I'm only 5'8, and I'm #uglygang. Can someone give me some pointers to help me attract women

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Holler at pygmies exclusively. Holler 5' and under exclusively. Wear high heel boots like Prince.
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Nah, breh you on your own. It’s wild Wild West out here.
Facts.
Focus 100% on getting YOURSELF together and doing shyt you enjoy.

You will attract shyt when you feel good about yourself from doing things for yourself.

If you start working out to get hoes it's not gonna work on out how u think.

Just get comfortable being yourself and improve on what YOU want to improve on.

Don't look for anything outside of yourself to be your CORE of happiness.

You get str8 with yourself and you will get hoes cause you won't give a fukk if you pull em or not by that point...well HOPEFULLY you won't by then.

This is great advice for life in general.
Yeah. Looks aren't the end all be all.
Everything about everyone is balance and compensation.
You can be average in looks but talented and have a great aura and personality and people will find you more attractive than just your looks. It's depth/substance.

Just like a beautiful woman can attract someone's attention, then open her mouth and say something stupid or have an attitude & ppl think she's not attractive.
Soak this game up world. Balance yourself the fukk out. Let us dive deeper into this.

How does someone achieve balance and determine whether they have substance?

They have to self-reflect and be honest with themselves about who they are. It's not easy, but to have balance and substance it's necessary. There are beautiful, successful and talented people who aren't locked down. That's because they lack balance, substance or both.

I understand wanting to be alone, but people not wanting to be with someone is a red flag.
 

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I'm only 5'2 :yeshrug:. You brehs put far too much emphasis on height. Besides there are ways to appear taller.
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Have fun with life. Try shyt out in convos, figure out your style without being scared of "messing up" your interactions with people (whether talking to men or women, friends of friends or complete strangers). When you figure out your style and start loving your style, you'll be more comfortable in your own skin and you will genuinely not care if the person fukks with you or not. Because you'll be more attached and in love with your own style than some random girl you just met. If she fukks with you, cool. If not, your style is more important than her and her pusssy.

The game is not about changing to get girls. It's about learning yourself and picking the girls who fukk with you. The changing is done for yourself.

Also,ii don't want my words to be misinterpreted. it's not about not trying to get girls. You want the girl. Don't delude yourself into thinking you don't want her. You just have to make the distinction between wanting to get the girl and not investing that much emotional energy in the outcome.
 

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Have fun with life. Try shyt out in convos, figure out your style without being scared of "messing up" your interactions with people (whether talking to men or women, friends of friends or complete strangers). When you figure out your style and start loving your style, you'll be more comfortable in your own skin and you will genuinely not care if the person fukks with you or not. Because you'll be more attached and in love with your own style than some random girl you just met. If she fukks with you, cool. If not, your style is more important than her and her pusssy.

The game is not about changing to get girls. It's about learning yourself and picking the girls who fukk with you. The changing is done for yourself.

Also,ii don't want my words to be misinterpreted. it's not about not trying to get girls. You want the girl. Don't delude yourself into thinking you don't want her. You just have to make the distinction between wanting to get the girl and not investing that much emotional energy in the outcome.
Well said

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Stay in your lane

I got a feeling u just like all these dudes and women who living in fantasy island who believe they should have a sanna lathan or a Ghost on their arm..

I see it with sloppy fat hood chicks who walk around thinking they too good for a chubby dude or a decent looking guy...dude has to be Ghost in the suit, while they looking ms Cleo
 

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All you need is real self-confidence (If it's forced they can tell), hold a conversation, and be funny. You can be ugly and get women, just work on your personality. And don't come off needy and desperate. Women can tell when a nikka doesn't get any, because they sense the thirstiness in you.
Well said this part

I´ve noticed that women respond completely different based on confidence level. Perhaps it´s because having the confidence to go up to someone and being sure of what you want is not easy for most people and the men who do have the confidence to do come across way better.

How do you think people can develop real (not forced) confidence?
 

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Man I'm glad I grew up in this generation and in the hood. Anytime I read these threads dudes be like "you need to be 6,8", "You need to get to know her", etc but all I litterally do is go chill at the park or something and meet a few chickens some I even knew in HS and kick it for a minute than you end up getting head or ass that's litterally it. Don't need anything magical. I got bytches while I was in slides and gym shorts.
 
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