"I'm deeply dissatisfied with our sex life"

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I’m realizing I don’t wanna fukk my girl anymore I would rather cheat and idk why :yeshrug:
 

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I’m realizing I don’t wanna fukk my girl anymore I would rather cheat and idk why :yeshrug:
How long y’all been in each other’s faces for? I mean together
 

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Idk most of my exes wanted to rip my clothes off right after we made out so :manny:

Maybe role play or spend more time with the foreplay.

Don't let it be a make or break situation

Might have to change it up OP
 

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I just ….get mad and say it. :yeshrug:

I’ve been with a man that had a lower sex drive than me and I’d tell him I need it more often. Nothing really changed and I left the relationship for other reasons but I actually stopped wanting to date older men due to this.
Never date an older man unless he's physically fit & exercises daily for that good pipe
 

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Read about the way different people are sexually excited, and the way arousal happens for them, often two people are just on differing ends of those cycles.

I read Ian Kremmer's "Tell Me about The Last Time You Had Sex", and yeah, you may KNOW some of that stuff, but intellectualizing it, and seeing it explained was a different experience.

Some people (maybe many) are really rigid, in terms of what will turn them on, it helps if one is really fluid and adaptable. and a lot of times, don't really understand why that is. They just run with it.

So, in short, two people may think they have no or little sexual chemistry, are really just on different schedules, so to speak.
 
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I just ….get mad and say it. :yeshrug:

I’ve been with a man that had a lower sex drive than me and I’d tell him I need it more often. Nothing really changed and I left the relationship for other reasons but I actually stopped wanting to date older men due to this.
He really should have seen a urologist
 

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it happens to everybody eventually. Ain’t no “switchin it up” left after fukkin almost everyday for a years on end. People once settled into a long term relationship tend to get complacent as well. Take a week or somethin vacation every few months away from each other. If you can afford it. So you get a chance to “miss each other” once and a while. It kind of restarts things.
Or ask if you can have a side piece.
Or just leave.
Are you in shape? Is she?
If you consistently give your woman orgasms she’s not gonna say no to whatever you wanna do. If you the only one cum’n it’s not gonna last long
 

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Anybody ever tell your spouse or long-term (5+ yrs) partner this? If not, why not? If so, how did it go?
:lupe:

You have to ask yourself a question. Was it like that before you got married?

If it was then…
 
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