"I'm making him wait because he's SPECIAL!"

[DaddyTime]

Sounds great in theory but who tells someone that they want to be serious with that they are sleeping with other people until they are official. Would you?

I wouldn't be sleeping with other people if I intended to be serious with someone in particular.

Again, social gymnastics. Someone you're talking to doesn't deserve to know whats up 100% until a "title" is involved?

So basically portray yourself as something you're not until a certain time huh?

 

[Yup]

I think you're grasping part of it here


The other part being that it makes no sense to make a "special" guy wait, but you'll fukk a regular nikka with no hesitation.

Its down to people's morals/values. People are selfish but I don't think its burn at the cross worthy. If she continues while in the relationship now thats a cause for concern.

 

[Yup]

I wouldn't be sleeping with other people if I intended to be serious with someone in particular.

Again, social gymnastics. Someone you're talking to doesn't deserve to know whats up 100% until a "title" is involved.

So basically portray yourself as something you're not until a certain time huh?

Like I said it's selfish but a lot of people do it. Never said I subscribe to it...I just don't think it's as bad as the op makes it sound.

 

[YaBoy]

Its down to people's morals/values. People are selfish but I don't think its burn at the cross worthy. If she contunues while in the relationship now thats a cause for concern.

But, if I'm reading this correctly, she's made the guy believe they're are in a committed relationship, while she's fukking guys on the side

 

[DaddyTime]

Like I said it's selfish but a lot of people do it. Never said I subscribe to it...I just don't think it's as bad as the op makes it sound.

I think it's terribly in bad character. Whom ever is doing it is looking out for nothing but their own interest.

They're saying, "I like this guy... so I'll get to know him, BUT I also don't wanna stop having other affairs until I know this one is guaranteed."

 

[Yup]

But, if I'm reading this correctly, she's made the guy believe they're are in a committed relationship, while she's fukking guys on the side

Then she's wrong.

 

[YaBoy]

Then she's wrong.

Yea, i think that's the point the nikka @Zapp Brannigan was tryna convey

 

[Yup]

I think it's terribly in bad character. Whom ever is doing it is looking out for nothing but their own interest.

They're saying, "I like this guy... so I'll get to know him, BUT I also don't wanna stop having other affairs until I know this one is guaranteed."

 

[Yup]

Yea, i think that's the point the nikka @Zapp Brannigan was tryna convey

Like I said....had to look at all the facts. He phrased it poorly.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Wait. So you nikkas preach that hos should be more cautious about who they fukk, yet talk shyt about a selective female




You can't have it both ways....which is it?

@Zapp Brannigan

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Yea, i think that's the point the nikka @Zapp Brannigan was tryna convey

OP is obviously bullshyttin....you cant see through it? So wait, is it that she doesnt have chemistry with him, or she thinks he's "special" so thats why shes holding out? Which one is it? Furthermore, what kind of person reveals such intimate and personal details about her love life to a co-worker? That sound right to you?

"Guess what mr. person I work with, Im dating a great guy I have no feelings for, and Im having a bunch of one-night stands on the side with guys that dont give a sht about about me because I dont like nice guys!" LOL...so contrived. And by the rare chance somebody did say something so shameless about themselves, wouldnt you say something back like "yo, personally speaking I think thats kinda foul"?

Op just loves to sht on this hypothetical "woman" hes always yappin about.

 

[J-Nice]

There are women out there that have men for multiple occasions. They have a man for sex, a man to take em out on dates, and a man to pay their bills if need be. It's just part of the game out here nowadays.

People are gonna do what they're gonna do. You have no control over that. Why worry so much about it, unless you messing with people like that.

 

[Yup]

There are women out there that have men for multiple occasions. They have a man for sex, a man to take em out on dates, and a man to pay their bills if need be. It's just part of the game out here nowadays.

People are gonna do what they're gonna do. You have no control over that. Why worry so much about it, unless you messing with people like that.

And there are men with women they have sex with and the one they consider their main chick. Such is life...no one wants to be someone else's sucka

 

[YaBoy]

OP is obviously bullshyttin....you cant see through it? So wait, is it that she doesnt have chemistry with him, or she thinks he's "special" so thats why shes holding out? Which one is it? Furthermore, what kind of person reveals such intimate and personal details about her love life to a co-worker? That sound right to you?

"Guess what mr. person I work with, Im dating a great guy I have no feelings for, and Im having a bunch of one-night stands on the side with guys that dont give a sht about about me because I dont like nice guys!" LOL...so contrived. And by the rare chance somebody did say something so shameless about themselves, wouldnt you say something back like "yo, personally speaking I think thats kinda foul"?

Op just loves to sht on this hypothetical "woman" hes always yappin about.

He may be bullshytting, but the premise of the story is very plausible. This wouldn't be the first time i've heard of women holding out on a guy because she feels she wants a real relationship with him. & Some coworkers really do tell all their personal business. One of my coworkers told me all about her kids & their relationships, & her husband and ex husband, and all her family issues all from a small internship.

 

[Swing]

When you really like someone you walk on eggshells because you don't want to mess things up

Which surprisingly leads to messing things up