I'm not gay, but not sexually attracted to women anymore. I'm stuck in this weird purgatory

[DrX]

It's all love g
I'm a fan of your art anyway dog I posted in the last drop u made

I might hit you for that hair treatment

Appreciate it

 

[DrX]

You know asexual/celibate people got dating sites and shyt...

Idk... online dating usual attract weirdos n shyt....I want an organic relationship that can build naturally

Usually is people's last resort. And they're bitter and jaded

 

[Rawtid]

I would like more female opinions on this. @Rawtid had a interesting perspective...imo this topic is a little too intricate for the avg male to comprehend

Plus this is the coli, a place where intellectual thought come to die

God forbid you don't want sex in this disease ridden society. You HAVE to be gay or something is wrong with you. Maybe I just want to have a different connection to people than via their private parts.

 

[DrX]

Wait till artificial intelligence catches up to sex robots....

Women aren't built to develop a personal connection with you..only their offspring

I've been saying this for years. I think robots are going to take over . It's happening in Japan

@MoonGoddess I told u so

 

[bennyfein]

You need to take some zinc man

 

[DrX]

God forbid you don't want sex in this disease ridden society. You HAVE to be gay or something is wrong with you. Maybe I just want to have a different connection to people than via their private parts.

Yeah I just somebody that I can relate too..that's into the same things ...we can have conversations, debate and talk shyt about people

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

Yeah I just somebody that I can relate too..that's into the same things ...we can have conversations, debate and talk shyt about people

OP, your what my wife calls a "smart dumb nukka" lol don't take offense, we all are...we post on a damn msg board for one smh. We're intellectual and too smart for our own good...can't see the forest past the trees...yadda yadda. I mean asexual bruh...really?

anyway I feel you, you sound like your ready to enter the next phase of adult life but u have nobody that is ready to enter that next step with you. So a smart dumb nukka like yourself cries foul, ready for a change.

that change ain't going to come...or it may, but you need to ready and get off that woe is me soap box.

....or I could be just talking shyt like every other smart dumb nukka on this board lol

 

[Sauce Dab]

You find women attractive but You're sexually attracted to men

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

This makes dating a lot easier. Lol my problem is I'm attracted to all kinds of girls. I think the A-sexual wave is one a lot of cats should ride.

Men pursuing non sexual relationships with women could improve people's lives. It also takes all the power women have away from them.

I salute the a-sexual movement. Makes more sense that weird ass no fap movement.

 

[Scott Larock]

U not unsexually attracted to women

U just don't know how to get the women u want and throw pity parties

nope, he's too angry to date and he's angry to the point it's fukking with his life in other areas, my specialist told me this a while back. The downfall of being too socially aware or too much focus on the negative aspects of things or community or people.

My specialist told me fukk all that you-tube shyt, go have some fun cuz I was too mentality drained from the constant issues with stuff/ let it go. been feeling better ever since, sometimes being ignorant can make you happy. you gotta unwine sometimes.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

nope, he's too angry to date and he's angry to the point it's fukking with his life in other areas, my specialist told me this a while back. The downfall of being too socially aware or too much focus on the negative aspects of things or community or people.

My specialist told me fukk all that you-tube shyt, go have some fun cuz I was too mentality drained from the constant issues with stuff/ let it go. been feeling better ever since, sometimes being ignorant can make you happy. you gotta unwine sometimes.

That's why I look at a lot of these dudes and just shake my head. I used to think they were just trolling. Nah these dudes are straight up obsessed with any and everything that keeps them upset at the world. Your specialist was right. How do I know? I've been there. Used to be on all that 'youtube shyt' as your specialist described it.

But then I realized that a lot of these youtubers and bloggers don't believe 75% of the shyt they spew themselves. Shock jocking has become a new art form thanks to being able to monetize your content. Howard Stern paved the way and I bet even he doesn't look at it like that but it's true. Some people are great actors on their 9-5 job. You become a great enough actor at your Youtube gig and it pisses enough people off? Imagine the bread you could stack. Imagine the bread being stacked.

