I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB

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I dont want to give too much information but yes some details are missing.

But for the main one... the one who I look at like a brother... I was floored when I saw him doing his thing. And everyone else was wit it so I think I was just the odd when out.


They comment on other women all the time at the gym. But commenting on a woman's shape at the gym and being face down in some p*ssy is a completely different thing.
Wait they were eating strange in Mexico? :hhh:
 

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shyt happened with some coworkers I was close to. I was close friends with the receptionist and fought to get her husband hired. We were close enough that she ran into my office and jumped in my arms hugging me when she found out she was pregnant before even telling her family or husband. At some point another receptionist I was cool with started complaining about her. Come to find out she met some dude online playing video games and started fukking him. She gave me details about the girl driving two hours to meet him to get fukked in a parking garage in a mall. Dude sent her a cell phone that she kept hidden in her office and even bought her a ring that she wore on her right ring finger.

Our entire friend group of like 10 people all knew this was going on. Everybody but her husband knew. It pissed me off that we'd all be hanging together and they are all smiling in his face like shyt was cool and nobody was cussing her out about it and telling her how fukked up she was. Then the husband started feeling suspicious and started accusing me of fukking her. This was a 300 pound white girl so more than anything I was insulted by them thinking my standards were that low. Plus adding in that I was the reason he got hired, I was the reason he got a promotion, and I was the only one speaking up about how wrong it was. Only reason I knew I was being accused is because I was out with the rest of the group minus the husband and wife and was told I have to stop doing what I do. I asked wtf they were talking about. They said I have to stop being all flirty. I'm naturally funny and outgoing and I guess they took that as flirting. So one night while out I was about to blow her spot up. Me and him were sitting around having drinks and I laid in to him for even thinking about accusing me of that and how good of a friend I've been to him for years. Then he starts crying and telling me how he just loves her so much and the thought of her being with another man would kill him and collapse his entire world. The look of hurt and fear in his eyes that she was cheating caused me to p*ssy out because he looked like he'd kill himself if he found out the truth.

It was so sad because that was the one relationship I used to keep me optimistic about true love. They had been together for like 12 years since high school. They were best friends and genuinely seemed to love each other. Me and the husband were in LA for work and I'm going crazy looking at the women and I'd point some out to him. He'd be like "yeah she's cool". I pointed out he didn't even look and his response was "why would I look when I have the perfect woman at home". I couldn't get him to go to bars because he refused to drink without her around. They talked or texted every 15 minutes or so. To find out that dude was getting cheated on like that crushed me.
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We would watch the playoffs, get high, drink, play poker, go out to the club, explore the city, iunno nikka :dahell:


Go to the club and do what? Just look at women? Sit at a table and just look at each other?


Come on man.

Also man dont tell your wife everything, especially when it has to do with your friends. She isnt going to believe that your friends are doing all this shyt and you held on strong and didnt partake. She already lumped you in with the foolishness, now she just looking for confirmation. I hope you arent serious here.
 

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shyt happened with some coworkers I was close to. I was close friends with the receptionist and fought to get her husband hired. We were close enough that she ran into my office and jumped in my arms hugging me when she found out she was pregnant before even telling her family or husband. At some point another receptionist I was cool with started complaining about her. Come to find out she met some dude online playing video games and started fukking him. She gave me details about the girl driving two hours to meet him to get fukked in a parking garage in a mall. Dude sent her a cell phone that she kept hidden in her office and even bought her a ring that she wore on her right ring finger.

Our entire friend group of like 10 people all knew this was going on. Everybody but her husband knew. It pissed me off that we'd all be hanging together and they are all smiling in his face like shyt was cool and nobody was cussing her out about it and telling her how fukked up she was. Then the husband started feeling suspicious and started accusing me of fukking her. This was a 300 pound white girl so more than anything I was insulted by them thinking my standards were that low. Plus adding in that I was the reason he got hired, I was the reason he got a promotion, and I was the only one speaking up about how wrong it was. Only reason I knew I was being accused is because I was out with the rest of the group minus the husband and wife and was told I have to stop doing what I do. I asked wtf they were talking about. They said I have to stop being all flirty. I'm naturally funny and outgoing and I guess they took that as flirting. So one night while out I was about to blow her spot up. Me and him were sitting around having drinks and I laid in to him for even thinking about accusing me of that and how good of a friend I've been to him for years. Then he starts crying and telling me how he just loves her so much and the thought of her being with another man would kill him and collapse his entire world. The look of hurt and fear in his eyes that she was cheating caused me to p*ssy out because he looked like he'd kill himself if he found out the truth.

