“I’m so TIRED of the EMOTIONAL LABOR that comes with dating… BLACK MEN. TIRED of the LACK of SUPPORT, MONEY and COMMITMENT. I don’t know what to do”

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she’s the type to have fukked white men on the regular in college with low selection criteria now we’re supposed to believe she really ever cared about black men when listening to her bs rant trying to wave the flag


never trust a ho3 named kaela. they didn’t even spell that shyt right
In her defense, a lot of black people smash white, or other non black, and then want black for marriage. I used to PAWG heavy, but married a black woman.

:hubie:
 

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Alot of bw think like this. Many just won't say it aloud. They purposely avoid men that will likely treat them well (because many of those BM will likely fall under what most young BW consider "lame" or "corny") in their 20s/early 30s. Then start complaining when their fantasy didn't work out.
 

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So? Y'all complain about black women all the time yet when a black woman says basically the same thing in reverse (but less rude and harsh) all of sudden it's a problem

I think I'm starting to understand the whole "choose" better thing...I've never had any issues with my past gf's. I would never make a video talking bad about them and they wouldn't do that to me.

If I've dated the women that are posted on here I would be bitter as well. I don't know this woman's dating history but it's the black men that she chose, just like the black women that get posted on here by hurt dudes just to fuel their agenda.

People need to take accountability and say "I messed up, I have flaws, I choose the wrong people" instead of "black men/black women aren't ish"

Generalizing just irks me
 
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Oh...she just hate dark skin brehs....got it...

What else is new?
:dead:it might be her dad, but i think her bd is dark skin. dude in the birth video is dark skin.

she was engaged to her bd but chose to end the engagement and be a single mom, so all that "they don't marry us" isn't even her experience since she had someone willing to marry her



i think she's insecure about being biracial, so she just agrees with online groups that claim to be progressive & pro-black. she repeats lgbt babble on her page.

she's fit, looks like a bathed Zoe Kravitz, good job...honestly she could find somebody but i don't think a sane man/woman is going to want to be with someone talking crazy about their identity especially if that's an already oppressed identity
 
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At the risk of sounding like a Col breh...I feel like I already know exactly the type of black men she dated, and exactly the type of black men she wouldn't give the time of day. There are successful, professional black men with money in every major city in this fukking country. Most are single if they're in the 25-35 age range. They have money, so if she was dating them she wouldn't bring that up. Because she brought it up I'm gonna assume she's been trying to find the charming hood nikka with poor social skills, no job, and no money. Who is always talking about some hustle or money idea that never plays out.

According to what I gathered, she is a single mother...

She seems like a decent amount of the single mothers I know/talk to/knockdown/hide from

They have essentially the same mindset Larry Hughes did when he thought the Cavs were gonna build around him instead of Lebron...

And then use that mindset towards men who are in a higher class financially than they are...

Which leads to them getting their feelings hurt...

what demands are you making when you can't bring anything to the table besides sex?🤣
 

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At the risk of sounding like a Col breh...I feel like I already know exactly the type of black men she dated, and exactly the type of black men she wouldn't give the time of day. There are successful, professional black men with money in every major city in this fukking country. Most are single if they're in the 25-35 age range. They have money, so if she was dating them she wouldn't bring that up. Because she brought it up I'm gonna assume she's been trying to find the charming hood nikka with poor social skills, no job, and no money. Who is always talking about some hustle or money idea that never plays out.

You're right. Men with means always believe they can do better, so they'll never commit. Same with women because some of them are never satisfied.

Better communication skills and keeping your word always prevail in these situations.
 

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In her defense, a lot of black people smash white, or other non black, and then want black for marriage. I used to PAWG heavy, but married a black woman.

:hubie:
yeah but as a woman she’s in the position to choose whoever she wants to deal with and chose wrong

most nikkas don’t have the luxury to be selective like her but she wants to get on here and cry. we just take whatever the market offers. the primary reason dudes might date outside of what we truly desire for marriage

the nikka she wanted probably already showed signs of being toxic but she loved him for it. now he fukked her over with a ww, and wants to throw all bm under the bus who try to move in good faith but weren’t good enough for her for some reason foh

they were too “ashy” or something. those nighas..
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Yep, that "ride or die" term tells me everything I need to know about the type of dudes she probably likes.


Even then, she's the common denominator in all of these scenarios so there's something's wrong with her, bcause saying all black men are what she's describing is nonsense.

:camby:
 

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Does she think white men out here looking for marriage?

NO MAN IS LOOKING FOR MARRIAGE. MEN DO NOT LOOK FOR WIVES.

A wife stumbles into their world, not the opposite.

If she has been in relationships and the men don’t see her as marriage material that is HER FAULT.

Maybe she should talk to wives instead of venting on TikTok. We will tell her where she has gone wrong.

:francis:
 
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