Pushing shyt that pisses folks off is a money maker because there is a growing population of folks who love to have shyt to be mad about. It's sad really.

Ya'll are not gonna believe me but one of the biggest examples of this right now on Youtube is Tommy Sotomayor. People on here talk shyt about dude but turn around and use his lexicon. They turn around and post his videos over here. That's called using someone's brand. You hate him but you push his shyt out and about? Who are you trying to convince?

 

[ultraflexed]

Definition. Asexual - a fakkit that that don't like dikk.

That's my old definition of what an asexual is but it's not funny anymore because I've grown to become one. Im still attracted to woman and want to court one, I just don't want to sleep with her.

Right not I don't get aroused sexually. I can turn on porn and feel nothing and just watch it as if it was a sitcom and won't even get hard or excited. Maybe it's from all the fukked up shyt I consumed over the years. Once u see a bytch gangbang by a group of midgets, there's not to much left to see after that, except the gay shyt.

I'm looking for something deeper. I want a real relationship with a woman. I want companionship. Basically a female best friend to go places and have conversations with. I rather talk then have sex or go on a adventurous trip then have sex with her.

I'm not sure how i got here mentally. Im not sure if it's my depression issues or my obsession with my career. I put so much thought into perfecting my craft it's like I have no energy for anything or anybody else.

I don't feel human anymore. I feeling like a machine. I've lost alot of what makes a person human in the first place. My humanity is dying more everyday as I embark on this journey to chase my dreams.

I'm stuck because...that type of relationship don't exist of you're not a cuck. I'm not into that. I don't want to have to hold my girl hand while she's taking dikk from another man. That's the only way a platonic relationship would work. Aint no Chick staying of she's not getting dikked down right.

So I'm trying to accept the fact that I'm probably going to die without ever having kids or a family.

My best advice......

Get off the coli.......for a month
Go and actually talk to women at a Starbucks or bookstore
Get off the coli.....once again
Dress nice...no I dont mean Air Force one's nice..
I mean wear a blazer nice.....
Be honest.....
Have your own place
Have a car


These are the basics..

 

[Weaver31]

I think its a combination of issues with OP.

First, I think you missing some things in your life or you just not fulfilled or dealing with too much stress. You may not be happy career wise, may be stressed because you working too much and not achieved exactly what you want. Maybe you working so hard and realizing you just not happy with career or financially or don't have the material possessions you want. I donno but something is missing.

Second, what type of women u like OP? Seems like you having a hard time attracting the perfect woman for you. Maybe you dealing with too much female BS. There just as many aint shyt chicks out here just like aint shyt men. With society giving women preference, sometimes some men can just get tapped out and get in IDGAF mode or even get depressed.

The depression, stress, and other shyt like feeling inadequate or underachieving can make a person focus on other shyt besides sex.

Third, maybe working out and eating better would help with stamina. The reason why lots on here accusing OP of being gay is because people believe its unusual for a person to not have any sexual desire. People are one dimensional and if you saying u not desiring the opposite sex sexually...they gonna automatically think you homosexual/lesbian. I wonder if OP have any health issues or take medication....as this can cause sexual dysfunction and erectile issues, as well as low libido. If OP aint desiring men sexually, then it may be some stress, health or medication issues that he dealing with or just tapped out from women because of their BS. Again, depression, inadequacy and feelings of failure can be serious and that can fuk up a person in many ways including sexually.

This seems like a combination of issues...and a healthy woman with a normal to high libido aint gonna have a man if she not getting the D. Especially if she real hot in the azz (old country phrase my moms folks used to say).

 

[New Username]

Y'all buggin

 

[Rozay Oro]

Seek professional help, don't have to be a perv but this a thread of yours I cant rocc with. Please seek professional help.