At the risk of sounding like a Col breh...I feel like I already know exactly the type of black men she dated, and exactly the type of black men she wouldn't give the time of day. There are successful, professional black men with money in every major city in this fukking country. Most are single if they're in the 25-35 age range. They have money, so if she was dating them she wouldn't bring that up. Because she brought it up I'm gonna assume she's been trying to find the charming hood nikka with poor social skills, no job, and no money. Who is always talking about some hustle or money idea that never plays out.