I'm so scared of working with majority white women.

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Stay safe! I've broken these rules in my career on purpose when I've secured different positions or to push change in my community.

Literally pushed parents to contact the superintendent on a principal at my school when I was a teacher.

I still fukk with them sometimes even in academia in a passive-aggressive way by asking leading questions in discussion panels
("How did these at-risk blk communities become so vulnerable?" :jbhmm::lolbron:). There is a bit more leeway to engage in discourse at the post-secondary education level, but while I'm unapolegetically blk, I still make sure I do EVERYTHING right on the back end. I'm that chick in my program who is happy and totally non-threatening ("she must have gotten in based off affirmative-action", "is she even published") that is also making the highest scores on comp exams, second author on research projects, and getting grants approved and I'm only a grad student.
It's gratifying to see them give me the :merchant: face when they scrambling to think of a sentence to write and I come in fresh off Overwatch, take a cursory glance at the material and ace the exam.

It burns them. Their whiteness won't let them acknowledge me especially b/c im happy and flippant but they also can't deny me. Regardless tho, I don't work or collaborate with any of them, and I handle my business. No one knows anything about my personal life and they aren't my friends.
side note, speaking of academia, what you think about this:
Dartmouth College Professors Investigated Over Sexual Misconduct Allegations
And social media is a big no no. My coworkers don't even know I'm on social media, much less my @Name. Also consider having multiple accounts without ur picture in them. Ya'll trippin.:wtf: They shouldn't even know where u live. ESPECIALLY if it's a nice neighborhood. Some will block promotions on some "that ****** doesn't need any more help" type nonsense.
ahahhahaha I bet people assume I live in South LA. If only they knew, I live in an upper middle class neighborhood :whistle:

You cant even google my name and find anything. I learned about aliases, a long time ago.
 

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I rather be judged a serial killer or a boring dude at work where people ignore me. more than getting likes and love and invited to events..

This. I used to be the guy who wanted everyone to like me, learned quickly being liked doesn't mean shyt at work and makes it easier for people to fukk with you. It's best to be stoic and keep to yourself. :yeshrug:
 

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This. I used to be the guy who wanted everyone to like me, learned quickly being liked doesn't mean shyt at work and makes it easier for people to fukk with you. It's best be stoic and keep to yourself. :yeshrug:
Breh, yeah. I was like that in my first corporate job. The dude who was forever into some shyt, fukking co-workers. I remembered there was another black dude who lowkey looked ashamed. Thinking back on it, he worked how I work now. I'm lowkey, about the bidness. That's the best way to be in ANY situation, man. fukk that social butterfly bullshyt.
 

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Hol up, I'm in a situation like this but... I work with 80% women. I'm the only black male at my job and they all flirt with me. Also all the women are black. (Haitian) they ask me if I have a girlfriend or am I married. I tell em nah. I don't tell em anything personal. Thing is.. there was one white chick that use to work at my job and her mom was the director (my boss) and knew I was talking to her. She didn't give me no heat hut she was a straight up republican Fox News nut. :whew:

THIS! When you a dude that mind is business around a workplace 80% women they tell you everything. Just now this girl just showed me a pic of her assed up. shyt! show me this stuff outside of work. :hhh: But she not white she black though :mjgrin:

Man this shyt is straight truth:wow:

I make it a point to not get too close with women at work but it's easy to get caught up :whew:
 

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I normally work in majority male teams because my job is so technical. The few women I encounter I just keep it professional, shyt ain't hard.

My latest contract though, the department is about 60% female. Strangest place I've ever worked. :scust:

I'm already engineering a move outta there, should be gone within a month :blessed:
 

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Man. I used to be in this position when I worked for a VERY conservative DoD contractor in a high level position. You really gotta be Black Moses in those places.

Now I own my own business and the majority of my clients are white. Whenever I get the social media friend request from them, I straight up drop punt that shìt.

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Gotta have your go to deflection phrases. If they try to get you to talk shyt about someone you say shyt like

"Oh really? She's always been nice to me though"

Cover your ass, and keep space. Cacs like invading personal space.
 

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That’s my life bro ski, it’s way too much temptation if you don’t pawg.

There aren’t many fat corporate chicks, they all work out.
 

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Real ass thread right here. And its not just white women, its Mexican/Latinas too.. Or better yet any female for that matter. Ya'll gotta realize alot of people have shytty home-lives or they really don't holler at the opposite sex outside of work in social settings. Either they're in a committed relationship or they're not really attractive, overweight, crappy communication skills, etc. -So the workplace is damn near like a club/bar/meat market to them. And this goes for some males as well. You got wack females at work thinkin' they the shyt but if you never knew them and saw them out in public you would never holler at them, even on some friendly shyt.


-a dude I'm cool with at work sometimes is like "Such n such wants to holla at you".. and the chick he's talkin' about is like 260 lbs-offensive lineman built.:gucci: I like "why would you even tell me this breh, I got nice options outside of this job place breh":martin:The work place is crazy these days:francis:
 

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Dope thread

No homo but Im happy I work with only men. Some rules still apply since Im the only black here with 99% male cacs.

I still avoid political, racial, religious topics, I avoid talking about personal life & drinking a lot or getting drunk at work functions. I skip most work functions, I only go once a while. No one from work is on my social media.

Its sad it has to be this way, but as a black man in a corporate world you have to move smart to keep your job & get ahead
 

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Don't fukk around where you work. If you want PAWGs go to a bar or tinder. Seriously.

Even if you stay clean, some people will still try to implicate you. Years ago I found out through someone that a White dude I was competing with for possible promotion may have been the source of a rumor I was pounding this White girl we work with (I wasn't). I think he was trying to blackball me. I ended up leaving anyway but you need to keep your shyt clean.
 
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