I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB

[The Realist Perspective]

The greatest trick of all played on men is convincing them that they are to be monogamous. It's goes against everything internally within us.

To OP, they are just your friends, not family. So cutting them off if you're so offended and disgusted, should be easy and the obvious choice. But of course not. You're not going to cut them off. You're going to vent to the coli (which is fine) act like you're on a high horse but you won't do anything in response to what you've witnessed. You will remain associated with these people, not tell their wives, their family, nothing. So in reality, you're not better than them. Just like one bad cop being covered by good cops, makes them all bad cops. You're a bad cop, OP.

 

[MikelArteta]

I don’t hold anyone in high regard, the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.

thing is you don’t even know their wives could be cheating as well, and I’m sure this isn’t the first time they cheated. the perfect image you had of them is a mirage

 

[The M.I.C.]

Yeah big homie, when nikkas pillow talk to their wife it’s over. You just set you timer and just watch.

Telling your way wife about your friends shyt is a big no no. I don’t give a fukk how you feel about them. That’s between you and them. And like I said subconsciously she’s going to look at her husband differently. shyt she might even feel less attractive towards him.

Facts.

When I was living in DC, I was cool with two nikkas that worked in the same hospital. One of them tells us, while trading stories over women we done smashed, that his girl rode him so hard that she fukked his dikk up and he had to get surgery (implant) a few years ago. Of course we clowned this nikka but we could understand the situation when you dealing with them type broads who ride dikk like they running the Kentucky Derby and obviously at the end of the day that was between us three.

Well..the other motherfukker was apparently having issues handling business with his woman and brought up getting the “surgery” as a solution to the problem and used our man’s situation to help his case with his wife. His wife, who didn’t know or care, that it was supposed to be held in confidence asks our boy’s wife for details and these broads had a whole convo about this man’s dikk.

It gets casually mentioned to him from his wife and this dude calls me asking for the fade from both of us. I’m like nikka I don’t even know your wife and I’m single at the moment, tf you putting pressure on me for? Long story short, these nikkas fought a few days later in one of the hospital locker rooms and wound up losing their six figure jobs over this bullshyt when dude who blabbed wound up getting his nose broke by limp mode nikka.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

No the fukk he didn’t. When she get mad she will bring that shyt up. She is going to associate his friends with him. shyt, deep down she probably think he a bytch for telling him. Like damn this nikka really told me that.

How the fukk I didn’t catch that he told his wife…. Man that shyt over for them nikkas. Shorty definitely going to drop a dime on those nikkas.

ur right..but i want his marriage to fail

fred

 

[Lamar Givens]

I disagree on that. I don't give a cuss what a man does with his woman as long as he aint beating her up. And even that has nothing to do with me but I wouldn't associate with that.

But as far as a man liking women? Multiple women?

I don't care. In the Bible, Solomon a prophet of God had 300 wives and 700 concubines.

I dont care about that and what goes on between a man and his woman aint got nothing to do with me. Dude aint cheating on me, he cheating on her

Now with that being said... if the nicca was being grimy and doing dirt and doing it blatantly in front of me, that's disrespectful especially if he don't even know if I'm cool with it and especially if I'm close with his family.

He can cheat away from me, I don't want to know any details about it and I feel like OPs friends basically punked him on that. They shouldn't have felt that comfortable. I got friends but we aint that comfortable to be doing all that.

I mean, it's one thing for us to be out somewhere flirting with women or even grabbing numbers. From there I don't know what happened after he talked to chic.

That gives me plausible deniability.

But to be smashing hoes in my face? That's disrespectful to me if we're both married and we ain't never communicated on that level for you to know if I'm cool with that or not.

Now with that being said, OP messed up by telling his wife. Cause what happens if his wife breaks bad and then starts chatting about it?

Tell your wife whatever you want to tell her about YOUR business but you shouldn't be telling her another man's private business.

THAT is disrespectful.

And OP admits himself that he knows the lengths ppl go to, to keep their dirt under wraps. Why put himself or his wife in that situation?

What i would have done was waited until the trip was over and we got back stateside and told them dudes how I felt and then I would have stopped hanging with them

We could be cool but we would never be as close as we were before all of this. And I wouldn't have told my wife a thing.

Now again, the reason I would stop dealing with them isn't because of them cheating on their wives. It's because they see no problem with disrespecting me and line stepping.

Solomon’s heart was also turned away from God for having all of those wives.

