I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB

seabreeze80

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A group of friends like this will get you caught up. They not only disrespect their wives but also themselves. They have no loyalty or code to anyone. One of my ex-friends served 5 years in jail for sexual assault because he was present when his friends decided to have sex with drunk women. Don't let that be you.
 

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I hate to be that person but it I think some details are missing here @Gold , you said you been to church etc with these friends. This vacation was the FIRST time you had any sense they would pull something like this?

They never looked at / commented on other women?

I have friends/family members that have cheated on there wives and none have been out of the blue and just random.
 

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Man i've been to Church with these dudes.
Been to a Gender reveal, held one of their daughters in my arms.

I'm not trolling or anything when I say this... this really fukked me up. I didn't think I would care this much... but I do.

Its almost like seeing my brother cheat on his wife or something.
shyt happened with some coworkers I was close to. I was close friends with the receptionist and fought to get her husband hired. We were close enough that she ran into my office and jumped in my arms hugging me when she found out she was pregnant before even telling her family or husband. At some point another receptionist I was cool with started complaining about her. Come to find out she met some dude online playing video games and started fukking him. She gave me details about the girl driving two hours to meet him to get fukked in a parking garage in a mall. Dude sent her a cell phone that she kept hidden in her office and even bought her a ring that she wore on her right ring finger.

Our entire friend group of like 10 people all knew this was going on. Everybody but her husband knew. It pissed me off that we'd all be hanging together and they are all smiling in his face like shyt was cool and nobody was cussing her out about it and telling her how fukked up she was. Then the husband started feeling suspicious and started accusing me of fukking her. This was a 300 pound white girl so more than anything I was insulted by them thinking my standards were that low. Plus adding in that I was the reason he got hired, I was the reason he got a promotion, and I was the only one speaking up about how wrong it was. Only reason I knew I was being accused is because I was out with the rest of the group minus the husband and wife and was told I have to stop doing what I do. I asked wtf they were talking about. They said I have to stop being all flirty. I'm naturally funny and outgoing and I guess they took that as flirting. So one night while out I was about to blow her spot up. Me and him were sitting around having drinks and I laid in to him for even thinking about accusing me of that and how good of a friend I've been to him for years. Then he starts crying and telling me how he just loves her so much and the thought of her being with another man would kill him and collapse his entire world. The look of hurt and fear in his eyes that she was cheating caused me to p*ssy out because he looked like he'd kill himself if he found out the truth.

It was so sad because that was the one relationship I used to keep me optimistic about true love. They had been together for like 12 years since high school. They were best friends and genuinely seemed to love each other. Me and the husband were in LA for work and I'm going crazy looking at the women and I'd point some out to him. He'd be like "yeah she's cool". I pointed out he didn't even look and his response was "why would I look when I have the perfect woman at home". I couldn't get him to go to bars because he refused to drink without her around. They talked or texted every 15 minutes or so. To find out that dude was getting cheated on like that crushed me.
 

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I mentioned this a few years ago because it was a national story that happened here in Irving/Dallas area.

Once of my Wifes coworkers, married, 2 children was cheating heavy heavy. One of his coworkers outed him and then he was getting blackmailed by the cheaters.

He killed them all in broad daylight at work. :damn:


My friends aint the violent type, but I 100% believe they would do everything in their power to ensure that it doesn't come to light
Also your wife won't believe you when you tell her you the only one that didn't participate in extra curricular activities:mjgrin:
She will say she does but low-key looking at you like :martin: everytime you not looking

:mjgrin:
 

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I also think it's cultural. We live in a hypersexual culture now narcissisms galore everyone wants to feel desired and wanted. People get jealous at all the fun and freaky sex everyone seems to be having and lose their minds. "Am I living my best life?" That's what it comes down to. Insecurity and temptation. This is why there are such dark outcomes in some cheating situations when someone was really loyal and connected to the other person. Feels like such a waste of time, especially with someone you would NEVER suspect of betraying you, that's the point when you found out it is devastating who assumes their spouse will cheat? I've accepted I might have too many trust issues to get married at any point but I know whatever is my romantic future I won't be going into it with rose colored glasses

Bingo
 

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I hate to be that person but it I think some details are missing here @Gold , you said you been to church etc with these friends. This vacation was the FIRST time you had any sense they would pull something like this?

They never looked at / commented on other women?

I have friends/family members that have cheated on there wives and none have been out of the blue and just random.

I dont want to give too much information but yes some details are missing.

But for the main one... the one who I look at like a brother... I was floored when I saw him doing his thing. And everyone else was wit it so I think I was just the odd when out.


They comment on other women all the time at the gym. But commenting on a woman's shape at the gym and being face down in some p*ssy is a completely different thing.
 
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