It was so sad because that was the one relationship I used to keep me optimistic about true love. They had been together for like 12 years since high school. They were best friends and genuinely seemed to love each other. Me and the husband were in LA for work and I'm going crazy looking at the women and I'd point some out to him. He'd be like "yeah she's cool". I pointed out he didn't even look and his response was "why would I look when I have the perfect woman at home". I couldn't get him to go to bars because he refused to drink without her around. They talked or texted every 15 minutes or so. To find out that dude was getting cheated on like that crushed me.

The bolded is exactly how I feel.

Being around these dudes made me feel like I need to live better and love my wife more. :banderas:

I would never guess it would have been them in a million years
 

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Go to the club and do what? Just look at women? Sit at a table and just look at each other?


Come on man.

Also man dont tell your wife everything, especially when it has to do with your friends. She isnt going to believe that your friends are doing all this shyt and you held on strong and didnt partake. She already lumped you in with the foolishness, now she just looking for confirmation. I hope you arent serious here.

I guess I'm just different.

I can have fun at a club without hitting on women.
I can have fun with my brehs without having women around.
shyt some of the most fun I've had this year was playing poker and getting high with my boys.

Nothing like trying to bluff when you high as fukk :ahh:

We've all had fun with each other back in Dallas, i thought this would be the same.


Nah they didn't wanna do shyt that didn't end in sex with strangers
 

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He sound like a sucka to me.

Being FAITHFUL to HIS wife is all that should matter.

what his friends do even on a trip is none of his business, they wives may have cheated or told them they ain’t gonna have sex with them anymore

marriage ain’t as cut and dry as folks make it.

It’s a process towards reconciliation or divorce.

Nikka talking like he want to snitch on his boys :mjlol:

on some super simp shyt.
he dont know but he gon learn.

wifey pop out the lil one. shorty dont touch you for months for many men more than that. Child in the bed and shyt nikka can't even get his shyt topped off. The chemicals in these females brain once children in the picture. sex ain't sex no more like before that shyt come with purpose after having that first one. When she ready to have another she gon touch you but between that time nikka you aint getting none. nikka really framed it like nikkas wake up wanting to cheat on their wives and children one day nah son its a slow buildup
 

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I hope none of my boys post/lurk here.

I just did a guys trip for 4th of July weekend with 2 other married dudes and 1 guy who isn't married (so i'm not judging him).

These are brehs who I respect, and I'm close to their wives and I've been around their children.

Before the end of the first night they were deep in some sloppy Mexican p*ssy :francis::snoop::dahell:
And that's how it was all weekend.


I felt like I was the only breh there who remembered that I have a wife. And shyt they got kids too, i dont even have kids.

I feel extremely disappointed tbh... does anyone remain faithful?

My dude asked me to come over watch and the Finals game with him and his fam... I cant even face his wife (and daughter) and i'm not the one married to her. :damn:



This is why i'm so anti-marriage. Why the fukk would you get married if you just gonna cheat? This goes for men and women. Just stay single.
:manny: Just mind your business. It's not your home or relationship.

I have so many friends and co-workers that cheat and flirt. It's nothing to me now.
 

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he dont know but he gon learn.

wifey pop out the lil one. shorty dont touch you for months for many men more than that. Child in the bed and shyt nikka can't even get his shyt topped off. The chemicals in these females brain once children in the picture. sex ain't sex no more like before that shyt come with purpose after having that first one. When she ready to have another she gon touch you but between that time nikka you aint getting none. nikka really framed it like nikkas wake up wanting to cheat on their wives one day nah son its a slow buildup

I hear it everyday from coworkers.

I guess seeing it hit a little different. Like I said earlier, I'm not mad at them for cheating, I just didn't wanna be involved
 
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