I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB

[#1 pick]

Man i've been to Church with these dudes.
Been to a Gender reveal, held one of their daughters in my arms.

I'm not trolling or anything when I say this... this really fukked me up. I didn't think I would care this much... but I do.

Its almost like seeing my brother cheat on his wife or something.

shyt is crazy they would even put you in this type of situation. Them nikkas trash.

 

[The M.I.C.]

Should’ve kept this thread to yourself and you might’ve caused some future fist fights for yourself because I doubt your woman is going to hold her tongue for too long.

 

[#1 pick]

Dude...


You snitched to your wife?





You the homie but

He did the right thing but there is really nothing he can do. Kicking their ass had a time and place and he didn't do that. At this point, you just gotta find new friends. shyt, I used to have plenty of friends but now it's just my best friend. That's it! I can't fukk with people I can't trust. If you gonna cheat on the person who got your back on everything, who the fukk do you care about?

 

[Drew Wonder]

Day in and day out, women are shamed on this site due to their debauchery, whatever it may be, but now when the shoe is on the other foot and men are committing debauchery, ppl are supposed to turn the other cheek?

*woman wears animal print*
The Coli: dirty ass hoe, can't trust these thots, no decency. Absolutely disgusting. Shameful. This is why our society is fukked


*Man constantly cheats on his wife*

The Coli: we're all human bruh. Let's not judge. We don't know the whole story. They could still be an honorable and decent human being

 

[#1 pick]

Should’ve kept this thread to yourself and you might’ve caused some future fist fights for yourself because I doubt your woman is going to hold her tongue for too long.

Ain't much she can do. This was for the OP closure. This shyt must be burning him. I can tell.

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

What's the point of this aggressive ass post

Op aint say shyt about snitching or telling the dudes what to do

I swear yall just log on just to unleash anger

The audacity of this nikka...

 

[#1 pick]

I think this right here is what I dont like the most.

Do your dirt on your own time. Dont invite me to be a party to it. I had no idea this is what they wanted to do. Maybe i'm naive or stupid.. but I honestly was blown away

You gonna have to learn how to say no. I am a master at it. Watch

No.
No.
nikka, hell no!
Naw nikka
Naw
Naw, I'm good, I got shyt to do. Like what nikka? like shyt nikka. You pay my bills?

Night out with the guys is gay af anyway. What the fukk we gonna do that's productive? Nothin'

nikkas like company, nikka, I am XX age. I ain't got time for this shyt.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

man..

 

[#1 pick]

I'm gonna be real with you. This is the part that's making me do some soul searching....

What is it about me that they thought I would be cool with this?

Do I give off the "I cheat too" type energy?


Maybe I need to do some reevaluating cuz they weren't even trying to hide that shyt from me at all. Damn near wanted me to join in

You say yes too much. That's your first problem. How you married with no boundaries for other nikkas. I know boundaries have to be drawn up for women but nikkas as well. Like nikkas can't be coming to me talking about bad bytches. Like what can my married ass do about that? Nothing, so why bring it up? It's disrespectful to me, my commitment to my wife and the shyt I stand for. Your problem isn't your energy, you don't have boundaries. It's not just for women, you gotta set boundaries for friends too. If my best friend call and it's not game night and it's late, Imma curses his ass out. nikka, why you calling my phone all late and shyt like a hoe. Game night is different. that's normal. I understand that but otherwise, it better be serious, like for real.

 

[#1 pick]

I disagree on that. I don't give a cuss what a man does with his woman as long as he aint beating her up. And even that has nothing to do with me but I wouldn't associate with that.

But as far as a man liking women? Multiple women?

I don't care. In the Bible, Solomon a prophet of God had 300 wives and 700 concubines.

I dont care about that and what goes on between a man and his woman aint got nothing to do with me. Dude aint cheating on me, he cheating on her

Now with that being said... if the nicca was being grimy and doing dirt and doing it blatantly in front of me, that's disrespectful especially if he don't even know if I'm cool with it and especially if I'm close with his family.

He can cheat away from me, I don't want to know any details about it and I feel like OPs friends basically punked him on that. They shouldn't have felt that comfortable. I got friends but we aint that comfortable to be doing all that.

I mean, it's one thing for us to be out somewhere flirting with women or even grabbing numbers. From there I don't know what happened after he talked to chic.

That gives me plausible deniability.

But to be smashing hoes in my face? That's disrespectful to me if we're both married and we ain't never communicated on that level for you to know if I'm cool with that or not.

Now with that being said, OP messed up by telling his wife. Cause what happens if his wife breaks bad and then starts chatting about it?

Tell your wife whatever you want to tell her about YOUR business but you shouldn't be telling her another man's private business.

THAT is disrespectful.

And OP admits himself that he knows the lengths ppl go to, to keep their dirt under wraps. Why put himself or his wife in that situation?

What i would have done was waited until the trip was over and we got back stateside and told them dudes how I felt and then I would have stopped hanging with them

We could be cool but we would never be as close as we were before all of this. And I wouldn't have told my wife a thing.

Now again, the reason I would stop dealing with them isn't because of them cheating on their wives. It's because they see no problem with disrespecting me and line stepping.

These nikkas ain't Solomon and this ain't those times. These nikkas living a secret and if their wives found out, that's their ass. nikka talking about God as if God talking to these goofy ass nikkas. Stop it, stop using God for fukkery.

 

[#1 pick]

honestly, you sound like you don't get hoes and that you are kind of envious of them and their experience.

most men are as faithful as their options. who cares if you know his wife, your loyalty is to him. what did you expect to happen on the trip exactly

just please resist your urge to snitch and stay out of his business.

plenty of men are married to women who annoy the shyt out of them, or who aren't interested in sex anymore. it usually gets worse when kids are involved

they most likely see the guy vacation as a small escape from reality. they have fun for a week or so and move on.



as long as they aint puttin these hoes on no pedestal or wifeying them, who cares.

That's the thing, nikkas like me and Gold got all the hoes, which is why it's easy to be faithful. I have been on the other side. It's much better here. Getting a bunch of hoes is overrated. I ended up lonely even after I boned. I just wanted someone for me who I loved and was my friend. Not someone with a motive that doesn't ever match mines.

 

[#1 pick]

I actually had a blast during the day. I mean these are my homies, its not like they stopped being fun to hang with just cuz they are cheaters.
But anything that happened after 2am was just


I cant sit here and complain and complain and then want to go on the next trip. Nah that's hypocritical.

nikkas might be right, you are strange. You gotta drop these nikkas. This is thot behavior b. I don't wanna drop my shytty friends, they are fun. So what they do bad shyt, that's my friends. You sound like baggage b and I love you like a brother but this ain't it.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

These nikkas ain't Solomon and this ain't those times. These nikkas living a secret and if their wives found out, that's their ass. nikka talking about God as if God talking to these goofy ass nikkas. Stop it, stop using God for fukkery.

I'm making the point that I don't believe that a man wanting multiple women is the ultimate sin as some of yall are in here saying.

Again, them dudes is foul as hell but not cause they cheated on their wives. What makes them foul is their disrespect of OP.

 

[I Really Mean It]

Dudes who cheat are miserable, quiet as it’s kept. A man who has a partner who truly captivates him and holds his affection is not cheating. He may encounter temptation, which is natural, but he will respect her enough not to violate that bond.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Also your wife won't believe you when you tell her you the only one that didn't participate in extra curricular activities
She will say she does but low-key looking at you like everytime you not looking

So... this is where I am now. But that's a whole different thread.

OP you the homie but you are a dumbass.





How did you think it was gonna go, breh?


Being a chatty patty got your marriage in turmoil now

can't even make this up