I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB

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Divorce ain’t too far tbh..and see this is another reason I’ve kept my distance with marriage. I’m neatly in my forties and I’ve seen A LOT of cacs go through this and some brothers as well..I ain’t with that having hostage negotiations for the p*ssy bullshyt.

I’ve had dry spells but that’s when I was single, and that’s the normal course sometimes with bachelorhood…but I’ll be goddamned if I have a whole ass woman laying next to me at night smelling like roses and chocolates talking about “I ain’t interested in sex anymore.” Papers will be PROMPTLY filed by my lawyer the next morning and I’m kicking her ass out with great fury.. like I’m trying to win a football game off an extra point or some shyt.

It’s definitely different when your a few kids and a life together in it tho.

Wife working and taking care of kids all day, you working all day. Getting them kids to events and fed, cleaned and in bed….your looking at your home bar and that back room TV at 9 at night thinking “just leave me be” while the wife is passed out before 10.

 

[MaxPain]

Men can’t cheat.

 

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*woman wears animal print*
The Coli: dirty ass hoe, can't trust these thots, no decency. Absolutely disgusting. Shameful. This is why our society is fukked


*Man constantly cheats on his wife*

The Coli: we're all human bruh. Let's not judge. We don't know the whole story. They could still be an honorable and decent human being

This! Which is why I don’t take anything these goofballs say seriously. Aint no such thing as consistency online.

 

[threattonature]

Divorce ain’t too far tbh..and see this is another reason I’ve kept my distance with marriage. I’m neatly in my forties and I’ve seen A LOT of cacs go through this and some brothers as well..I ain’t with that having hostage negotiations for the p*ssy bullshyt.

I’ve had dry spells but that’s when I was single, and that’s the normal course sometimes with bachelorhood…but I’ll be goddamned if I have a whole ass woman laying next to me at night smelling like roses and chocolates talking about “I ain’t interested in sex anymore.” Papers will be PROMPTLY filed by my lawyer the next morning and I’m kicking her ass out with great fury.. like I’m trying to win a football game off an extra point or some shyt.

I got a friend who is the ultimate simp. He pays all the bills, does the majority of the cooking and cleaning, and whenever he's home she basically puts him on babysitting duties so she can play facebook games on her phone. He spends all kinds of money on her and when he hasn't she's ran up credit cards. And physically let herself go. And this MFer still has to beg for sex. He said he'll go months without sex because she's just not interested. Told me stories about how he's had to BEG for something as little as a handjob. I told him ain't no way I'd still be buying her shyt or doing all that around the house while she brings absolutely nothing to the table AND ain't at least fukking the shyt out of me. Plus she ain't go any kind of personality. But he has really low self esteem and is afraid if he leaves her he'll never find another woman.

 

[Dontay Flaco]

If a nikka will slime his wife out, imagine what he'll do to you.

 

[Matt504]

This! Which is why I don’t take anything these goofballs say seriously. Aint no such thing as consistency online.

because when posts highlighting this are made, people skip right past like it doesn't exist. Maybe the cognitive dissonance is so strong that the posts are effectively invisible.



We got brothers seriously arguing that there's nothing wrong with trusting someone that is definitionally untrustworthy.

"he cheating on her not me"

 

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because when posts highlighting this are made, people skip right past like it doesn't exist. Maybe the cognitive dissonance is so strong that the posts are effectively invisible.



We got brothers seriously arguing that there's nothing wrong with trusting someone that is definitionally untrustworthy.

"he cheating on her not me"

Yeah cognitive dissonance is the spice of scumbag life.

If you sat a scumbag down and forced them to endure the shyt they wanna do to others it would be like the 23rd level of hell.

Said it once and I’ll say it again. The Golden rule cuts through all that brouhaha.

Treat people, the way you wanna be treated. That’s the basic foundation of any relationship. Familial, romantic, platonic, professional. Period. That’s the litmus test for behavior.
No justifications. No hoe or dikk babble. If you don’t wouldnt want somebody stepping out on you, don’t step out on them. Why is that so hard to get?
If you can’t understand that, then just stay single.

 

[Uno Venova]

Day in and day out, women are shamed on this site due to their debauchery, whatever it may be, but now when the shoe is on the other foot and men are committing debauchery, ppl are supposed to turn the other cheek?

This is a misogynistic forum breh

Look at the reactions to Sha'carri vs other black men who also break rules

 

[Lamar Givens]

you cappin breh
none of those hospital hoes want you

plenty of great men, past and present, with a higher morals and principles than you, have cheated on their wives.

just say its not your thing and keep it pushing. judging your homie's entire character based off his relationship with his woman is dumb as fukk.

Solomon messed up by sleeping with another mans wife.. And putting her husband in a battle that would kill him to cover up her pregnancy..