He was also judged for having all those women as well.

You can’t leave that part out my G.

 

[BigMan]

*woman wears animal print*
The Coli: dirty ass hoe, can't trust these thots, no decency. Absolutely disgusting. Shameful. This is why our society is fukked


*Man constantly cheats on his wife*

The Coli: we're all human bruh. Let's not judge. We don't know the whole story. They could still be an honorable and decent human being

Right never change coli

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Solomon’s heart was also turned away from God for having all of those wives.

He was also judged for having all those women as well.

You can’t leave that part out my G.

All those stories are fukking fake anyway

 

[International Playa]

I understand why married men cheat. Many brehs are in sexless marriages or the wife barely wants to have sex.

My cac co-worker, he hasnt had sex with his wife in over a year, she isnt interested in sex anymore.

 

[☃ ೋ]

My wife told me a long time ago... she never wants me to cheat. But if I do, she asked me not to embarrass her

, she a keeper breh. Off that statement alone you cant cheat

 

[☃ ೋ]

ur right..but i want his marriage to fail

fred

 

[HARLEM AL]

ur right..but i want his marriage to fail

fred

Yo Malc, wtf is wrong with you

 

[#1 pick]

Facts.

When I was living in DC, I was cool with two nikkas that worked in the same hospital. One of them tells us, while trading stories over women we done smashed, that his girl rode him so hard that she fukked his dikk up and he had to get surgery (implant) a few years ago. Of course we clowned this nikka but we could understand the situation when you dealing with them type broads who ride dikk like they running the Kentucky Derby and obviously at the end of the day that was between us three.

Well..the other motherfukker was apparently having issues handling business with his woman and brought up getting the “surgery” as a solution to the problem and used our man’s situation to help his case with his wife. His wife, who didn’t know or care, that it was supposed to be held in confidence asks our boy’s wife for details and these broads had a whole convo about this man’s dikk.

It gets casually mentioned to him from his wife and this dude calls me asking for the fade from both of us. I’m like nikka I don’t even know your wife and I’m single at the moment, tf you putting pressure on me for? Long story short, these nikkas fought a few days later in one of the hospital locker rooms and wound up losing their six figure jobs over this bullshyt when dude who blabbed wound up getting his nose broke by limp mode nikka.

damn

 

[HARLEM AL]

Facts.

When I was living in DC, I was cool with two nikkas that worked in the same hospital. One of them tells us, while trading stories over women we done smashed, that his girl rode him so hard that she fukked his dikk up and he had to get surgery (implant) a few years ago. Of course we clowned this nikka but we could understand the situation when you dealing with them type broads who ride dikk like they running the Kentucky Derby and obviously at the end of the day that was between us three.

Well..the other motherfukker was apparently having issues handling business with his woman and brought up getting the “surgery” as a solution to the problem and used our man’s situation to help his case with his wife. His wife, who didn’t know or care, that it was supposed to be held in confidence asks our boy’s wife for details and these broads had a whole convo about this man’s dikk.

It gets casually mentioned to him from his wife and this dude calls me asking for the fade from both of us. I’m like nikka I don’t even know your wife and I’m single at the moment, tf you putting pressure on me for? Long story short, these nikkas fought a few days later in one of the hospital locker rooms and wound up losing their six figure jobs over this bullshyt when dude who blabbed wound up getting his nose broke by limp mode nikka.

I've come to terms that there is really a lot of dudes that just cant hold water out here. I use to think it was women when I was younger but when I got older I realize that shyt wasnt true at all. Im talking grown ass 40 plus old men acting like hoes.

Maaaaaaaaaaan, Hospitals are known for grade A fukkery. I wish I should have went that route instead of Education. Man the stories I hear lmaooooooo

 

[Listen]

I’m not built for that cheating life. I got sons in my house, and regardless of whatever the wife and I could be going through, cheating on her is some shame I’d have hanging over my head and my relationships with them that would never go away.

I heard some comedian do this bit once on his girlfriend cheating on him.

It was something like his girlfriend trying to tell him it was just 1 mistake and he then described every small mistake she had to make in graphic detail to get to the point where she was at this dudes house, on his bed, unzipping his pants, taking his shyt out, putting it in her lmao.

It’s definitely a “I don’t care or respect you enough to stop myself from banging this broad” slap in the face.

 

[xCivicx]

breh are you retarded..marriage does not apply on vacation...smfh man