that your wife has a tiny p*ssyhole? :dwillhuh:
 

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Like Papa always said, "Son, it's a reason schools don't teach drivers Ed and sex Ed at the same time"

If she's inexperienced, conservative or whatever the hiccups are then absolutely No and never

and if a woman brings it up that you don't have the stroke in the bed anymore well it's impossible because men are good or great...why do you think women always ask how was it when you're done
 

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Women are carnal. They just need to he activated. You may need to start eating some p*ssy and understanding what works to get her off.

Or paag and get her off with just the tip


I agree with the "Activation" thing. Whenever I was dissatisfied with my sex life with my girl, I had to switch shyt up. It's not her style or comfort level to be off the walls with it, but she follows everything I do with no objection. The only dissatisfaction I have is that I have to be the damn director of all the sex scene 24/7 so to speak, but I'd much rather have that than have a girl who turned me down for sex on a consistent basis like some of you nikkas with dead bedrooms.
 

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Everybody has a kink.

Figure out what she’s into and do it.

Then get her to do something for you.

Be prepared tho cuz she might be into something she’s embarrassed to tell you.
 

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I was in this situation before but it was a 2 year relationship and I flat out told my ex the sex was trash which she knew that’s i felt anyway. A month or so after told her the sex was terrible I bounced. If I’m not sexually attracted to a woman then I gotta move on to the next:manny:
 

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Insignificant posting from an insignificant poster
Simply just asked her to put on some lace/stockings and she was so reluctant to do it.



Didn't ask for much, so i went and got it else where while still being with her *hangs head in shame*



In retrospect, she already gave me everything else and I was simply being selfish (or was I?). A breh ultimately wanted to spice up the mood a bit (but on her side of the token, she'd tell you I didn't get too much into the foreplay/make love... it was also into secksuals. I apologize, ex).



She'd tell me they weren't washed and she didn't feel comfortable with it.



Not like I was trying to get access to the back door or a. nything deviant. Just some pizazz in the garment department.



*sighs*



Learn by living is the adage.



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