“I’m so TIRED of the EMOTIONAL LABOR that comes with dating… BLACK MEN. TIRED of the LACK of SUPPORT, MONEY and COMMITMENT. I don’t know what to do”

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

That video was liked by 93.1k people by the way which is very disturbing

How many of them are real Black people.

Congrats on the Plat.

EDIT: Considering the likes & comments, Black Community is donzo,
They think we bad, watch for the new gen of brehs seeing this shyt everyday, they really finna have hatred for them women.

Nope

Stop feeding into this shyt. There needs to be an effort to educate people on navigating online agendas so that they don't become disillusioned or co-opted by them. This is just a new era of mental warfare, and many amongst us are not equipped to handle it. Many have already been victimized There's people who will purposely drive the likes up of these types of posts to give you exactly the impression you got. It's a concerted effort. The defence is not engaging them or discussing the validity of their posts. Another strategy is needed.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Most of them are really pro black woman

They are pro women, the blackness is just icing on the cake to try and standout from their competition when posturing for white men

 

[Wildhundreds]

I'd argue people with means commit all the time, hence why the marriage rate for higher income people is increasing. They're getting married a lot. I think the problem with the woman in the OP is that she wants a man who is specifically designed not to be any of the things she claims she wants. Emotionally stable, financially stable, mature, respectful, committed, etc. You can't be those things while pretending to be a thug and not having a good job. But that's the type of black man she is probably searching for.

When she finally grows up and starts looking for successful black men she's gonna run into the commitment issue you mentioned, but for a different reason. Most successful men are not out here looking to date or save a single mom. They'll fukk you for a few months but that's it. Single moms are an emotional and financial dead end that most successful men have no interest in committing to. Which means her dating prospects are extremely limited. She can get on tiktok and pretend like a white dude is gonna willingly date her and raise a black man's child but that ain't happening in 95% of cases. Maybe she finds the 5% and things work out. More than likely she's gonna meet the 95% and trust me, that white man's mother will make sure that relationship doesn't prosper. Understandably so...

In all seriousness, everyone can't marry someone successful. Thats why I said someone with means, or making a decent income. A young black man who went from broke in his mothers basement to making a decent income living on his own, is likely to cheat on his woman and explore the options he didn't have before. Or come up with a stupid reason to leave his girl to save face and pursue other options. And this goes for women too who couldn't get a man, then she hits her stride and have men coming out the wood works. So thats why I said if both sexes come to the table with clear conversation and honesty, a lot of these issues can be avoided.

 

[Balla]

Their “problackness” is always rooted in selfishnes rather than a race of people. It’s all about worship and serving of the black woman to prove she is worthy of the white man. Then nikka simps dont realize they part of the hotep wench street team

The thing is they all sound exactly the same. It’s as if they went to a school for this shyt.

 

[Wildhundreds]

It's been open season on scrutinizing black men's image, conduct, etc for decades. Everywhere from the media, black women, etc. We should be used to it by now.

Regardless of what women say, they ALWAYS do a 180 when they come across something they like. Ive seen it too many times to be swayed by what talking heads say on the internet.. Even the talking heads are going to change their position depending upon the person they meet. Its like the circle of life.

 

[MajesticLion]

Unceasing psyops.

 

[BobbyWojak]

'passport bro' shyt is corny but I always wanted to use this meme

 

[Apollo Creed]

The thing is they all sound exactly the same. It’s as if they went to a school for this shyt.

Most learned in college but now they learn as teens on their message boards/FB groups/ etc.

It’s a legit cult lol men should just listen/watch for the buzzwords and disengage or proceed with caution

 

[YouMadd?]

lady, put your phone down and take your kid home…

 

[Sterling Archer]

What does it say about her that she can think black men are that lame…but she can’t keep one?

That’s like me cuffing a girl that works at Popeyes but I can’t even keep her. How?! I’m a damn superhero to that level of woman. That would say more about me than her if that was the case.

 

[BobbyWojak]

Nah I seen somebody that pulled her whole card… and ppl like her that vent about who they choose

 

[Mindfield333]

Serious question,

Why'd the man knock her up and why'd he leave?

We only know half the story. But breh should’ve taken the necessary precautions if he didn’t want kids. Shotgun weddings aren’t really a thing these days(in the literal sense) so there’s nobody pressing you to commit.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Congrats on the Plat.

EDIT: Considering the likes & comments, Black Community is donzo,
They think we bad, watch for the new gen of brehs seeing this shyt everyday, they really finna have hatred for them women.

Gen Z aren’t “pro black”

 

[V Skyye]

The fact that she’s 19 with a kid makes it hard for me to take her seriously. She sounds like she’s regurgitating talking points from other Black women. Most men her age aren’t looking to commit like that so she played herself by getting pregnant. If you have a kid in your teens and early 20s it’s really a gamble hoping it works out for the long haul. If she’s dating in an age appropriate bracket, it definitely will be difficult to find commitment, marriage, and money.

But going by the likes and comments she’s choosing this direction because Black gender wars are a hot topic. And she probably really believes what she’s saying due to naïvety and frustration about her situation. But women have to learn early to walk away from ain’t shyt men or men just looking to have sex and play games. And unfortunately at her age it will be most of them whether they are older or younger. She should be in school, learning a trade, or learning about herself at this age anyway.

 

[Serious]

The fact that she’s 19 with a kid makes it hard for me to take her seriously. She sounds like she’s regurgitating talking points from other Black women. Most men her age aren’t looking to commit like that so she played herself by getting pregnant. If you have a kid in your teens and early 20s it’s really a gamble hoping it works out for the long haul. If she’s dating in an age appropriate bracket, it definitely will be difficult to find commitment, marriage, and money.

But going by the likes and comments she’s choosing this direction because Black gender wars are a hot topic. And she probably really believes what she’s saying due to naïvety and frustration about her situation. But women have to learn early to walk away from ain’t shyt men or men just looking to have sex and play games. And unfortunately at her age it will be most of them whether they are older or younger. She should be in school, learning a trade, or learning about herself at this age anyway.

If she's 19 then of course the men are "broke" .