I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB

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pay attention to this OP

If I'm friends with a woman who is constantly talking about her marriage and her kid, constantly posting on IG about being a married Christian.... And she smashes side dudes on a vacation, yeah i'm gonna look at them different. This is not a "men bad, women good" thread. I'm only talking about the men on the trip cuz it was a guys trip.

This is what alot of the posters in this thread dont seem to understand...


I have no problem with someone cheating. My problem was inviting me to that shyt, and doing it in the open when it could have been done in silence.

If I wanted to cheat on my wife (which i would not do), i'm not inviting 3 of my closest friends to watch me do it. The fukk is that shyt about :mjlol:
 

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To each their own and all that but cheating is a no go. Too much collateral damage as a result of a quick nut.

If you feel like you are gonna cheat, get a divorce and be single and fukk as many women as you want.

Most married guys who cheat simply can’t afford to leave their wives so they lie to their partners and themselves.

OP is right, for questioning their behavior because if they are that reckless and cowardly then he best watch himself around them fellas.
 

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I understand why married men cheat. Many brehs are in sexless marriages or the wife barely wants to have sex.

My cac co-worker, he hasnt had sex with his wife in over a year, she isnt interested in sex anymore.

Divorce ain’t too far tbh..and see this is another reason I’ve kept my distance with marriage. I’m neatly in my forties and I’ve seen A LOT of cacs go through this and some brothers as well..I ain’t with that having hostage negotiations for the p*ssy bullshyt.

I’ve had dry spells but that’s when I was single, and that’s the normal course sometimes with bachelorhood…but I’ll be goddamned if I have a whole ass woman laying next to me at night smelling like roses and chocolates talking about “I ain’t interested in sex anymore.” Papers will be PROMPTLY filed by my lawyer the next morning and I’m kicking her ass out with great fury.. like I’m trying to win a football game off an extra point or some shyt.
 

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Exactly! @seemorecizzy and @Goat poster are two young goofy azz no having experience azz nikkaz.

I’ve had countless buddies over the years whose wives cheated on them and some even cheated again after my buddies forgave and took them back.

I saw the pain, hurt, anger, frustration and even at times the soullessness in their eyes.

WHY THE HELL WOULD I BE FRIENDS OR REMAIN FRIENDS with someone who would cause that type of pain to another human being :why:

These two clowns definitely revealed their terrible characters and mindset.

Both would definitely be easily licks to a scamming azz con man. :mjlol:
bro you either dont have real life experiences or your a simp.
my homies relationship with his woman, and how he treats me are 2 separate situations.

now if a nikka aint taking care of his kids, or is a woman beater its one thing, but someone who provides for his family, takes care of his kids, and occasional steps out on his woman or his wife aint something to be crying over:mjlol:


i have homies and family members that have gave me their last dollar and fought for me during the toughest times. im not gonna look at them differently because they step out every now and then.

if thats not your thing is cool, but where's all the judgement and shyt coming from:mjlol:

do you know how many great men past and present have stepped out on their wives?:mjlol:
think you have more morals than martin luther king and muhhamid ali because women aren't interested in you and you are faithful by default brehs:mjlol:
 

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If I'm friends with a woman who is constantly talking about her marriage and her kid, constantly posting on IG about being a married Christian.... And she smashes side dudes on a vacation, yeah i'm gonna look at them different. This is not a "men bad, women good" thread. I'm only talking about the men on the trip cuz it was a guys trip.

This is what alot of the posters in this thread dont seem to understand...


I have no problem with someone cheating. My problem was inviting me to that shyt, and doing it in the open when it could have been done in silence.

If I wanted to cheat on my wife (which i would not do), i'm not inviting 3 of my closest friends to watch me do it. The fukk is that shyt about :mjlol:

you're all over the place breh
in your original post, and some others, you gave off the impression that you had a problem with your male friends cheating and think lower of them because of it.

now you're sayin you have no problem with cheating... you just dont want it around u:mjlol:


did you have a change of heart based on this thread?

next time your homies plan a trip, its simple. just don't go.
it was "out in the open" because it was a trip and because you guys were around a bunch of strangers. nothing wrong with not wanting to be around that if thats not your thing.

but as long as your homie is a good friend to YOU, thats all that matters. how he interacts with his woman aint your business.


a woman cheating like your christian friend is, is a whole different ball game.
 

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Solomon’s heart was also turned away from God for having all of those wives.

He was also judged for having all those women as well.

You can’t leave that part out my G.

Solomon messed up by sleeping with another mans wife.. And putting her husband in a battle that would kill him to cover up her pregnancy..

God was cool with all his h0es and wives..
 

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Solomon messed up by sleeping with another mans wife.. And putting her husband in a battle that would kill him to cover up her pregnancy..

God was cool with all his h0es and wives..

That was David.

Solomon messed up by disobeying God, he was influenced by his many foreign wives and concubines, Solomon became enmeshed in pagan worship
 
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