God was cool with all his h0es and wives..

That was King David not Solomon bruh nikka have you even picked up a Bible in the last 10 years.

Oh yea, David was judged for having sex with Bathsheba and sending her husband Uriah to die to hide the pregnancy, and guess what???

God caused their illegitimate b*stard
son to die shortly after birth

I can give you chapter and verse cause you definitely need it

 

[Drew Wonder]

That was King David not Solomon bruh nikka have you even picked up a Bible in the last 10 years.

Oh yea, David was judged for having sex with Bathsheba and sending her husband Uriah to die to hide the pregnancy, and guess what???

God caused their illegitimate b*stard
son to die shortly after birth

I can give you chapter and verse cause you definitely need it

Coli dudes don't care about the Bible unless it's talking about gay people and infidelity lmao

 

[Lamar Givens]

bro you either dont have real life experiences or your a simp.
my homies relationship with his woman, and how he treats me are 2 separate situations.

now if a nikka aint taking care of his kids, or is a woman beater its one thing, but someone who provides for his family, takes care of his kids, and occasional steps out on his woman or his wife aint something to be crying over


i have homies and family members that have gave me their last dollar and fought for me during the toughest times. im not gonna look at them differently because they step out every now and then.

if thats not your thing is cool, but where's all the judgement and shyt coming from

do you know how many great men past and present have stepped out on their wives?
think you have more morals than martin luther king and muhhamid ali because women aren't interested in you and you are faithful by default brehs

Once again, you’re probably young and you most assuredly LACK in morals, character, and judgement.

But, I’ll make you a deal, hook me up with ya mom’s number so I can have the fellas come through and smut her out.

The fellas will have no problem telling ya pops how nice it was, that’s if ya moms and pops still married.

It shouldn’t matter though since you say stepping out from time to time is cool.

I’m sure you father would be okay with it since his son thinks it’s a natural thing to do.

I’m waiting for the number…

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

I got a friend who is the ultimate simp. He pays all the bills, does the majority of the cooking and cleaning, and whenever he's home she basically puts him on babysitting duties so she can play facebook games on her phone. He spends all kinds of money on her and when he hasn't she's ran up credit cards. And physically let herself go. And this MFer still has to beg for sex. He said he'll go months without sex because she's just not interested. Told me stories about how he's had to BEG for something as little as a handjob. I told him ain't no way I'd still be buying her shyt or doing all that around the house while she brings absolutely nothing to the table AND ain't at least fukking the shyt out of me. Plus she ain't go any kind of personality. But he has really low self esteem and is afraid if he leaves her he'll never find another woman.

too many people revolve their life and self worth around sex
he probably tries to make himself feel good by giving himself a high five for having sex after begging
some people don't have a choice though if we're being real after seeing that ugly people thread
that's why a lot of people try to get married because they feel like that's the only p*ssy they're going to get since they will only get older
trap yourselves for sex brehs

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

In all seriousness, i respect alot of the responses here.

Ill move accordingly going forward.

I think i just gotta be that lame square who loves his wife and ill let others enjoy the fukkery

Nope you the lame square that's dry snitching to your wife




No beef but that's the only foul thing you did in my opinion.

I know plenty of things about how men move and I would never tell my wife anything about it. It aint her business.

Plus... and this is a FAR REACH but still needs to be said.

Why you telling your woman about the sex activities of a man that she knows?

If she is a certain kinda woman, you run the risk of making her curious


And before you say your wife aint that type of lady, you know what? You prolly right.

But in 2021, I fully trust no woman.

 

[seemorecizzy]

Once again, you’re probably young and you most assuredly LACK in morals, character, and judgement.

But, I’ll make you a deal, hook me up with ya mom’s number so I can have the fellas come through and smut her out.

The fellas will have no problem telling ya pops how nice it was, that’s if ya moms and pops still married.

It shouldn’t matter though since you say stepping out from time to time is cool.

I’m sure you father would be okay with it since his son thinks it’s a natural thing to do.

I’m waiting for the number…

what a corny response

now i know what i'm dealing with.

carry on with your white boy jokes doggy, im out

 

[CW_1991]

A married man fukking a concubine isn't a sin. It may trigger people's sensibilities but as long as that woman isn't married it's not a big deal in the grand scheme of things. Men are just built different. That's not to say you should do it but you can.

Ultimately it comes down to each individual man's discernment and decision. If you got you a good woman that you value and don't want to potentially ruin shyt, probably not a good idea. If you're so so about the lady you with and don't really care then so be it. It's at your discretion.

I'm addressing this from a spiritual / biblical standpoint. It's not a sin to do it. All throughout history men have had wives and side pieces.

The shyt has to be orderly. Can't be bringing STDs back to your main woman or fukkin up her rep or whatever.