I'm not gay, but not sexually attracted to women anymore. I'm stuck in this weird purgatory

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Thats cool and all but you gotta get turned on sexual to the woman to make love when its right.

If not she gonna :trash::camby:
 

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That's why I look at a lot of these dudes and just shake my head. I used to think they were just trolling. Nah these dudes are straight up obsessed with any and everything that keeps them upset at the world. Your specialist was right. How do I know? I've been there. Used to be on all that 'youtube shyt' as your specialist described it.

But then I realized that a lot of these youtubers and bloggers don't believe 75% of the shyt they spew themselves. Shock jocking has become a new art form thanks to being able to monetize your content. Howard Stern paved the way and I bet even he doesn't look at it like that but it's true. Some people are great actors on their 9-5 job. You become a great enough actor at your Youtube gig and it pisses enough people off? Imagine the bread you could stack. Imagine the bread being stacked.

Pushing shyt that pisses folks off is a money maker because there is a growing population of folks who love to have shyt to be mad about. It's sad really.

Ya'll are not gonna believe me but one of the biggest examples of this right now on Youtube is Tommy Sotomayor. People on here talk shyt about dude but turn around and use his lexicon. They turn around and post his videos over here. That's called using someone's brand. You hate him but you push his shyt out and about? Who are you trying to convince?

Yeah you got dudes making money on YouTube playing video games, let thst si k in. Too lazy to play yourself but you watching others.

My boy is a hard core Christian and he told me he doesn't deal with the outside world only his relationship only his relationship with God.

Sounds funny but here's the thing.

1. He's always happy
2. Always got hoes, been married twice got a new bytch
3. Always socializing with new people
4. Doesn't know shyt about politics or blackness at all but people flock to him because he got hoes, people love him and he's always smiling.

It's funny cuz most of us would call him Square or laugh at him being religious but who's really eating out there? Dude literally don't care about nothing if he can't make money, getting p*ssy or kueeping him happy, he's just like a lot of dudes on they grind just in a different way.

And trust me it beats being angry at black women or the black community all day.
 
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With how many women i meet as clients or just during my work weeks cant even have time for a relationship anymore. Its not happening im too busy.
 
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Wait till artificial intelligence catches up to sex robots....

Women aren't built to develop a personal connection with you..only their offspring
you smart dumb nikkas will say anything to sound obscure and rebellious
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OP...April Fools Day is that way >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Unless you really on some psychological Friday the 13th steeze :gucci:.......cotdamn...one of yall brehs invite him to your Sunbelt towns for the weekend, show him the spots so he can get some poon, and stop making these jaded ass threads...:damn:.

Buffalo, NY been sounding like Hell on Earth for the last year from OP's ruminations....got jokers turning asexual and shiit.
 

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Not even going to try and read the essays in this thread..

OP needs to just log the fukk off...

I think its a combination of issues with OP.

First, I think you missing some things in your life or you just not fulfilled or dealing with too much stress. You may not be happy career wise, may be stressed because you working too much and not achieved exactly what you want. Maybe you working so hard and realizing you just not happy with career or financially or don't have the material possessions you want. I donno but something is missing.

Second, what type of women u like OP? Seems like you having a hard time attracting the perfect woman for you. Maybe you dealing with too much female BS. There just as many aint shyt chicks out here just like aint shyt men. With society giving women preference, sometimes some men can just get tapped out and get in IDGAF mode or even get depressed.

The depression, stress, and other shyt like feeling inadequate or underachieving can make a person focus on other shyt besides sex.

Third, maybe working out and eating better would help with stamina. The reason why lots on here accusing OP of being gay is because people believe its unusual for a person to not have any sexual desire. People are one dimensional and if you saying u not desiring the opposite sex sexually...they gonna automatically think you homosexual/lesbian. I wonder if OP have any health issues or take medication....as this can cause sexual dysfunction and erectile issues, as well as low libido. If OP aint desiring men sexually, then it may be some stress, health or medication issues that he dealing with or just tapped out from women because of their BS. Again, depression, inadequacy and feelings of failure can be serious and that can fuk up a person in many ways including sexually.

This seems like a combination of issues...and a healthy woman with a normal to high libido aint gonna have a man if she not getting the D. Especially if she real hot in the azz (old country phrase my moms folks used to say).
If he lived in ATL you would call him gay... :gucci:
 

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Drx what's your type? Physically and personality wise?

Im not sure....honestly i dont really have one... but I really just want somebody that understand me, that can help me out and somebody that i can develop a real connection with .

somebody that get my point of view and we can travel and build together
 
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